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So you think everyone should get on the bus, then they should load the ECV. Then the people already on the bus would somehow have to move out of the way, and watch all their toes and other body parts so they don't get injured by the ECV either running into them or running over them. How does that make any kind of sense?

You would really rather risk personal injury or injury to a loved one then let an ECV board before you? Not a choice I would make.

Why do you refuse to read what I have written? Repeatedly I have said I understand they need to be loaded onto the bus first BUT it must be when it would be their turn if they had waited in the line with the rest of the masses!!!
In the situation I described the person didn't even arrive until the bus was pulling in, Now honestly do you think that was fair to the little kids who had been standing there waiting 20 minutes ? If you do it is a prime example of the entitlement mentality.
 
Why do you refuse to read what I have written? Repeatedly I have said I understand they need to be loaded onto the bus first BUT it must be when it would be their turn if they had waited in the line with the rest of the masses!!!
In the situation I described the person didn't even arrive until the bus was pulling in, Now honestly do you think that was fair to the little kids who had been standing there waiting 20 minutes ? If you do it is a prime example of the entitlement mentality.

A disabled person getting on a bus before healthy person is entitlement mentality?:sad2::sad2:


The little kid (and his/her parents) should count their lucky stars that they aren't the ones sitting in that chair.

So you want them to park the chair near the front of the line (they can't get into the line) and sit there and wait until it's "their turn" to get on the bus. Which may be bus number 2 or 3. Never mind the fact that bus number one will have space to hold the chair.

I'm all for wheelchairs boarding first. If I don't want to extend my wait, I can always hop in a cab.
 
Why do you refuse to read what I have written? Repeatedly I have said I understand they need to be loaded onto the bus first BUT it must be when it would be their turn if they had waited in the line with the rest of the masses!!!
In the situation I described the person didn't even arrive until the bus was pulling in, Now honestly do you think that was fair to the little kids who had been standing there waiting 20 minutes ? If you do it is a prime example of the entitlement mentality.

Okay, maybe I'm just an idiot, but I have no idea how someone in an ECV can be loaded first after they have waited in line.

Let's say there are 20 people in line when a person in an ECV gets there. So, under your rules, they get into line. The bus comes and the 20 people ahead of the ECV get on the bus. Now it is the person in the ECV's turn. Does everyone else get off the bus, so the the ECV can be loaded first? Or are you suggesting that they now get out of line and wait for the next bus, so that they can be first?

I just don't understand how your proposed system is going to work. How can they load first AND wait in the normal line?
 
The driver has to get off the bus to load an ECV (unless I'm mistaken) so they see the ECV user is within the 40 people who will fit on the bus,so at that point they pull them out of line and load them and then the remaining 38 people get on the bus. If they don't have to get of the bus then I'm wrong but I really thought they did.

And without getting into another argument, many folks using an ECV aren't really disabled in the sense many people are using the word disabled.
 

I use an ECV only at WDW. I had back surgery and just to buy groceries I lean on the grocery cart. Do I look disabled no but if I showed anyone my 10 inch scar down my back one would wonder why I don't have an EVC here at home. Because of the cost to modify my car with lift and instrumentation would be expensive. Lots of folks who park for example use handicap parking don't need it. But you cannot tell maybe there is something wrong maybe not. I HATE to have the bus driver have to stop and strap the chair in but that's the rule. The ONLY way I could go to WDW would be in a chair and I thank God for them.princess:
 
Oh well. I don't care when people load. I am grateful to be there, I am grateful that my mom is able to travel. I am grateful that I am not overweight and in need of assistance. I don't care if I have to wait a few extra minutes. I am thankful that I don't spend my vacation fussing at others. You all have a wonderful time, and I will continue to think the best of the people. I will continue to root for the underdogs. I don't understand why people would put time and effort into so much negative thought, but it isn't my problem. Sometimes I am too thin skinned to hear such negative, rude comments. I don't think that is a bad thing, either, in retrospect.
 
