We're a family of 5. Yes, we have always done it this way. Again, I completely respect and understand that some people love to uber-plan and that's great for them. But the thought of a spreadsheet or rigid schedule when I'm trying to relax and have fun turns my stomach. I seriously probably would refuse to go. Even when the kids were younger, we did this. The one major difference between then and now is the FP+ system. In the old paper FP+ days, doing rope drop was almost a necessity for the "big" rides, such as TSMM. So while we still did things on a whim, we would show up at the park before it opened. Now, with the new FP+ system and
MDE, rope drop is completely and totally unnecessary. There's nothing wrong with doing it, if that's your thing. But we get up at 4am at home, we have no desire to set an alarm clock on vacation. And we don't have to. We can get as much done as a rope dropper, using FP+.
Here's a little more detail about how we do things. Like I said, being offsite and AP limits us to 30 days out for FP+. Not only that, it limits us to having just 7 days worth of FP+ in any 30 day period. Our summer trips are 17 park days. Around 45 days out or so, DW and I will go to Dunkin' Donuts and get a cup of coffee. We bring an 8x11 sheet of paper and come up with an
extremely loose schedule of parks, only so we can get FP+ at the 30 day mark. It would look something like this: Arrival day is always MK, it's tradition. Then from there, we just rotate parks in no particular order and for no particular reason. Just make sure we get a decent balance. However, we know it's just a very rough draft anyway, so it doesn't matter. It takes us less than 30 minutes total. That's the full extent of our planning. Then I'll grab FP+ for days 1-7 at the 30 day mark. I can't book day 8 until we're finished day 1, due to the rule I mentioned above...so most of our trip is done with FP+ booked 6 days out or less. Once we're down there, we fly by the seat of our pants. If we wake up on day 6 and we had Epcot "scheduled", the kids may say "We don't want to go to Epcot today, we want to go back to HS". OK, no problem. We drop our Epcot FP+ and pick up HS. Doing the refresh strategy here is a lifesaver and really lets us have this flexibility. We then head to HS and have fun. After we use our FP+, we ask what they want to do next. If they want another attraction, I grab a FP+ for it. If they're done, we leave.
No, we really haven't missed out on much. Refresh works fantastic and we can get pretty much any attraction we want at pretty much any time. I guess if there's one "downside" is that sometimes we do criss-cross the parks a bit. But it doesn't happen all that often, and I'd rather do that then be stuck with a schedule.
We love doing it this way. No pressure, no worries about getting somewhere at a specific time, no waking up early, no rushing, but we still get to do all the things we want.