Using kiddie leashes at WDW

I have a kinda really short funny story that no-body will think is funny but here it goes:rotfl: . When I was on the leash, I hated it. So one day they were putting it on me and I just finally said "WHAT AM I, A DOG?!?!" Well...my grandfather cracked up and my family still brings it up today!! Good story huh?:lmao:
 
That being the most likely case, who cares what other people think? Seriously, YOU are the parent. Anytime ANYONE tries to express some stupid moronic opinion about how I am parenting my kids, I ask them the standard question: where do you live? no really, I'm not trying to be funny, where do you live? (answer usually given) ok, so unless it's suddenly changed to (my address) YOU don't get an opinion about how things are done in MY family. Period.
This usually leaves people stunned that I have the stones to tell them how it is under no uncertain circumstances that they tend to back off, slack-jawed too I might add.
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I have a kinda really short funny story that no-body will think is funny but here it goes:rotfl: . When I was on the leash, I hated it. So one day they were putting it on me and I just finally said "WHAT AM I, A DOG?!?!" Well...my grandfather cracked up and my family still brings it up today!! Good story huh?:lmao:

I love it! Something to think about.
 
I am sick of these type of comments. It is not a one or the other thing. Every child that doesn't use a leash does not get killed or my heavens there would be more dead than alive children! The vast majority of children manage to go to Disney and believe it or not survived unharmed with out using a leash!

We all no how many children have been kidnapped from Disney right, over how many decades? That's right don't confuse the issue with the facts.


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I'm not quite sure why this issue even comes up on boards. It's known for being a divisive discussion. If you are looking to use one of these harnesses or leashes, you've probably done some homework on them already and not just blindly posted a question about how they work on some website board.

Do whatcha gotta do. An ounce of prevention....KWIM? YOU won't be the one standing at the local police station crying your eyes out about having lost a child.

Surprisingly enough I did not post this to start trouble. I had a mini panick attack about losing my child at Disney while reading the thread "Have you ever lost your child at Disney". I wanted to see if other's had used them there and what their experiences were. I had actually done no research and have learned that although the wrist ones seem less intrusive to me, the harness ones may be safer for the child. I hadn't thought about the wrist ones rubbing them while walking (I had however thought my boys would get them off in a heartbeat). I actually think you were supporting me so thank you, but I am not a troublemaker (just wanted to clear my name).
 
I swear to all that is holy that every kid w/a leash at WDW manages to seek me out, dash around me a bunch of times like some crazed spider and wrap me up in a nice, tidy cocoon. Go figure!

OP == sorry to not be of any help ...
 
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I am sick of these type of comments. It is not a one or the other thing. Every child that doesn't use a leash does not get killed or my heavens there would be more dead than alive children! The vast majority of children manage to go to Disney and believe it or not survived unharmed with out using a leash!

We all no how many children have been kidnapped from Disney right, over how many decades? That's right don't confuse the issue with the facts.

All I said was I'd rather see a child on a lead than in a casket. I don't see where I mentioned the location of said casket. I certainly didn't imply that Disney was unsafe or unfit for a no-strings-attached, as it were, child. All I am saying is "what ever floats your boat". As for tripping over the leads, I have also tripped over kids running in every which direction looking for his/her parents. I have also been pushed down to the ground by parents looking for their kids. There is no right, there is no wrong, there is what works for you.
 
I have two grown daughters and never used a leash with them. Having said that, if I thought one was necessary I would have absolutely! For anyone who has more than one child....do you treat them exactly the same or to you parent to each individual need? My style was to adapt my parenting to the child...not the other wy around...so if the OP feels her child would be safer on a leash...MORE POWER TO HER:thumbsup2
 
Hell, I'd even like one of those after being in the preshow area for It's a Bug's Life and then going into the theatre. I lose my husband every single time.
There may a market for them for those easily distracted men. :lmao: I lose mine at Walmart.:lmao:
I guess what I'm trying to say is I personally wouldn't use a leash on my child, although I have no children yet. I would use hand holding to help keep my children with me at all times.
The problem that I've seen with the leashes is that it can back up pedestrian traffic in the area if the child decides to wonder a little and extends the leash into the flow of people.
Hope to God you dont get a runner.:rotfl2: Each child is different. You may have one angel and the other one you may want to duct tape to the wall to keep them in one place for more then a minute.

