Tiaras, Tutus & Tie-Dye: A 5K Trip Trifecta - UPDATED: 8/2/11!

Running was something to do. Something constant. Something that I could measure. It was also something that previously, I'd hated.

I have to tell you, since my mother died, there's very little I won't do.

I am alive. I can move my body of my own will. I breathe. I eat. I love. I live.

I am SO lucky.

So I began to run. I followed the Couch to 5K program, and when I started, I couldn't even run a mile in 30 minutes.


But when I have a dark moment. A moment when I have a stitch in my side, and I'm thirsty, and I don't want to go on, I think of my mother.

I think that she is dead. And that I am alive. That my body lives and breathes and moves. And what a blessing that is. I like to think that she's watching me, and that she's proud of me.

A girl who never was a runner.

Who has become one.

:sad: Seriously. If I wasn't on prozac for pmdd, I would be BAWLING right now!! ;) I've told you on your ptr how I understand. Totally. And how traumatic that must have been to be in limbo for weeks, just waiting. :sad:

I just started working out about 3 weeks ago. And I ENJOY it!! I have never seriously exercised a day in my life. I'm determined to get healthy & enjoy it. :eek:
 
Can I Just copy your plans LOL!!

Well besides the training schedule...although I might follow that too LOL!! I'm going to continue with the couch to 5K which I'm working on!!!!

Go for it!

I know where I want to stay...but where I will actually stay might be two different things!

Well Little Miss Can't Stay In Disney Without A Car Rental - you'll have more freedom than the rest of us as you can take yourself to the race and not have to rely on race hotel transportation! ::yes::

Yes, defnitely! I'd love to try one of the Disney races.

I'll add you to the "possible" list then. Great!

I love your potential plans and your training schedule. I like your training goals too, they seem very reasonable and attainable. I think my problem is that I try to set too high of goals and then I get discouraged and don't accomplish anything.

I'm guilty of the same and that's how I set up the new schedule and I still adjust it as necessary to allow for life and progress.

As far as training I really haven't started a program. I need to get on that. My town is having a 5k in the middle of September and I really want to do it but I know I'll be walking and I have this irrational fear of coming in last. I don't know. I'm so scared to do it. :headache:

First off, let me say - finishing last is still finishing.

Second, when is it? If I'm around I'll be happy to do it WITH you!

I'm already down 4.4. Not great, but it's a start!

Slowly and surely wins the race. I'm only down about 5 myself (probably a little less after this 5 day staycation where I wasn't very strict with myself) but it's still pounds lost and nothing more gained!

Our town does a 5k & a 1 mile fun run every year on Labor Day. I came in dead last in the FUN RUN 2 years ago!!! Not fun, but not the end of the world. I was pushing a stroller & walking most of the race with our daughter, who has some mobility issues. She cheated & cut across to walk with Daddy the last part of the race!!

You still did it. You still finished. Just like there is always someone who is first, there is always someone who is last, and there's no shame in that!

Seeing Tink's scheme written out was a lightbulb moment for me: Just seeing several incremental steps, spaced every few months, means there's plenty of time. I can do this gradually!

Exactamundo!!!

PS Heading to Fenway on Friday :yay: I'll be sure to wave to you :wave2:

I'll be waving to ya from my downtown Boston office! Go Sox! :thumbsup2

Honestly, I didn't think it would change my life, but I can't express to you how much it has.

For those of you who may not know me, I lost my mother a little over a year ago. She was only 55, and it was completely unexpected. I can say now, which I never have said before on the boards, that she had a heart attack. The short of it is that the EMTs were able to bring her back, but she never regained consciousness. My father, sister, grandmother (mom's mom) and I spent about two weeks of absolute pure hell on earth, and one by one we individually realized, myself being the last to come to such a conclusion, that there was no hope.

If we kept her in that state, she never would have known us. She would have need a trach, and a feeding tube, and all sorts of "support" to live. And so we chose.

Which is really ironic, because you don't make the choice. God does. When we went to comfort measures only, my mother waited until she was ready to go. And the morning that I went back to work, about an hour after I was there, I got the phone call from my husband.

I had a lot of one sided conversations with my mother while she was in the hospital, and I read her the whole Wizard of Oz. It was her favorite movie, and I know she loved the book, too.

When you go through something like that, never mind that I was pregnant at the time with my one year old son, it changes you.

Forever.

Oh honey. All I can hope is that living through this loss with you, and with my other friends going through this now, that I've learned some very valuable lessons. I loved your mom for loving you so well and giving me such an amazing friend. I thank her every day.

Also, she and my gram are probably shaking their heads at the adventures we get ourselves into. :goodvibes

I am alive. I can move my body of my own will. I breathe. I eat. I love. I live.

Live. Laugh. Love.
Life really IS that simple.

I just started working out about 3 weeks ago. And I ENJOY it!! I have never seriously exercised a day in my life. I'm determined to get healthy & enjoy it. :eek:

You know I still struggle with enjoying it. I LOVE walking outside, but everything else...meh. I know that will change as my body changes and I'm patient for that but there are days I just don't feel it. Focus is key, though.
 