We also have never been seated as a group when the whole crew was there. That is why the stories of 10 people loading always amaze me. There are 9 of us, and we've been separated each time.
I agree that I have only VERY rarely seen a large group board with an ECV. It seems like a lot when you are waiting and there are two EVCs and 4-5 people with each, but it is really not impossible. I think the rule of thumb (which is not consistently enforced) is parties of up to 5 can ride without seperating to wait in line.
Reading all those comment here about EVC or GAC I now fully understand the policy of Disney Paris that only those that are official disabled get a "Carte Bleu".
There is no way around it. You have to bring an official note from your hospital to PD to get disabled access.
Nothing wrong with that and you hardly see people using this special perk.
This whole "forbidden to ask for proof of disabilities " has grown into a major "abuse the system fungus" in the US.

Lets be honest. The slogan "drive all day,dance all night' that the EVC companies use to sell there products says enough.
What a disgusting slogan:headache: I have not seen that, but I believe you. As an American, I agree that the law as it exists right now in the US does make it too easy to abuse the system. The majority of the people i know with true disabilities would like to see the abusers denied as well as the abuse of the system leads to the type of animosity seen in this thread.
We absolutely noticed the lack of both EVC and strollers at DLP and quite truthfully enjoyd it. I have nothing at all agianst those who need to use these devices doing so, but it IS much easier to navigate a park without so many of them in the pathways. I did not know about his policy at DLP that does explain part of the reason. We also notice substantially fewer EVC in use in general in Europe though. I think there is a cultural difference about what makes a need vs. comfort thins oing on as well. Of course, DLP is also not as BIG and as HOT which is likely another factor. Same goes for strollers. At DLP we started counting by mid day on our first of four days. For those 3 1/2 days we were counting we saw only 17 children who appeared to be age 3 or older (ie: steady walking preschoolers) in strollers. Of those, 13 were in families that were clearly American (based on accents). So, even though I assume DLP does not require a doctor's note for stroller use even in that way Americans seem to be much more likely to opt for the convience of a wheeled conveyance when it is not a true to form need.

Why do you refuse to read what I have written? Repeatedly I have said I understand they need to be loaded onto the bus first BUT it must be when it would be their turn if they had waited in the line with the rest of the masses!!!
In the situation I described the person didn't even arrive until the bus was pulling in, Now honestly do you think that was fair to the little kids who had been standing there waiting 20 minutes ? If you do it is a prime example of the entitlement mentality.

Did you read what I wrote earlier? To make this TRULY "fair" to all, then yes the EVC should wait in the line and only board on the bus that would be the bus they could board if walking. HOWEVER, if you are going to require that and want to be fair to all, then by the same token, when there are too many EVCs at teh "right" place in line to fit on one bus, or the ramp is broken then everyone behind the EVC should have to wait for another bus too--rather than getting to skip ahead in line and go ahead and load. BOTH things happen often--at the end of the day it likely evens out for EVC users.
 
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We are staying at the POR resort now, and have stayed at ASMo in the past, this just irritates me to the bone! :furious: The adult passengers on a crowded resort bus not getting off their lazy you know what and giving up their seats to the small children that are standing! These people know good and well that these children cannot reach the bars! I understand that their are some adults that need to sit and those that are holding sleeping children, but my gosh people, if you are able to stand then give up your seat to a child! Ok, getting off my soapbox now and going to do laundry :laundy: so we have clothes to wear the rest of the week.

I have not read all the replies. I agree with you, OP. My family of three always gives up our seat to older people, passengers who have young kids, or anyone who looks like they are struggling to stand and hold the bar. I think it is the right thing to do. But, let me give you a flip side on your scenario that iritates me. I don't like it when there is a full crowded bus and a family with young children (say two adults and 2 small children) will not put their kids on their laps to free up some seats for standing passengers. I think that is just as rude as your scenario.
 