You make excellent points, and I agree with you 100%. A leash shouldn't be needed, and I never had one growing up. Generations went by without needing these relatively recent inventions. People simply need to keep their kids in line, period - and they don't need a leash to do it..
Found this on a site about Historical Boys Clothing and it proves leashes/harnesses have been around longer then most of us realize.
HBC has very limited information on children's harnesses and reins before the 20th centuries. There is some information that they were not uncommon for extremely young children from the 17th until the 19th centuries, but went out of favor in the 20th century.
And again not every child is the same.

if anyone says anything to you, be polite and tell them to mind their own business. Just think "you *%#@" and keep on moving. .
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(actually, I know they had the "leashes" in the 70s so I'd guess they were invented around the same time malls were going up).
Personally, I don't like these things, but I will not judge a parent for using them. If I had a child that bolted or was prone to wandering, I would probably change my mind about using them.
See above quote for how long they really HAVE been around.
UMMM...you can borrow my kid and take her to a crowded place. I give ya like 5 minutes for the changing mind thing. :rotfl:

I. Those things gave me such peace of mind, especially with students that were considered "runners." when she sees something exciting. .
Mine is a runner and a climber:sad2: Dont know which is worse. LOL I never had these problems with her older sis.

In my experiences with kiddie leashes, the wrist ones are a joke because it took all of 2 seconds for them to figure out how to get it off and take off running. We occasionally used a leash that attached to a little fanny pack. The girls thought the pack was great for stashing their "stuff" and we could quickly and easily hook up the leash when we needed to. .
I wouldnt even bother with the wrist ones. My child has been escaping from a very difficult latch on the stroller (I have trouble with it at times) since she was 2. The wrist ones wouldnt stand a chance.

We've used them many places. I recommend the harness, put not the backpack type. We never used that type, but it seems to me it would get very sweaty underneath that plush.
I try to never judge people with their children. You never know the temperment of the child, or what else in going on in any given situation.
I finally got to see one of the animal ones in action at a local park. I asked the parents if the child got sweaty. They said on occasion but nothing horrible. They loved theirs and said they got lots of compliments.
EXACTLY...and again..not every child is the same.

Well I do have children and have taken 3 kids to Disney from the age of 2 on up so according to the rules I can say I hate leashes on kids. . So I don't like to see leashes being used on humans.
There's rules??????:lmao: AND YET AGAIN...not every child is the same. UMMM DO spouses or significant others count as humans???:rotfl: I really really need one for my other half.:rotfl2:

Leashes should not be used in Disney. It may keep you hands free, but then puts others at harm. You child goes wandering and then people are getting cut on the legs, tripped, etc. Get a stroller.
SIGH...but then you start that whole debate about people getting run over, and into by strollers:hippie:

Anytime ANYONE tries to express some stupid moronic opinion about how I am parenting my kids, I ask them the standard question: where do you live? no really, I'm not trying to be funny, where do you live? (answer usually given) ok, so unless it's suddenly changed to (my address) YOU don't get an opinion about how things are done in MY family. Period.
This usually leaves people stunned that I have the stones to tell them how it is under no uncertain circumstances that they tend to back off, slack-jawed too I might add. .
:lmao: : :rotfl: ::rotfl2: :THAT IS FUNNY :lmao: :rotfl2: :rotfl: :lmao:

:rotfl2: :rotfl2: I LOVE THIS, mind if I borrow it:thumbsup2
:rotfl: You beat me to the request. ME TOO ME TOO PLEASE, MOTHER MAY I?:rotfl2:


