What’s on your Thanksgiving menu

We're hosting my brother, my sister and her family this year, so I'm not sure what we're doing yet. My guess:

Turkey (and probably a turkey breast, too, just so we have enough)
2 kinds of dressing, one made with cornbread and one with regular bread
Mashed potatoes
Sweet potatoes
Yeast rolls
Caesar salad (DW insists on something green and raw, so it's our token healthy thing :D )
Roasted brussel sprouts (I guess this is healthy, too)
Gravy
Cranberry sauce
Pumpkin pie
Chocolate pie
Apple cake

We live in Kentucky.

Salad and sprouts cancel out the pies! I love, love, love apple cake! Unfortunately I don’t bake!
 
I live in the Deep South

We will have

2 fried turkeys
Cornbread dressing
mashed potatoes
gravy
praline topped sweet potatoes
roasted butternut squash, brussel sprouts, pecans and cranberries (it probably has an actual name but that's what it is)
green salad
broccoli and rice casserole
"crack" green beans--green beans cooked with bacon, brown sugar and soy sauce
dumplings (with or without chicken)
speckled butter beans and field peas
cranberry sauce
yeast rolls

pecan pie
sweet potato pie
coconut cream pie
chocolate pie
apple pie


ETA: This year adding appetizers since it always takes longer than expected and the kids are starving before dinner. So a vegetable tray, French Quarter cheese ball (or maybe its Bourbon Street but its a cheese ball with a praline type of coating on the outside), and just some cheese and crackers.

Appetizers or important I think! My mom’s neighbor always brought the most amazing broccoli casserole! I miss that!
 
Typical when hosting for T-Day:

A crock pot of hot spiced apple cider


Stuffed mushrooms (my elder sister always makes them; I never do hot appetizers since the ovens are generally full)
Antipasti platter or crudités tray; all vegetables.
Olive tray

Turkey, whole fish (normally stuffed w/ Swiss chard and onions. One of my BILs makes it). Possibly a ham
Stuffing, dressing, or Rachel Ray's "stuffin' muffins" (great for portion control at buffets)
Homemade gravy. One with cream and the other w/o.
Homemade cranberry sauce or chutney. So easy I've no idea why the canned stuff still exists.

Sauteed string or green beans- if this dish is not on the table guests would think I'd lost my mind
Corn or Indian pudding
Mashed cauliflower or either white or wild rice.
Brussels sprouts. Some with meat, some w/o.
What ever vegetable looks good at market.
A mounded salad

A vegetable soup. Normally carrot, Caribbean pumpkin, or butternut soup; or a leek and potato soup, country style.

A nut and fruit (dried and fresh) tray with cheeses made in America platter.
Dessert can be homemade or store bought and I generally go for a fruit pie, a Shaker pie or lemon bar, and a cake.
 
We're in the south & will have the following at our house:

Roasted Turkey - sometimes DH will also smoke a turkey, but I think, this year, we're just doing roasted turkey
Cornbread Dressing
Mashed Potatoes & Gravy
Sweet Potato Casserole (the one w/ the pecan & brown sugar topping)
Sauteed Green Beans w/ Bacon & Onion
Corn Souffle
Roasted & Honey-Glazed Butternut Squash & Apples w/ Pralines
Kale Salad w/ Cranberries
Cranberry Sauce (homemade - not the store bought stuff, but I'll also have a can of the jellied stuff for people who have to have the "ridges")
A "Crudite" Platter w/ raw carrots, sliced cucumbers, & pickles - the kids like it & eat the raw veggies better than all the various cooked sides
Yeast Rolls

And I haven't decided on desserts yet... something pumpkin, a pecan pie, & maybe an apple-spice cake & then whatever my mom & my mother-in-law bring.

I am NOT making macaroni & cheese this year, & I'm trying to talk my mom out of baked beans.

In addition to desserts, my mother-in-law may be bringing dumplings & fruit salad, & my mom may be bringing orange jello. She makes it every year - orange jello w/ crushed pineapple & mandarin oranges. The kids love it.

I haven't decided yet if I'm doing deviled eggs. They're "tradition," but they've always seemed more Eastery to me than Thanksgiving-y.
Deviled eggs are a must around here as is my Mac and cheese! I have plenty of friends whose grandmother always brings the dumplings! Another orange jello! This thread is the first I’ve heard of that! The squash sounds amazing!
 

It does add a level of difficulty, doesn't it? "Take these things that are hard to cook correctly and you only cook them once/year. Now make them taste awesome, because it's a food-related holiday. Go!"

Yikes. I may have already had a turkey-related bad dream.

One year I didn’t have the turkey dethawed in time. Another year, I burnt the onions on the green bean casserole. Another year I over cooked the stuffing. It’s hard for me to say my menu because I have to have back ups for stuff I screw up.
 
I have a 3.3 pound turducken roast, completely wrapped in bacon with sausage stuffing between the layers. It just sounded good, we'll see how it goes. Also twice baked potatoes and Stove Top stuffing. Just the two of us and we don't eat much. Also don't want leftovers because we leave Saturday for 13 nights.
 
