Twin names

I love Lillian/Lily. I have a friend whose dd is Viola. My dmom had 2 Aunt Amys, which is one of my dds names. :lovestruc You can always reinforce the full name when someone calls them by a shortened version of their name. I grew up with an Anthony who was called that, not Tony. Cora is nice too. My twin cousins both have S names, and when we were growing up, my dbro would call them both by the one name because he couldn't tell them apart (they do NOT look alike)!
 
Our identical twin boys have the same first intial but names do not rhyme or match.

When they were growing up, every year for their annual checkup, the insurance company rejected one of the insurance claims because they have the same first intial, last name and birthdate and asssumed the two checkup claims were an error. Every year, we had to call and have the second claim resubmitted. The system seems to work a bit better now fortunately!

Congrats on your babies!
 
Congratulations on your twin girls!! I like both names and see no problem using both of them. I do like Cordelia & Hazel a lot.

I have twin boys...18 years old now!! WOW! My husband and I decided that each one of us would pick a name. I wanted Steven & he wanted Sean. I NEVER wanted matching names, especially when we knew that they were identical. But, neither one of us wanted to change so we ended up going with them. They sound different enough that it doesn't sound matching. They're middle initial is different...Steven Andrew & Sean Michael (can you tell we have Irish heritage?). It has worked for us.

Some people will always call them "the twins"...we do not. They are individuals not a pair. We do call them "the boys", but we have 3 boys. We find that people who we aren't close to are more apt to us "the twins". We didn't dress them alike, although they had their own special color that we used sometimes...Steven, red - Sean, blue & Matthew James (older brother) green. People will also ask them "which one are you?" I HATE that. We would prefer that they ask us so the boys wouldn't have their feelings hurt. We actually told people that it was okay to ask us. We wouldn't be offeded.

We worked REALLY hard to encourage them in every way possible to be individuals, but when they're the same age & sex it is inevitable that their paths will cross...classes, teachers, friends, etc. We put them in seperate classes all through school, even high school. Different sports, too. Some things you just can't do anything about.

I do agree not to use names that are the exact same initials. We found that in college applications even the same first initial could be a bit of a problem. That and the college email addresses...first initial, last name. Especially if they decide to go to the same school. A long way out...I know. Just another perspective.

Sorry I wrote so much. My "boys" are one of my favorite subjects... :-)
 
Well I guess I'm the only one but I like matching twin names, I think it's cute. And I'd totally dress them alike, again so cute. Heck my girls are 2 years apart and I dressed them alike all the time. Then DS came along and that all went out the window. I tried to dress all 3 but he usually had to be in a plain color of whatever outfit they were wearing. Heck we'd dress alike as a family...get the Old Navy 4th of July shirts,or disney shirts alike, I'm dorky that way. Good Luck!!
 

When they were growing up, every year for their annual checkup, the insurance company rejected one of the insurance claims because they have the same first intial, last name and birthdate and asssumed the two checkup claims were an error.

Congrats on your babies!

This happened sometimes to us and when they're taking the same prescriptions. The pharmacy actually has special codes that they have to put in for twins.
 
Identical twin here! I've spent my 53 yrs being one of the 'the twins', while our 2 older DSis's are 'the girls' - I've never felt anything but special being a twin. We have somewhat similar names - Sandra and Susan so were Sandy and Susie growing up. I never felt that because our names were similar people couldn't tell us apart - we really did/and still do look alike. I could tell my 'true' friends as they were the ones that could tell us apart.

I hope your twins end up being as close as my Dtwin and I are. It really is a special relationship. I don't regret that our mom dressed us alike - Sandy in red and me in blue(true blue Sue, you know!). Even to this day we show up wearing the same clothes totally unplanned. Enjoy your twins!
 
Thanks for all the awesome suggestions (and good advice) guys!

What's Violet's middle name?

Renee. I'm not a fan, but DH got to pick the middle name and Renee is MY middle name. He's always liked it so there ya go.

I was told by my high risk pregnancy doc that my boys twins were not identical since they had their own sacs... As they were getting older, around 2 yrs... it became clearer and clearer that they just looked too alike that we were questioning if this was true. We had them DNA tested and sure enough they were identical 99.99987%!

Wow, crazy that it took 2 years to find out! The doctor we saw today explained to us how the different types of identical twins happen -- 2 sacs/1 placenta, 2 sacs/2 placentas, 1 sac/1 placenta. It's all depends on how many days after fertilization that the egg splits. If it splits 3-5 days after, it's x-type of identical twin, 5-8 days after it's this other type... if the egg splits after 13 days, they're conjoined twins.

I was taking fertility medicine to get pregnant, so the odds are HIGHLY in my favor that I released 2 eggs (fraternal twins), but you never know until they get here, I guess.

