princesspumpkin
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arminnie said:I lived in Northern California (Silicon Valley) for many years and have a degree from Stanford Business School. While I am not rich by any means, I know many, many people who are incredibly wealthy - some of the names you would recognize in an instant. (I am not bragging - it's just a matter of circumstance.)
I would say that 99.9% of them think that paying $800 for a pair of fashion shoes is just ridiculous. Now if they were custom made for support, etc that would be a different story. The ultra wealthy people that I know are for the most part just folks. I had some of these people to dinner at my tiny apartment and even though they may live in large homes it didn't really matter to them.
I have one acquaintance who literally has more money than Teresa Heinz - he does live in a nice home (but not a mansion) but does not live an extravagant live style by any means.
Most of us are limited on what we can buy because of our finances. I've had some interesting conversations with some people who are not. Many of these people grew up in low to moderate income families so it is not like they have always had money. They all said that they learned quickly that you still buy what you need and can use if you have any sense at all rather than just buying because can.
I personally don't care what kind of shoes someone wears. If an $800 pair of shoes is SO important to you and you can afford it then have at it, but it's still a DECISION that reflects ones' value system like most other acquisitions.
Other people have noted that she is really frugal (or cheap) most of the time. So, what's wrong with splurging on something you really like? I look at a lot of Dis'ers who only stay in the Deluxe resorts at WDW. They spend thousands of more dollars than other people do because 1. that's what they like and 2. that's what they can afford. Who am I to judge? She's frugal about most things , and splurges on some things. As long as she isn't paying my mortrgage (although I wish she were), I read InStyle magazine and love some of the fashions in there. They aren't too flashy and look quite classy or casual. Then I see the price - and many times they might cost hundreds of dollars! If I made millions each year and saw outfits that I liked which cost hundreds of dollars, I don't think that says something negative about my value system. It just says that I can afford something more expensive than when I made only $30,000. I'm not mad at her