One year I didn’t have the turkey dethawed in time. Another year, I burnt the onions on the green bean casserole. Another year I over cooked the stuffing. It’s hard for me to say my menu because I have to have back ups for stuff I screw up.

My mother and father would tell the story of the 1st Thanksgiving my mother, 20 years old, tried to cook. She took the turkey--frozen and still wrapped in plastic--and put it in the oven at 350.

After they cleared out the smoke from their apartment, they ended up having cereal.
 
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It does add a level of difficulty, doesn't it? "Take these things that are hard to cook correctly and you only cook them once/year. Now make them taste awesome, because it's a food-related holiday. Go!"

Yikes. I may have already had a turkey-related bad dream.

And if you fail then you have plenty of people around to observe it! And make sure the house is spotless and the table is beautiful! 😋
 
My mother and father would tell the story of the 1st Thanksgiving my mother, 20 years old, tried to cook. She took the turkey--frozen and still wrapped in plastic--and put it in the oven at 350.

After they cleared out the smoke from their apartment, they ended up having cereal.
My father told a similar story of their first Thanksgiving but it was midnight before they ate!
 
Appetizers or important I think! My mom’s neighbor always brought the most amazing broccoli casserole! I miss that!

We have always done the one with the canned soup and cheeze whiz. But this year, I am going to go all from scratch and make it with an actual cheese sauce and another sauce in place of the soup. The recipe sounds really good. Actually only me, ods and yds eat the stuff and they eat anything so it won't be hard to please them LOL.
 
My sister and I watched Mom cook Thanksgiving dinner for years, but she was one of those cooks that didn’t want anyone else underfoot while she was cooking, so we just observed. She passed away ten days before Thanksgiving nine years ago. We were not only grieving, but wondering if we could pull off a dinner we had never prepared before. I still don’t know how we did it, but we did. We did it the year the oven went up in flames when we turned it on to preheat a couple years later, and the following year when the dishwasher died right after loading all the dirty prep dishes in. We really had to scramble the year the oven died. Fortunately we had a large countertop oven we could bake rolls and casseroles in, and a countertop roaster we squeezed the turkey in. Sometimes you just have to get creative!
 
The “how is your turkey cooked” thread has me wondering what people typically serve for Thanksgiving? And what part of the country do you reside in? Any special traditions?

Mom passed away at 57, since then I try to recreate her meal though I don’t have anyone bring dishes so it’s mostly the things she made.

We live in the Deep South.

Two smoked turkeys from our meat market
Spiral sliced ham (meat market)
Turkey Gravy (meat market)
Jellied and whole berry cranberry sauce
Cornbread dressing
Mac and cheese casserole
Pralined sweet potato casserole
Green bean casserole (for my son) 🤮
Deviled eggs
Marinations artichoke hearts
From local bakery:
Pound cake
Carrot cake
Pecan pie
Sweet potato pie
Egg custard
Pocketbook rolls
Butter biscuits

Tea and lots of wine to drink

We enjoy mimosas for breakfast while we prepare lunch!

As I said in another thread my Mom and I drink White Port wine as we get last minute things around (translated; or the hour and half before dinner ;) ). She loves to tell the stories over and over about her and Granny (her MIL) drinking the wine and all that went on afterwards.

I'm sorry you don't share Thanksgiving with your Mom anymore but I'm sure you'll do a great job recreating....:love:
 
As I said in another thread my Mom and I drink White Port wine as we get last minute things around (translated; or the hour and half before dinner ;) ). She loves to tell the stories over and over about her and Granny (her MIL) drinking the wine and all that went on afterwards.

I'm sorry you don't share Thanksgiving with your Mom anymore but I'm sure you'll do a great job recreating....:love:

Thank you, we were so blessed to have her as long as we did! It definitely takes the edge off worrying about everything being perfect!
 
Deviled eggs are a must around here as is my Mac and cheese! I have plenty of friends whose grandmother always brings the dumplings! Another orange jello! This thread is the first I’ve heard of that! The squash sounds amazing!

We've always done the deviled eggs, & I know, if I don't do them, someone is going to ask, "Where are the deviled eggs?" or exclaim pitifully, "There aren't any deviled eggs?!"

Plus, as any good southern lady, I have not 1 but 2 different deviled egg platters (which is really one of the only reasons I make deviled eggs - so I can use my platter), & my DH will say, "But what about your egg platter?"

But they just seem more Eastery to me... But I'll probably cave.

And, here, the macaroni & cheese has always been for the kids who don't like mashed potatoes. And those same kids don't like baked macaroni & cheese. They only like it done on the stove - boil the noodles, drain, put back on the heat, & then add milk, butter, & cheese. And it becomes another thing I'm trying to get done at the last minute. So, since our macaroni & cheese isn't the really good baked kind & we don't have as many kids coming this year, I was thinking I could cut the mac & cheese from the list!

The orange jello is a decades-old tradition in our family!

And the roasted, honey-glazed squash & apples w/ pralines is really simple. DH & I were in Publix a few years ago the week before Thanksgiving, & the cooking lady w/ the samples was demonstrating the recipe & giving out samples & recipe cards. We tried it, liked it, & decided to add it to our Thanksgiving menu. Well, our older DS LOVED it, so it's become one of those "must" dishes at Thanksgiving now.

