EllaEnchanted
<font color=darkturquoise>iDIS...resistance is fut
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Thanks Marilyn. Just living life and doing what I think I am supposed to. Hopefully, mom will spend the summer with one of my brothers and give me a little break.
The crying is what gets me.....I tell the doctor she is depressed and she says "No I am not"...he has tried so many different meds and she flushes tem down the tiolet and won't take them.....
Oh well, everything will be just fine. I know how lucky I am to have a great job so I can do this.....
Has anyone seen that commerical on TV with the women who quits her job and moves to her mom's city to take care of her as the mom in failing? I think it is for credit cards to talk to the credit people if you are behind in your payments and tell them what is going on.
BOY does that commerical make me feel guilty. I have taken my mom into my home, kicked my youngest daughter out of her bedroom/bathroom so my mom can have it. But that is nothing compared to the women who uprooted everything and moved....![]()
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Wow Lisa, I really feel for you. I was fortunate enough to have mom live around the corner from me. She was close enough to care for on a regular basis, but it wasn't good all the time....like when she would fall down.
My mom probably did the right thing with her parents. She moved them out of their house and into hers when they were elderly, but not very sick yet. They lived in a mother/daughter type house.....one upstairs and one downstairs with separate entrances, kitchens, bathrooms, etc. It was easy to care for them in the end when they needed it.
I don't think you should uproot your life. I think the elderly should always move in with their children. The elderly are retired and don't have young kids. It's easier for them to move in with you.
Keep the faith. You're doing great. I hope your mouth heals soon.