Now my opinion...I have no qualms about using them. I have a runner, and cannot always physically run after her. I am ordering her an animal one for our upcoming trip.(waiting for the unicorn one to come into stock..itis so cute and pink and white) I will have to actually wear it on her ?backwards? so the animal is in the front cause she will have those straps undone in seconds. I figured out(tested one in a store) that if I just loop the strap thru the handle part on the back, not only can I control where the strap actually goes on the harness , I also have the added bonus of having the clip end. TAH DAH! instant belt clip. I am careful when using a harness to get in anyones way with the strap.
 
Just having some fun here.
http://www.cartoonstock.co.uk/directory/c/child_harness.asp
If you have a sense of humor..... click the link......
Cute...I know a few teens(and adults for that matter) that could apply to.

Surprisingly enough I did not post this to start trouble. I had a mini panick attack about losing my child at Disney while reading the thread "Have you ever lost your child at Disney". I wanted to see if other's had used them there and what their experiences were. I had actually done no research and have learned that although the wrist ones seem less intrusive to me, the harness ones may be safer for the child. I hadn't thought about the wrist ones rubbing them while walking (I had however thought my boys would get them off in a heartbeat). I actually think you were supporting me so thank you, but I am not a troublemaker (just wanted to clear my name).

You did not start any trouble. Everyone has the right to their opinion. It's the DISboards. :lmao: popcorn:: If you feel safer using one, do what feels right to YOU. You are the only one who knows your child here. This is the company I am ordering the unicorn one from. Travelingwithkids.com They have all kinds of cool stuff. Look at the safety in public places sections to see more options. Most important when you go...have fun and do what you gotta do to accomplish that goal.:goodvibes
 
Actually, that is usally me, so DH may want to look into one for me when we are at the mall :rotfl:

They would make a killing on them in adult sizes. Picture it...one for grandpa with little holders for his teeth....Dad's has Nascar designs....Grannie's--knitting needle pockets....the teen's would have a cell phone holder and Mom's would have all these little loops to attach everyone elses to with extra hooks to hang everyone else's junk from.:lmao:
OK...I have too much time on my hands...time to go back on work on my custom shirts for the trip.
 
When I was little, I guess I was uncontrollable? I was put on a kiddie leash, and I became an inconvinence!! :rotfl: I'd walk further away from my parent who was wearing the bracelet, and then, created a line of string, so people couldn't pass us, cross between us, NOTHING. I roped off entire sidewalks, busy crossovers, you name it. Thus, the kiddie leashes did not work for me. :)
 
Found this on a site about Historical Boys Clothing and it proves leashes/harnesses have been around longer then most of us realize.
HBC has very limited information on children's harnesses and reins before the 20th centuries. There is some information that they were not uncommon for extremely young children from the 17th until the 19th centuries, but went out of favor in the 20th century.

I grew up in England and remember my mother using one with my little sister (mid 1960s), I'm pretty sure it was a leather harness. I found a wrist leash (adjustable with velcro) and was planning to use it a few years ago when my daughter was a toddler but twice when I tried to put it on her she let out such terrible howls that I just gave up. She wasn't really a runaway anyway so it didn't matter much, I think I just wanted the extra security. But for anyone who feels that your child will be safer if you use one, I say stick to your convictions.
 
I never had to use any type of wrist or back harness for my two children. On our first visit to Disney, when the children were 5 and 2, even with the crowds, they would stay close to us. The 2 year old always held our hand. They were not runners, or dash and darters.

Fast forward to this May.....our DGD(2) :cutie: wore a pink and white wrist leash, willingly. She would give us her wrist to put it on. SHE is a dash and darter. WE could never run fast enough to catch her when she would decide to take off. It is always without warning. She is quick as lightening.

