Update

[meeshi]

Tammi, I am so very sorry for your loss. Please know that there are many people praying for you and your family.

 

[Gaspode]

Rajah,

I'm so deeply sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers at this tragic time.

Take care of yourself.
Gaspode

 

[ZachnElli]

Tammi, I'm so sorry. I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers! My mil has attempted several times, but thankfully fil keeps a close eye on her medication. One day at a time.

 

[DisneyObsessed]

I am so, so very sorry. My heart goes out to you. Please know we are here to listen whenever you need to talk.

 

[Dopeygirl]

Oh, Tammi, I am SO sorry to hear this. My thoughts & prayers are with your family.

 

[vickyBaby]

Prayers going out to you in this difficult time. Heartfelt condolences are sent your way.

 

[nativetxn]

OH NO! Tami, I'm so sorry. I don't have any advice for you but you are in my prayers, sweetie. I wish I could take this pain away for you

Katholyn

 

[DemonLlama]

Tammi,
My heartfelt condonlences and prayers are with you and your family now. I understand the advice for taking things slowly, but I'm the type that needs to DO something when I'm trying to deal, so if dealing with the stuff helps for now, then do it, and let us know if we can help with getting it done. When you're spent out doing, follow your heart: cry, rage, go for a long drive, hug your fur babies, whatever, but keep talking and keep open.

Here's a couple of links:

http://www.survivorsofsuicide.com/

http://www.1000deaths.com/

And this site, with this introduction:

For Suicide Survivors

by Patty Pheil M.S.W.


If you have lost a friend or loved one through suicide, this page is for you.

Remember, none of us are God. We cannot control another human being's behavior and though we may have missed the "signs," we are not to blame. We did the best we could.

There are many of us who did see the "signs," yet were unable to save another human being. We are all limited in our ability to control another person's behavior and decisions. We can only be responsible for ourselves. This is a feeling of powerlessness that we must accept.

It is common for survivors of suicide to carry guilt. We say to ourselves "What if I....," Had I have...,"If only..., and the list goes on. These feelings of guilt are normal for us to feel, but these feelings are not true.

I have provided a list of resources for you. God bless you.

http://www.mental-health-today.com/suicide/sui3.htm



Please keep checking in!

Tori

 

[Doctor P]

My very deepest sympathy to you and your family.

 

[janette]

Tammi, I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I wish I knew the words to ease your pain.

 

[newholiday]

OMG! I am soooo sorry

 

[Debbie]

My condolences to you and yours, Tammi. May you find some strength and peace at this time. God Bless.

 

[Kteacher]

I am so sorry

 

[NHAnn]

I am so very very sorry to see this update.
I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
((HUGS))

 

[geetey]

Words escape me.... Tammi please know that my prayers are with you and your family.

 

[TXTink]

Tammi,

I am so sorry....I went by your mom's house a while ago and left something at her front door step. Please let me know if I can help in any way. I am here for you both.

You are in my prayers.
Beth

 

[mum4jenn]

I am deeply saddened to hear of this. I sure don't have any great words of wisdom for you because I have never gone through that but take care and know that you have tons of people (friends )here on the DIS that love you.....Sheila

 

[LisaTx]

I am so sorry, Tammi.

 

[PartyofSix]

Tammi i'm so sorry to hear your news. I have no words or wisdom but just wanted to offer my support and hugs to you and your family. You are such an amazing online buddy and a wonder dis friend. If there is anything i can do or just need someone to talk to please pm me and i'll be so happy to talk to you.

 

[WilmaBud]

OMG, Tammi, how devastating. My sincere sympathy to you and your loved ones. May God be with you all.