Just wanted to update that I got a call back after emailing Disney about changes to schedule under 60 days out for people, little notice for ending of MSEP, changes to fireworks schedule a month out, etc. I got a call again this afternoon from the same CM who left me a message.
The CM was nice enough but spent more time talking about how amazing the FW show is, how she is able to leave work to go catch nighttime entertainment, how she stumbled on the frozen fireworks one night. Literally just kept going on about it. Oh and how it's really not necessary to make ADRs at 180 days, if you're willing to "go with the flow". I just said well for those of us who DONT live in FL and can't "just go catch" shows whenever, or who are traveling with young kids, or don't like to "Wing it" at Disney that's not really feasible. She said of course I understand that, and I'll take this information into our meeting. We take guest comments very seriously and want to make it magical for everyone.
Mmmkay. Thanks for a whole lot of nothing but trying to making me feel silly for ever being frustrated