OP...I as well have not read every response. There is no way I would ever give up a seat to a child, nor would I encourage anyone else to. If you prefer your children to be seated, then wait until you can board a bus and sit. To assume, or believe that other people should move so children can sit down is odd. The only time I, my DH and my DS move is for an elderly person, a person with an obvious standing problem (such as a cane), and someone who is holding a sleeping child that is under age 3. We as parents have to be responsible for our own children and do what we deem as safe for them. If sitting makes a parent feel safer regarding their children, then wait until you can. Truth be known there was a time when 5 yr old boys would give up their seat to any lady that was standing regardless of her age. Now it seems that same lady is to give the sit up to the boy. :confused3
 
I'm am just truly amazed at what you all spend your time doing on vacation.

Counting the number of people that accompany someone on a ECV...Counting the number of strollers you see with children over the age of 3?... Try to determine whether someone has an "actual disability" vs a faked one?

Why not spend your time enjoying your family, friends and children? In what I thought was supposed to be the Happiest place on earth... :rolleyes1 Walt would be rolling over in his grave listen to this crap :rotfl:

Why the heck do you go there if it seems to irritate you so much :rolleyes:
 
Counting the number of people that accompany someone on a ECV...Counting the number of strollers you see with children over the age of 3?... Try to determine whether someone has an "actual disability" vs a faked one?

Why not spend your time enjoying your family, friends and children? In what I thought was supposed to be the Happiest place on earth... :rolleyes1 Walt would be rolling over in his grave listen to this crap :rotfl:

Why the heck do you go there if it seems to irritate you so much :rolleyes:[/QUOTE]

It may be the teacher in me(I always notice kids) or that that I'm from Brooklyn, but I always notice what's going on around me.

There are some things you can't help but notice. Do all the things I see bug me? Nope, but I do notice them and find some of them odd (big kids in strollers is very odd to me)
 
I'm am just truly amazed at what you all spend your time doing on vacation.

Counting the number of people that accompany someone on a ECV...Counting the number of strollers you see with children over the age of 3?... Try to determine whether someone has an "actual disability" vs a faked one?

Why not spend your time enjoying your family, friends and children? In what I thought was supposed to be the Happiest place on earth... :rolleyes1 Walt would be rolling over in his grave listen to this crap :rotfl:

Why the heck do you go there if it seems to irritate you so much :rolleyes:

:lmao:I didn't say the strollers irriated me at all! We are an admitted famliy of oddball geeks who get a kick out of these type of things. We entertained ourselves waiting for Crush's Coaster by calculatin the load speed and figuring out why fast pass just down't work there. We love seeing alternate exits opened at peak times and seeing how much faster Disney can get everyone out of the park as needed. We love to compare the cultural differences in everything from how many kids ride in strollers to how people dress for the parks to what is included in buffets, etc. It just entertains us to see and compare various things. It is something we enjoy doing on our vacations that does not hurt anyone.
 
Why do you refuse to read what I have written? Repeatedly I have said I understand they need to be loaded onto the bus first BUT it must be when it would be their turn if they had waited in the line with the rest of the masses!!!
In the situation I described the person didn't even arrive until the bus was pulling in, Now honestly do you think that was fair to the little kids who had been standing there waiting 20 minutes ? If you do it is a prime example of the entitlement mentality.

I have read your posts, but they make no sense to me at all! How can they be loaded first and at the same time wait their turn?:confused3 :confused3 Unless Disney has someone with a clicker at the bus stop counting heads, and a bus has a particular capacity that must be met, your pulling them out of line once the driver 'knew" they would get on makes no sense. You have some people that refuse to go all the way to the back of the bus, the bus wouldn't be filled correctly, and then you would still have people mad that the ECV somehow got cuts.

Like I said before, if it bothers you so much for your own peace of mind you should really rent a car.
 
