We were off site guests in December and I felt like a second class citizen at Disney. We have done over 40 trips and the last 10 have been offsite. This December 2013 trip was the worse by far. Based on that trip we won't be coming back; unless, we do stay onsite. That said, your review is not making me thrilled about even doing that now. I'm sure I'll give it a try onsite when the dust all settles, but I know already I won't be coming back as often as we did in the past. I'm looking at a Disney trip every 5 years or so, now, if that.
In the past three years we have expanded our horizons on other vacations and we find ourselves much happier and spending less money than a Disney trip, whether we compare staying onsite or off at Disney.
I'm basically done with Disney World; unless, there are some great deals in the future.
We haven't stayed offsite in a few years now, but I can see why it would feel that way.
One of my research tasks over the next few weeks is to price out a variety of "we've always wanted to go there" trips and compare them to the amount we spend for a WDW trip. I suspect we're going to want to drag out the passports, even with the outrageous plane fares these days.

One of the things on the consideration list is Adventures by Disney. Because as jacked up as WDW is right now, I still think Disney knows how to do hospitality when they care to do it right, and I read good things about their adventures guided trips.