Vent about bad friends...

[BostonTink85]

To be honest, I probably wouldn't have gone anyway but that shouldn't matter. I'm just sick of everyone at this point, lol.

Honestly I think you should just drop it then if you wouldn't have gone anyways. My friends here at school always go to clubs at least once a weekend in Boston. They know that's not my scene so I hang out with them before hand and when they leave around 11 for the club I just chill. They don't ask and if I ever did feel like going I would just say I want to go, since we're so close it's not an issue of inviting myself. I understand you're frustrated, but couldn't you have just asked to go if you really wanted to, I'm not flaming or anything I'm just trying to understand where you're coming from.

 

[Disney1fan2002]

I'm confused...

http://www.disboards.com/showpost.php?p=17728410&postcount=18

Yesterday you posted your bf was staying over, because of Mr. Creep Lawyer harrassing you. So, why would you be mad if your friends went out without you, if you had your bf for company?

 

[JerseyBallerina]

My bf didn't end up staying the night. He had a nasty cold and he didn't want me to catch it and he wanted a good night's sleep. He came over for dinner but he was long gone by the time they were getting ready to go out.

 

[Sherri]

Last night, two of my friends went out with a group of people. I knew all of them but we're not really friends. They got ready at my place (one of the friends is my roommate) and talked to me about where they were going, who they were going with, etc. Never once did they ask if I wanted to come or ask if I had plans for the night.

Then the group of friends came by to pick them up. One guy was already drunk and he wanted to know why I wasn't coming. I was not dressed to go out and at this point, I was mad. I just said I didn't want to. He kept pushing it because he was so drunk and then my friends asked if I wanted to come but everyone was already halfway out the door. I know they only asked because he made a big deal out of it.

Then they came back to my apartment to use the bathroom before going out to another bar. Still, no invitation. My roommate even came into my room to tell me what happened at the first bar.

They've been over my place all day talking about what happened. The three of us just had dinner and the whole time they were laughing about what everyone said. And when you're told what people said when they were drunk, it's not nearly as funny as when you actually see it.

This is probably going to be the topic of conversation for a week because one of guys kept saying he loved my roommate and now she thinks he actually does. They've been talking for two hours about what happened and how sloppy a drunk this guy was and I'm just getting more aggrevated and annoyed by them.

I'm not really looking for advice because I don't know what you have to give but I just needed to vent.

Oh reading your post brought back a memory or two.
When I was in college, that happend to me once. I rented a house with other students. They usually included me in their plans and we always had fun together. Well one particular evening everyone was going out, not one of them asked me. I was so hurt. I felt totally rejected, and the worst was hearing about how much fun they had the next day.
I feel your disappointment.
All I can say is find a better group of friends, some true friends. Sorry this happend to you.

 

[Laugh O. Grams]

Sorry your feelings were hurt, but in reading all of the posts, I find the difference between guys and girls to be so funny. I lived with 4 guys during college and if one of us said "I'm going out drinking with friends tonight", the rest of us would say "Cool! Where are we going?!?!". Why sit waiting for an invitation to party when you can simply invite yourself, especially when you're friendly with everyone going? Women...I'll never figure you all out!!