I made an interesting observation. I weigh 212 lbs. I need to weigh around 165, I suspect that is around a size 8, but I am not sure. Currently I wear a size 14, occasionally a 12 depending on the cut. I have heard people saying they really want to be in a 12 and they currently weigh 165 pounds. This implies to me they are currently a size 14 or larger. They are the same size as me and yet weigh 50lbs less!
I thought it might be interesting (for those that are brave enough to admit it) to compare height, weight and clothing sizes.
So me
I am female
5'11"
212 lbs
size 14
Hallelujah! I found you. And you were right there before my eyes!!!
I'm 5'10", huge bones, 229 or so. Shoot I almost put in m before BL weight. Weird, eh? Anyway, I float between a plus 16 and a reg 16. Some of my jeans are 14 but I think that's plus 14.
so 5'10'
229
plus 16 to reg 16, some pants plus 14
165? I could never be 165 or a size 8. My body wouldn't fit my bones. Yuck! I hate that look. I really do. Are you smaller boned Raenstoirm?
I don't know. I'm getting pretty satisfied. Fit. So probably whatever my body ends up to be naturally without any white knucking. My guess is 178- 195. Shoot that's a big guess.

A size 12/14 regular.
The BMI and charts are a joke for some bodies. My comes in a grossly overweight/obese. There is nothing obese about me. Nada. Even overweight has its moments.
I'm so righted, to use a Jamaican term, in my head about my body image these days I know that I'm fit and meant to be a good size.
Didn't always know that. Probably am overweight too because I couldn't figure out how to "be" at my natural size in a world full of smaller people. It's funny guys get my size and think it's natural and normal. I think it's us women that put these thoughts out as well as advertising and such of course.
When I was 13 I lost weight to be closer to all my girlfriend's look. I recently found those pictures and thought, "yuck doesn't look right on my frame. I look ill". And the sad part is that everyone around me, including myself of course, thought I looked fantastic. We are so bleep with an ed.
Thanks for starting this thread Raenstoirm. And Mama Lisa wants to know if you went to the doctors yet?