I'm going to offer this suggestion:
Do not repeat what my old neighbor did.
Luke and Leah

LOL!!! DH promised to give up naming rights on the babies if I agreed to dress them as Luke & Leia from Star Wars for their first Halloween (if they were b/g). He's a huge Star Wars fan... in fact, he talked me into dressing DD as Leia for her first Halloween. :rolleyes:

Eleanor and Adeline, I'm liking it...but you know they will be nick-named Ellie and Addie...;)

I think Adeline (and Adelaide) is such a pretty name but one of my cousins has a little girl named Adelie, who goes by Addie. So that's out. :(

When they were growing up, every year for their annual checkup, the insurance company rejected one of the insurance claims because they have the same first intial, last name and birthdate and asssumed the two checkup claims were an error. Every year, we had to call and have the second claim resubmitted. The system seems to work a bit better now fortunately!

Oh good grief -- I never thought of that!! We had SOOO many problems with DD's birth because she was born on December 31st and for some reason, DH's insurance company found it unfathomable that a child could be born on the last day of the year... and made her coverage effective for Jan. 1. So we were getting all kinds of outrageous bills from the hospital for her delivery.

I do agree not to use names that are the exact same initials. We found that in college applications even the same first initial could be a bit of a problem. That and the college email addresses...first initial, last name. Especially if they decide to go to the same school. A long way out...I know. Just another perspective.

Sorry I wrote so much. My "boys" are one of my favorite subjects... :-)

Ooh, I never thought of that either! My gosh, SO many things to think about!

So after a festive night (my mom's birthday -- I made her a "gender cake" for her to cut into and find out what her grandkids were going to be), I finally have a minute to sit down and obsess over names again.

I found a list we put together a while back after looking through this cool name book I picked up from the library. And I totally forgot how much we liked Cecilia. DH is quite fond of it as well, so it's a really good contender. He thinks CiCi is a "totally adorable" nickname for her.

Even after we get that straightened out we still have to think of a middle name that starts with "R". So much to think about!!
 
Cecilia Rae!

Cecilia Rachel

Cecilia Rayne

My DD's name is Rachael and we call her Rae so that is what I was going to suggest!
Cecilia Rae sounds so pretty.
 
What a fun happy thread. Congrats!

I have two boys, 4 years apart, both started with E, middle name J. Loved the names, and haven't had any problems. Do I accidently call one by the other's name - yes, but I was called my brother's name growing up, so it happens. Once in a while I call my DH by the dog's name (also an E BTW). My younger son once wrote on one of those "What makes me special" type assignments that he and his big brother have the same initials :goodvibes

I am a bit surprised by people saying it will be horrible if their names are close. I mean what about all the jr.'s out there? Two males in the same house with the exact same first name - and they survived. Do what makes you happy!!
 
Thanks for the input. :goodvibes We've got plenty of time to come up with a second name and I'm sure we'll find something that we like... just nothing from the social security index of popular names is standing out to me. The 2 names we have so far (DD and one of the babies') were both popular in the 1910s so I want to stick around that era for the 3rd name. So feel free to throw out some ideas!!

DD is named Violet. One of the babies will be named Eleanor Rose. The other E name that both DH & I like is Eliza. I just realized this now -- they're both El- names. Maybe that's not such a good idea. They're both going to have R- middle names as well since the rest of us do.

DH has already vetoed Amelia, Hazel (my FAVE!!!) and Josephine. He's contemplating Matilda and Cordelia.

Who wants to hit me with some period name suggestions? :)

I once met a girl named Eliza Ruby and thought that was a beautiful name.
 
I like Cecilia or Cordelia.


I definitely wouldn't name your twins Eleanor and Eliza. Those are too similar imo. my older sister and I's names are two letters apart (Kacy and Kody) and I'm not a fan on that sort of thing because of it.
 
My twin and I are Melanie and Melissa. I think both names starting with "El" is fine. I love the names you picked--similar, but different. Congrats! :)
 
I'd say not Cecilia, though I do like the name. And btw yay for old-fashioned, correctly-spelled names. The 'Aliza' thing, or 'Rhaychelle' or other such 'I can't spell,' things are .... yeah.

Anyways, not Cecilia because, speaking as someone in possession of a first name that's also a song, she will someday want to shoot the songwriters, you, and the 4,564,332nd person who starts singing it in her general direction. It's not even a bad song, but she'll never escape it - even though you think it's an older song, that one is a classic, she'll never escape it.

By the way OP - I read this book a while back, you might find it interesting. Even though it seems likely yours aren't identical, still interesting maybe. It was really good, she explores research, talks to a lot of people, talks about different aspects of identity, etc.
 


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