:lmao:I didn't say the strollers irriated me at all! We are an admitted famliy of oddball geeks who get a kick out of these type of things. We entertained ourselves waiting for Crush's Coaster by calculatin the load speed and figuring out why fast pass just down't work there. We love seeing alternate exits opened at peak times and seeing how much faster Disney can get everyone out of the park as needed. We love to compare the cultural differences in everything from how many kids ride in strollers to how people dress for the parks to what is included in buffets, etc. It just entertains us to see and compare various things. It is something we enjoy doing on our vacations that does not hurt anyone.

Oh I guess I misunderstood your point when you said you enjoyed the lack of them? so sorry.

It certainly is an interesting way to pass the time...I guess theres no harm as long there is no judging said cultural differences. Just curious how you teach you children not to stereotype people though. And that is an honest question.. not being snarky.
 
The driver has to get off the bus to load an ECV (unless I'm mistaken) so they see the ECV user is within the 40 people who will fit on the bus,so at that point they pull them out of line and load them and then the remaining 38 people get on the bus. If they don't have to get of the bus then I'm wrong but I really thought they did.

And without getting into another argument, many folks using an ECV aren't really disabled in the sense many people are using the word disabled.
This doesn't make any sense. How would the driver know that he/she should get out of the bus to see if someone with an ECV/wheelchair is in line so that they can count off the 40 people:confused3
1) The driver doesn't get off the bus when loading passengers. He/She opens the door from the driver's seat and passengers start to get on. While the passengers are getting on, the driver can't see 40 people down the line to see if there is a guest with a wheelchair or ECV waiting there. The driver would have no way of knowing that someone with an ECV or wheelchair is in line "within the 40 people who will fit on the bus" (and the buses load many more than 40 people, when you consider standing room.)

2) Even if the driver could see 40 people down the line and see someone with an ECV waiting, stopping the boarding at that point still doesn't mean there would be room to safely manouver an ECV or wheelchair into place on the bus. The bus can be pretty full before it gets to the point of "within 40 people who will fit on the bus." There could still be room for 40 people who are walking to get onto the bus, but not be room for one ECV.

3) Drivers don't need to get out to load an ECV or wheelchair onto the bus. Most just close the front door to stop guest from loading and then walk inside the bus to the back door, which they open and initiate the loading process for the person with an ECV or wheelchair.

I would invite those who are complaining about wheelchairs and ECVs loading on buses first to rent one your next trip. Then you can see how your ideas would work.
Hopefully, any "special treatment" on the bus would include some of the comments we hear at least once per trip about our DD, "It's not fair that she is taking up 3 seats people could be sitting in. They should not allow people like that to ride the buses."
And, yes, we have heard that even though we arrived at the bus stop before the people who were complaining, we would have gotten seats anyway if we had walked up because of the number of people in front of us when we arrived at the stop and DH and I were standing, so we did not take up any more seats than the 3 we would have gotten if we had walked on instead of rolling DD's wheelchair on.
JUJU814 said:
I could not agree with you more! I think you should need a doctor's note as well. That would tremendously cut down on the abuse. A person who is truly disabled..in any way...would have no problem bringing a note.

I have a son with "hidden" disabilities and made sure to bring a note with me last time. Obtaining the note was no big deal and just part of our trip planning.
Some people who did get doctor's notes had to pay for an office visit to get the note. There is a cost to the doctor in drafting a letter and sending it out. Whether or not they pass that cost on to the patient varies.
And, unless it changes, it is against the law in the US to be required to provide proof of disability to get accommodations.
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Disneyadore said:
A friend of us is working in disney Paris as a CM.

Last time we visited the park we had a dinner appointment with him. We visited the show he works at and afterwards we had to wait behind the scenes for him.
He had to accompany a special needs child with his family to see Mickey and Minnie after the show. It was so beauty full to see this family interact with the figures all alone without the hassle and stress of others.
The took all the time they needed and the child was glowing.
Afterwards our friend told us that we saw was a very rare happening. Only those children that are really sick or have only short time to live get this special treatment.
No so called disability or special snow flake treatment. And real disabled persons will not have a problem to bring a note,only the cheaters cry discrimination.

