Everyone in our family has their own must-do list.
For me, I've gotta have my Dole whip and a Mickey Bar - at least once each. I have to ride It's a Small World - I'm the only one of my crew that likes it, but they all ride it to make me happy. Must ride the safari - and call all the relevant animals by character names, Simba, etc.
My hubby got his first turkey leg on our last trip, and I suspect that will be a tradition for him.
My daughter is also all about the safari. The oldest child's trip isn't complete unless he's been on ToT at least 5 times. And the youngest has to meet characters and pin trade.
And that's the beauty of Disney for us - everyone has special things they want to do, but we all get to accomplish our goals in the same place.