Dugette
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Congratulations on your little miracle!!! Ours is due in just 10 short weeks, yikes! Time is flying.


Funny. I don't think we could wait to find out boy/girl, but somehow I'm (usually) okay with waiting for Disney. I think part of it is that I know this will be a huge adjustment for us and I like the idea of having plenty of time to adjust to parenting and get to know our princess before attempting Disney.I cannot believe you have the patience to wait until late 2013/Early 2014 to take baby to Disney for the first timeYes, I have the patience to wait to see if baby is a boy or girl (doesn't bother me!) but I don't know that I could wait that long for our next Disney trip!!!
Such a relief to pass that point! It's so easy to have doubts about the outcome when it's been so hard to get here, as you know, but passing that point really makes things feel real. Love it! Congrats again on your rainbow baby!Also Congratulations on making it to viability day. That was such a sigh of relief for me. This baby is a "rainbow baby" for us that was a long time coming (over 3 years) and every day I get to be pregnant with a healthy baby is a miracle all over for me.
Gosh, I hope our kids don't hate Disney. I guess we're thinking "train them young!" But, who knows, they may rebel...So glad we're not the only crazy Disney parents to be. My DH and I joke that our children are going to hate Disney so we have to drag them to Disney as often as possible while they are still little and we can make them go![]()
I just love it! It's so comforting to know she's dancing around in there. The first time I felt her was while driving. I take the bus to/from work, though, and I think that lulls her to sleep, as it does me.Congrats on feeling and SEEING the movement regularly now. I just LOVED that part. It made my days at work so much better when I could just feel her moving around the whole time. She always was very active during my long car rides to and from work!![]()

Great ideas for outings! We'll definitely have to go to the zoos around here. Maybe the aquarium if we take her on a short trip up north to Duluth sometime.Yes we bring her all sorts of places!! This past weekend we went to the aquarium and she loved it! Friday I brought her to a little zoo by myself and she loved that too. She loves watching other kids. Restaurants are still a bit tricky, mainly bc she can't sit up in a high chair yet and does NOT want to be in her car seat, so we are constantly switching holding her. And frankly we must not be that interesting LOL. She would do better IMO at Rainforest or something right now, with stuff to see the whole time. I hope that once she can sit in a high chair & can interact a bit more, she'll be better at them. Also I don't feel comfortable nursing there, so I did it in the car beforehand, which helped.
I can't remember where I saw this tip, but I remember somebody posting something somewhere about bringing their Bumbo seat to restaurants, as their baby was able to sit next to them in the booth and see what was happening. Not sure if that will help or not, but thought I'd pass it along. That's a good idea about nursing in the car when you go out. I'm not sure what my comfort level will be, so I'll keep that in mind.
Thank you!Anyway I'm rambling. Your newest baby bump is even cuter than the last!
It definitely is a breath of relief, but still so many scary things too, like you mention. Last Monday, I had some spotting and had to call the midwife, just in case. Turned out not to be a problem, but the scares never stop. Luckily, things have been mostly great. And I really do appreciate the pregnancy moments...sometimes I just want to stop time right here and enjoy the moment and the anticipation of what's to come. I would guess that's probably common with those of us who took a long time to get to this point.And congrats on making it to week 24/viability week!!We were also counting down to that week, and then from there you could have a nice breath of relief as each week goes by. I think by week 27 or 28 survivability rate is at like 98%? Something high like that. Ahh the joys of trying for a baby - makes you really appreciate every little bit of the pregnancy! But it's all so scary, too.
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Thanks. I'm glad someone thinks I'm normal!Aww, your bump pic is so cute! I don't think you look exceptionally small, you look like you are right where you should be!I don't think you get really big until the last few months! Glad to hear everything is going well and you are enjoying being pregnant! It will be fun to bring your little Princess to Disney for the first time!
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Thanks for the story! I hope our situation will be like that too. And I'm not TOO worried, but I do see two scenarios with Bailey:Dugette,
Just in case you are worried about your pets accepting/loving your baby let me reassure you. When I was pregnant with our son we were REALLY worried, we had adopted a dog from the pound who (we discovered after bringing her home) really didn't like kids and would actually snap at them. It wasn't an issue for us at the time as we didn't have any kiddos and had been told we couldn't have any (my son is a miracle baby). We just made sure our friends with kids knew our dog was off limits to the kiddos. Flash forward several years later and surprise I get pregnant out of the blue. Our vet kept telling us not to worry that our dog would know that our child was part of her "pack" and she wouldn't be aggressive to him. Low and behold the vet was right. I have a great picture of my son sitting next to my dog when he is about 18 months old eating dog food out of her bowl. Sharing food is the hardest thing to ask a dog to do so I knew they would be ok forever. Yes, I know, I'm a bad mom for taking a picture before telling my son not to eat the dog food but it was sooo cute(and I knew it wouldn't hurt him).
1.) She gets jealous because she doesn't want to share me. She is so ridiculously attached to me. She has to be on me almost all the time and, if Kitty sits on my lap, she sometimes gets jealous and chases her off. I'm hoping she doesn't try to crowd out the baby.
2.) She looks at the baby as an extension of me and loves her to pieces. Of course, there are drawbacks to this also, as baby shouldn't be smothered to pieces with puppy love. Bailey is aggressive and enthusiastic with her kisses and cuddles.
I do think we'll be okay, but I want to set things up/prepare the animals in advance as much as possible. I think Kitty will be okay. Like most cats, she's not fond of change, but she's adapted quite well through a lot of changes (moving several times, me moving in, getting a DOG!). As long as her food supply is not disturbed, she's happy.
Thank you! That's so cool about Dylan kicking your water!I love your updates! It makes me so happy for you, each time I hear you how are feeling and doing. I will never forget the first time I felt Dylan moving around in my stomach. I also remember laying in bed, reading, with a cup of water balanced on my stomach (I was too lazy to put it on the night stand), and he kicked so hard it almost spilled the cup!

Yeah, I figure she will be in our room the first couple of months too. I still hope to have the nursery ready before she arrives, though. We had our guest this weekend and he left today, so we can maybe get some more work done now. However, Dug's sister and BIL are going to help us paint, but they can't until July, so that holds us up. Not sure if we should assemble the crib beforehand or not. I'm tempted to, just to do something. We'll see.It's good you are doing a little at a time for her room. We didn't get Dylan's room done until 3 months after he was born. We were remodeling the house and his room was the storage room. I was not happy about that, but in actuality he slept in our room for the first few months in his bassinet.
Can't wait for your next update!