Hope you and your children had the best time of there life.
That kind of 'special individual meeting with Mickey" would be the same sort of treatment that children on Make a Wish trips in the US would get, not the treatment anyone with a disability gets. So, it would be the same in the US.

There are 2 big differences in DL Paris compared to the US.
1) The US doesn't have an recognized universal card that indicates a person has a disability. This is not the case in Europe, where the DL Paris website lists a number of official things that could be counted for disability access. It also doesn't list on the DL Paris website, but other website about DL Paris indicate that there are discounts for people with 'registered disabilities' both for admission to the park and for room charges. In the US, there are no discounts, no matter what the disability. If there were discounts, US law does allow for proof of disability.

2) DL Paris park itself has many attractions that are not accessible to people with disabilities in the regular line. In terms of access, it's about how MK and Epcot were in the early 1990s. There are special 'handicapped access' routes to many attractions in DL Paris.
The Disney Studio in Paris is accessible with Mainstream (wheelchair accessible) Lines in almost all attractions, which means guests using those lines wait in the same line with everyone else. So, little special treatment there.
Here's a link to the DL Paris Guidebook for Guests with Disabilities.

The WDW Studio and AK were built with Mainstream lines. Epcot has mostly Mainstream Lines. MK has added Mainstream Lines as attractions were added or renovated, but not all were able to be changed because of space or other reasons.
THis link to the WDW Guidebook for Guests with Disabilities lists all the attractions with Mainstream Queues.
And real disabled persons will not have a problem to bring a note,only the cheaters cry discrimination.
Many people with disabilities do not like how easily people can claim disabilities, but I would take issue with the 'real disabled persons will not have a problem to bring a note.'
It's very easy to say that if you are not disabled, but anyone who is disabled or has a loved one who is disabled knows it's not as easy in real life. Someone who wanted proof in terms of a letter from a doctor could just forge one.

My DD is 23 and is permanently disabled. She was born with cerebral palsy, she can't walk, she can't talk, she has seizures and it gets very tiring to have to prove to people that she is disabled. About every 3 months, our insurance company needs another note or something to prove she is disabled and they should continue to pay for any of her care.
Every time they ask, it is another call to a doctor's office and about 1/2 hour of my time. It's an imposition on my family and on her doctors to have to keep proving the same things over and over and over. Since there is not any one 'proof' in the US, if proof was needed, I could have to get many different types of 'proof' for every place we go, depending on what form they use or what kind of proof they consider 'enough'. (We already do have to do that for many services that DD needs, so it's not just theoretical. Each one has their own form they require).

Since DD has never talked, I doubt that she is going to miraculously start to talk, walk, not have seizures or be able to take care of herself after this many years.
It should be obvious to anyone looking at her that she is permanently disabled - the fact that she is strapped into a wheelchair, including her feet being strapped to the footrests, that she is signing to us instead of talking and that he wheelchair has a headrest to hold her head up when she can't support it should be clear signs to people that she is disabled.
If that's not clear enough, maybe they will see us feeding her lunch. Or, maybe she will 'entertain' them by having a seizure.
That doesn't stop people from making comments though - it doesn't happen every day, but does at least once a trip. And, she may not be able to speak, but she can hear and understand.
 
We absolutely noticed the lack of both ECV and strollers at DLP and quite truthfully enjoyd it. I have nothing at all agianst those who need to use these devices doing so, but it IS much easier to navigate a park without so many of them in the pathways. I did not know about his policy at DLP that does explain part of the reason. We also notice substantially fewer EVC in use in general in Europe though. I think there is a cultural difference about what makes a need vs. comfort thins oing on as well.

I find it interesting when people claim that we are 'backwards' or somehow inferior because we have different rules.

Look at photos from DL and WDW of thirty years ago, and there were few strollers, and if there were any they had small children in those strollers. Now that has changed considerably. I often post a photo of DLRP on a peak day, peak season, outside the most popular ride, and it has two strollers in stroller parking.

