This December will be the 5th year in 6 years that we have a Disney trip (cruise or WDW) right before/after Christmas. I have asked the kids if they'd rather have a Disney trip or presents from mom and dad and they look at us like we have two heads. Of course WDW/cruise wins!!!! It's more money than we would spend on Christmas presents but we very seldom eat out, we go to the cheap theater (all 4 of us for $10 and we don't order snacks), DH takes leftovers to work, he parks in offsite lot for work and takes a shuttle saving a ton, ect.
Savings for one year
$1600 - Only eat out once/month vs once/weekly at $40 meal
$300 - Going to the cheap theater vs Cinemark and snacks for 6 movies/yr
$1300 - DH taking leftovers vs buying lunch daily at $5/day (and that would be cheap)
$1800 - DH parking in offsite lot at $150 difference/month
$5000 Total saved and that doesn't even include having the trips be our Christmas presents to/from the 4 of us! Of course Santa still visits. They don't miss out at all. In fact, DS really doesn't even know what it's like to have a ton a presents at Christmas from us but he does have the memories of the Mickey Boat and Mickey Mouse's House. The other day when we started the movie Up and the castle came up at the beginning, he said "Look, it's my favorite place!!!"
My little nephew is the same age as DS but has never been on vacation. After Christmas, my sis said that her son had SO many toys and that most would probably never even get opened. A couple weeks ago, he got a new four wheeler. They always go out to eat. She spends tons of money on her hair. And then she has the nerve to tell a mutual friend in a snarky voice with me standing right there "She goes on a cruise like every 6 months!" Not true, only been on 2 cruises and they were 13 months apart. I pointed that out and she said "Well, you go on vacation like every 6 months." I told her that sometimes we do (we try to sneak in a non-Disney things in between). But as I made clear, it's a priority to us. We sacrifice other things.