Hang in there, you will know soon enough! Good thoughts, prayers and picie dust coming your way!!
You are absolutely right about one thing...if he does not get this job then it means that there is a better one waiting for him!
Story for you...when my DH was trying to get back into teaching (he left for a few years to work as a massage therapist), the Phys. Ed. & Health Dept. of the school I was in was interested in hiring him. But then there were tons of budget cuts and he didn't get the job. Plus there were issues with his license taking extra long for the state to approve so he ended up staying a massage therapist for another year. Then he got the job he has now and things worked out. I then became pregnant with our little one. When I was 25 weeks along, I had a terrible asthma attack at work and it was because of all the construction they had been doing on the building. I had met with the principal (who was new) several times over the course of 2 months because I was having trouble with my asthma and I was certain it was from all the dust. Well, one day they had to take me out of there by ambulance to the E/R and I needed 3 nebulizer treatments. My asthma is normally under control so this was absurd. My doctor told me I couldn't go back into that building until after I had the baby. Our union was wonderful and set up an accommodation for me to work temporarily in another school. As it turns out, that is the school where I currently teach!
So, some good came out of some bad. No, my DH did not get the job at my old school like he thought he would, but how awkward would it have been if we were both working there and then I left to go somewhere else? Yes, I had a terrible ordeal with the asthma and it was very scary but thank goodness everything turned out fine with the pregnancy, the baby was fine, I was fine in the long run, and I ended up at a wonderful school!!!
My goodness that's horrible about the Asthma attack!
And 3 nubulizer treatments??
Thanks for that story. And you're right...sometimes good comes out of bad. I'm just really hoping if this job is not for him, that he won't get the email, the day BEFORE the trip
Then he'll be stuck on the plane constantly thinking of what he should have done/said, and will only be thinking about job hunting once he gets internet access. On the other hand, this will put everyone in such a great mood if he found out before the trip or even while we're in PA!
He deserves all the best in the world and would hate to see him disappointed.
I know he's feeling the pressure though...because this determines if we buy or rent a house...
Right now we've been staying with my mom for the past two years ever since we moved back from Long Beach. So it's a little difficult going from being on your own in, then moving back in with your parents.
Here's a little of my story people don't know about me:
February 25, 2007 my dad was back in PA visiting his father who was not doing well, and everyone knew he was about to pass, so my dad went back to be with him during his last days and to take care of his mom(my grandma). On this morning about 1015am, my cell phone was ringing and it was from home. I knew something was wrong because it was a sunday morning and everyone(my brother and mom) has church at 10am (my brother was living with my parents at this time). When I answered, it was my brother sobbing and my mom screaming in the background. He said, "Alicia, papaharold just died! but that's not it...Dad just died too!" Needless to say, I went hysterical, my DH was furious and upset thinking this was a sick joke, and when we found it was true, we made a beeline back to our hometown (3 hours away)...fast forward, I wanted to finish school in Long Beach as quick as I could so I could move back home and take care of my mom, so we got our degrees in two years (taking 18-19 units every semester) and graduated from CSULB in 2008 and moved back immediately after graduation.
So now here we are two years later, still living with my mom (who is doing MUCH better now...she was really bad at the beginning), and we think now is the best time to move out.
Sorry for my rambling, I think it just makes more sense if I explained from the beginning why this job is so important to him. He's been getting his Masters while we were living with my mom (I was too but absolutely hated the school), so he hasn't been able to 'fully' work for the past two years. And like I said, this determines if we rent or buy, which we REALLY want to buy, since now is the best time! Being a substitute, realtors won't consider his subbing work as a 'real' job, so it would be very difficult for us to buy, because we wouldn't be approved for a big loan.
Pheww.....sorry that was EXHAUSTING! I need some lunch now!!