Somehow we are considered backwards here for encouraging our children to walk. I remember being in pain as a child and I wasn't pandered to. If I truly couldn't walk anymore my parents took a rest, or we cut the day short if absolutely necessary.

The norm here seems to be that children ride in strollers - to the parks, to the grocery store, etc. That isn't the norm in the rest of the world.

But that also doesn't mean that we are abusive to our children. We are raising healthy, strong, independent children, and I for one am not ashamed of that.

And I also believe based on my years of travel that the vast majority of Americans have differing opinions than people on this website. If they do go to a Disney park, they are usually not so fanatical as to spend the entire day from early AM to late PM in the park, like many people here do.

This website really isn't a reflection of greater society; it is just a small cross section of a small group of people with some unusual tastes and unusual habits.
 
I'm sorry I'm such an inconvenience to most of you with my ECV. I'm sorry that I'm taking up spots that your kid could be sitting in. Maybe I can go sit up in the bell tower with Quasimodo and you'll never have to see me and my ECV again. Maybe I should just stay home since those of us with disabilities shouldn't be out and about as to inconvenience you "normal" folk.

I'm sorry I am overweight and have to use an ECV. I had a brain tumor that causes Cushing's Syndrome and I gain weight no matter what I do due to the hormones that are being produced by my body. I'm sorry that due to those hormones my joints have been ravaged and my muscles are wasted, which means standing for me can be excruciating on a bad day.

Sorry that I have a handicap placard so that on a bad day, I can go shopping or do something for myself. You may think I'm using it inappropriately because I actually look fairly functional, but for me, just a trip to Target equals a 3 hour nap when I get home.

If I could stand and let someone else sit, I would. In fact, there are times when I stand with my ECV as to not take up extra spots and inconvenience y'all more even though I'm just about ready to pass out and fall over. I just couldn't take any more of the stares and comments.

Be grateful you haven't gone through what I've gone through. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.
 
I have not read this entire thread, but I posted about this last year when I went solo with my 19 month and 9 year old and stayed at AS Sports. No one got up a single time, and when people saw me struggling to hold a baby, a bag and try to open the stroller, they just stared. I have to be honest, it really left a bad taste in my mouth.

We just got back from SSR and the busses were hardly ever packed, and the couple of times that the bus was full, someone would offer up a seat for the little kids.
 
I find it interesting when people claim that we are 'backwards' or somehow inferior because we have different rules.

Look at photos from DL and WDW of thirty years ago, and there were few strollers, and if there were any they had small children in those strollers. Now that has changed considerably. I often post a photo of DLRP on a peak day, peak season, outside the most popular ride, and it has two strollers in stroller parking.

Somehow we are considered backwards here for encouraging our children to walk. I remember being in pain as a child and I wasn't pandered to. If I truly couldn't walk anymore my parents took a rest, or we cut the day short if absolutely necessary.

The norm here seems to be that children ride in strollers - to the parks, to the grocery store, etc. That isn't the norm in the rest of the world.

But that also doesn't mean that we are abusive to our children. We are raising healthy, strong, independent children, and I for one am not ashamed of that.

And I also believe based on my years of travel that the vast majority of Americans have differing opinions than people on this website. If they do go to a Disney park, they are usually not so fanatical as to spend the entire day from early AM to late PM in the park, like many people here do.

This website really isn't a reflection of greater society; it is just a small cross section of a small group of people with some unusual tastes and unusual habits.

Thanks Bavaria you wrote exactly my thoughts only could not put it in words like you did. I fully agree.:thumbsup2
 
I have not read this entire thread, but I posted about this last year when I went solo with my 19 month and 9 year old and stayed at AS Sports. No one got up a single time, and when people saw me struggling to hold a baby, a bag and try to open the stroller, they just stared. I have to be honest, it really left a bad taste in my mouth.


I'm sorry but I have to ask.

Why were you holding the bag and baby while trying to open the stroller? Why didn't you have your son open the stroller or hold the bag/and or baby?
 
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