But, basically, you just chunk up some butternut squash & good, crisp apples - season w/ a little salt & cinnamon, drizzle w/ some olive oil & honey, roast for a while, then drizzle w/ more honey & praline pieces & roast some more.
 
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One year I didn’t have the turkey dethawed in time. Another year, I burnt the onions on the green bean casserole. Another year I over cooked the stuffing. It’s hard for me to say my menu because I have to have back ups for stuff I screw up.

Another "What Me Thaw?" poster. Had the nerve to be peeved at Mom and older sister for hacking the bird up to make it thaw faster. And yes, we didn't start eating until about the time the family normally left.

Then there was the "St. Patrick's Day" bird I stuffed w/ so much chopped green herbs under the skin it almost glowed. Thank goodness the color changed to brown when roasted.

Finally, there was the bird I stuffed 2 sticks of butter under the breast placed on a half sheet to roast. The excess butter rolled off one side of the pan directly on to the kitchen floor in the back of the oven. I leveled the range after that.

Every "disaster" gave me and the guests in the know a new something to laugh about and share the goof with others in the years to come:).
 
Typical when hosting for T-Day:

A crock pot of hot spiced apple cider


Stuffed mushrooms (my elder sister always makes them; I never do hot appetizers since the ovens are generally full)
Antipasti platter or crudités tray; all vegetables.
Olive tray

Turkey, whole fish (normally stuffed w/ Swiss chard and onions. One of my BILs makes it). Possibly a ham
Stuffing, dressing, or Rachel Ray's "stuffin' muffins" (great for portion control at buffets)
Homemade gravy. One with cream and the other w/o.
Homemade cranberry sauce or chutney. So easy I've no idea why the canned stuff still exists.

Sauteed string or green beans- if this dish is not on the table guests would think I'd lost my mind
Corn or Indian pudding
Mashed cauliflower or either white or wild rice.
Brussels sprouts. Some with meat, some w/o.
What ever vegetable looks good at market.
A mounded salad

A vegetable soup. Normally carrot, Caribbean pumpkin, or butternut soup; or a leek and potato soup, country style.

A nut and fruit (dried and fresh) tray with cheeses made in America platter.
Dessert can be homemade or store bought and I generally go for a fruit pie, a Shaker pie or lemon bar, and a cake.
Oh yes, I forgot the hot apple cider. We have it every Thanksgiving and Christmas, my Mom's recipe.
 
Just the hubs and I usually so it will be smol (His family is up north and mine does appetizers with us the day before or after because I usually work on Thursday.)
1 Turkey breast done in herbed brine
smashed potatoes
roasted sweet potatoes
green bean not-casserole (No soup, instead I caramelize onions and mushrooms then roast them with green beans and diced garlic.)
I'm also lobbying for something with cheese. I love this mac recipe but making the sauce is an undertaking so maybe broccoli gratin.
 
Turkey
homemade stuffing
steamed broccoli
garlic mashed potatoes
sweet potatoes baked with cinnamon sugar and apples, NOT marshmallows
homemade applesauce
green bean casserole
cranberry jello salad (I'm Mormon, have to have at least one jello salad on the table!)
a salad made with butter lettuce and spinach because those are my favorites, my son will pick the spinach out of his salad because he doesn't like it and my daughter will pick the butter lettuce out for the same reason

dessert is pumpkin pie, cheesecake if I get around to making it, and/or homemade brownies
 
It is just my DH, my DM, and myself. We make enough to have this for 3 dinners. They have food allergies and years ago I was able to find non dairy recipes so we have:

Turkey
Cranberry sauce
Crock pot stuffing
Sweet potato casserole with marshmallows
Corn bread muffins
Green beans
Pumpkin pie
 
Just the hubs and I usually so it will be smol (His family is up north and mine does appetizers with us the day before or after because I usually work on Thursday.)
1 Turkey breast done in herbed brine
smashed potatoes
roasted sweet potatoes
green bean not-casserole (No soup, instead I caramelize onions and mushrooms then roast them with green beans and diced garlic.)
I'm also lobbying for something with cheese. I love this mac recipe but making the sauce is an undertaking so maybe broccoli gratin.

The sauce is basically a Bechamel sauce and can be made in advance. I make a similar version of the recipe you posted excepting the cheeses are different, I use whole milk, I butter the casserole dish and it doesn't call for smoked paprika which sounds like a divine addition to me!

Per Andre Soltner:
Advance preparation: You can make a béchamel up to a day ahead of using it. Keep in the refrigerator. If you lay a sheet of plastic or wax paper directly on the top, there is less chance that a skin will form. If it does, whisk vigorously when you reheat the béchamel and the sauce should be as smooth as it was when you made it. Thin out if necessary with milk or stock.

Since you are adding cheese to the bechamel, re-heat over a double boiler and whisk vigorously to re incorporate. Or just add all the ingredients of the sauce in advance, except the cheese, and refrigerate. When you re heat add the cheese and no double boiler is needed.
 













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