I agree with what LuvFlorida said and Christine. There is a difference between noticing what someone is wearing and caring, and that's what I was trying to get at. I notice when someone doesnt' look good, and may even comment to my husband, but I really could care less. It's part of the fun of people watching and I think we've all done it to an extent.
I do think, that many of you who are overweight and wearing a bikini, must not have a teenager living with you. I'm not overweight, but if I wore a skimpy bikini, my son would probably die of embarrassment.
I will say, as people age, having some muscle tone goes a long way toward improving appearance. There's this grandma who comes to our swim meets and she's very thin. But, her skin just looks terrible on her-it hangs in places and is very wrinkled-kindof like and elephant. I bet if she were to gain about 20 lbs. she'd probably look a lot better.
