I would certainly hope that my common self can set the example to my kids to make the right choices for themselves and to use common (there is that word again) sense in situations. If I drink or do not, I am not sure has a bearing on if and when my children will. My hope is more that I have ingrained certain values in their heads that they will make good choices.
I can tell you my parents NEVER drank, I did in college (maybe more than I should have

) and as a real adult I do enjoy a drink with friends or snuggled up at home in a hot bath or in front of my fireplace. I am responsible; I do not drink and drive, I do not drink in excess, I do not NEED to drink to have a good time (I have a go time anywhere because I choose to have fun, nothign made me have fun), I have a glass of wine or beer because I enjoy it, like I do many non-alcohol drinks

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I will never hide from my children a drink, that to me would be a sign of a problem, wouldn't it? I hope that they can see that yes you can have fun either way, and you have choices and that you have to be responsible or there are consequences; just like with anything not just drinking!I also know I am not the only person my child will see drink; that being friends, people on TV, out at a restaurant, etc. I cannot protect my child from everything, I can only give them the best values to go into the world and make good choice, their choices.
I would take a gander to think that my children 3 and 5 have no clue the difference between a beer or a apple juice when they see someone carrying it in Epcot, nor would they even give it a second thought or glance
I am sure when strolling thru the UK they dont say there goes a guy with a beer in his hand
they probably dont even know! I say this because they have never said anything that would make me believe they do, and that is not because I shield them of it, they are just oblivious to it as this age and it has not been an issue or brought up to them! Heck I probably do not know what someone is drinking a beer, nor do I care!
I would prefer things like tattoos to be bannedthere

my kids know what those are and I would prefer they didnt get tattooed at some point in life, and if they see that at Disney they will think it is ok--- so should we not allow those people in then, because they are having a negative impact on mychildren who are not even of legal age to get a tattoo and it promotes that type of behavior.
Ok so I could really care less about tattoos

but my point is where do you draw the line

I think all you can do is raise YOUR kids the best YOU can and give THEM the best values YOU can and have faith that they will see the example YOU want them to see in YOU!