One of the times she did not have the wrist leash on was while we were waiting in the lobby of POFQ to return home, sitting on chairs with DGD(2) watching the Mickey channel. Within a flash, she was up out of her chair, ran around to the front door (which someone had just opened...so it was just closing slowly), squeezed through before the door shut, heading for the street where the cars would drop off people and buses passed to go to the pick up............ I don't know how I did it, but I caught her just before she would have hit the streets. I almost mowed down an older couple while trying to catch up to DGD. I guess THIS old girl still has it in her.....but it wasn't easy.:scared1:

That being said...I don't care what anyone says about DGD(2) wearing a leash. Her safety is more important than anything a stranger (who doesn't know her and her speed) could possibly say.

Good luck on your decision. It is all up to you and how YOU feel. Don't let anyone's comments bother you.
 
Hee hee hee OP - troublemaker! (I read your earlier post). You just wanted to have a thread with the "HOT" marker on it.

I can't figure out why this is such a controversy anyway. A controversy would be over whether you choose to beat your child in front of me at WDW ... now that would be a hot one!!!!!!!!!!! Do I care is you have them on a leash -- no not unless you leave them tied to a parking meter --

Now I didn't read but a few of the posts to see if anyone said this already ... but a stroller is really a containment device!!! Do you all not understand that???? Don't give me that bologna that they like it. I've seen the criers in strollers! Yes ... children can sleep it it and sit in it but ... you can strap them in and wheel them exactly where they don't want to go!! AHHHHHHHHHHH BAN THEM!!!!!!!!!

A leash is the same - containing the child to keep them safe.

Believe it or not ... I was leashed and contained in a stroller and I :love: my parents and am not an axe murderer!! I was just soooo active and small and quick and my mom was older and tired -- so I say test it out -- see if it works for you ... and go from there! :thumbsup2
 
Do what you feel is best for your children, and do not let anyone tell you other wise.
 
I swear to all that is holy that every kid w/a leash at WDW manages to seek me out, dash around me a bunch of times like some crazed spider and wrap me up in a nice, tidy cocoon. Go figure!

OP == sorry to not be of any help ...


LMAO!!! :rotfl: My own kid has done this to me! :rotfl:

And by all means...anyone is quite welcome to pirate pirate: my snippy retort. ;)

OP: yes I am supporting you. Sorry I didn't make it more clear. :hippie:

I actually applaud any parent who takes measures to make sure their child isn't running amok, all heathen-like, annoying those around them. I like strollers, leashes, crates, cribs, car seats...oops, did I say crates? Sorry.
As a mom to 5 labrador retrievers, 2 kids and a husband w/ the attention span of a flea (yep, had the Wal-Mart escapee here too), ANY containment system is a good containment system. That includes duct tape too. As a wise man once said: All problems in life can be fixed with 2 things- duct tape and WD40. If it moves and shouldn't, duct tape it. If it doesn't move and should, WD40 it.
 
I actually applaud any parent who takes measures to make sure their child isn't running amok, all heathen-like, annoying those around them. I like strollers, leashes, crates, cribs, car seats...oops, did I say crates? Sorry.
As a mom to 5 labrador retrievers, 2 kids and a husband w/ the attention span of a flea (yep, had the Wal-Mart escapee here too), ANY containment system is a good containment system. That includes duct tape too. As a wise man once said: All problems in life can be fixed with 2 things- duct tape and WD40. If it moves and shouldn't, duct tape it. If it doesn't move and should, WD40 it.

:lmao: I was gonna say you forgot the duct tape but I read on ...:rotfl2: What is worse, the dissapearing husband or the over active kids? I'll take the kids anyday. I swear I spend more time looking for him or telling him to "come on....we are done in this aisle and I want to get home soon as I have to still make dinner. You dont need to play with every little toy that makes noise." then I ever do chasing her little butt around the store.:rotfl:
What is it with guys and buttons that they have to press them? :confused3 I would never pass a display of annoying toys and set off every single one:angel: :rolleyes1
 













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