:sad: Seriously. If I wasn't on prozac for pmdd, I would be BAWLING right now!! ;) I've told you on your ptr how I understand. Totally. And how traumatic that must have been to be in limbo for weeks, just waiting. :sad:

:hug:

I just started working out about 3 weeks ago. And I ENJOY it!! I have never seriously exercised a day in my life. I'm determined to get healthy & enjoy it. :eek:

I'm so happy for you! You should enjoy it. It's your body, making it healthy should be an enjoyable...even if sometimes not fun...process! :thumbsup2

Oh honey. All I can hope is that living through this loss with you, and with my other friends going through this now, that I've learned some very valuable lessons. I loved your mom for loving you so well and giving me such an amazing friend. I thank her every day.

I think that you're one of the most insightful friends I have, and when I think of that and know how my loss rocked your world a little...let's just say I feel lucky to have you as a friend, and am sad for those who may not realize how lucky we are to have each other until it's too late.

Also, she and my gram are probably shaking their heads at the adventures we get ourselves into. :goodvibes

Oh, I fully believe that at certain points, my mother is very kindly laughing at me. The beauty is that I can laugh with her.


Live. Laugh. Love.
Life really IS that simple.

:thumbsup2
 
I think that you're one of the most insightful friends I have, and when I think of that and know how my loss rocked your world a little...let's just say I feel lucky to have you as a friend, and am sad for those who may not realize how lucky we are to have each other until it's too late.

We are very lucky indeed. :hug:
 

Love everyone's walking/training plans! I was doing pretty good with walking a few nights a week and then the heat wave from he** hit PA and I couldn't make myself do it. So I am trying to get back into the routine.

I told DH I wanted to do a 5K at WDW when I got in shape some day and he said sounds good (baby steps ladies - LOL!).

TK - :hug: I never knew exactly what happened. Thank you for sharing. I am sure just typing the words was hard. I totally understand your words about making a choice that wasn't a choice. I had to do that with my first pregnancy - I had to "choose" to end it but there was no choice because it was that or it would end itself with a lot more complications and suffering. Just wanted to share so you knew how much that sentence held true for me and resonated with me and so you know someone else that has had a similar life experience.
 
We are very lucky indeed. :hug:

:goodvibes

Love everyone's walking/training plans! I was doing pretty good with walking a few nights a week and then the heat wave from he** hit PA and I couldn't make myself do it. So I am trying to get back into the routine.

The heat has been bothering me as well, I'd love to get outside to do some trial runs and some days I just can't make myself. Air conditioned gym with a treadmill, thank you very much. :lmao:

I told DH I wanted to do a 5K at WDW when I got in shape some day and he said sounds good (baby steps ladies - LOL!).

Baby steps are good.

All I can think of now is What About Bob.

Baby steps on to the bus...

TK - :hug: I never knew exactly what happened. Thank you for sharing. I am sure just typing the words was hard.

There were very few people who knew exactly what happened. I never talked about it on the DIS, really. It just felt too personal at the time. And I didn't want to dishonor my mother by discussing it then, because she was still "with" us. And honestly, the things that I had to watch her go through...no one should ever have to see anyone they love like that.

I do have some...happy memories from the hospital, if you can call them that. One was deciding the reason we'd never been able to pick a name for the baby was because we were meant to name him after her. We used a variation of her first name, and it's actually an existing boy's name.

She had her toenails done in the prettiest pink polish because she was on vacation the week before it happened. Every nurse commented on how pretty my mother was, how pretty her nails were, she was like a princess. And I made sure that her nails were done, in clear, before she passed. I painted them myself, and I used lotion from the Grand Floridian, from our trip. Every time I smell that scent now, I think of her, and for a long time, it was painful, but now I feel like to have that happy memory. I was not sending my mother off with her hands not tended to. :lmao:

I totally understand your words about making a choice that wasn't a choice. I had to do that with my first pregnancy - I had to "choose" to end it but there was no choice because it was that or it would end itself with a lot more complications and suffering. Just wanted to share so you knew how much that sentence held true for me and resonated with me and so you know someone else that has had a similar life experience.

I am so sorry you had to go through that.

I think I sound bitter when I say that we give ourselves the illusion of control, but really, I am not. I am acknowledging that it's a big crazy world we live in, and that sometimes, things don't make sense, and they don't happen the way we want them to.

The most important thing is that we have dear friends and family to share our happiness and our sadness with. That's really what it's all about.

And in that vein, that's really what this 5K is about for me. The DIS boards have been such a source of inspiration, the "strangers" I've met here, so supportive. It would be an honor to run with you.

Especially in tiaras, tutus, and tie dye. :thumbsup2
 
TK, due to some unforeseen things happening I haven't been able to go to the gym like I wanted but I will be thinking of you and your mom while I run tonight. It will be my first time going to actually work out (besides swimming) and I am even wearing my shirt you made me. I'll let you know how it goes. :goodvibes
 
Well I've changed my signature to add my tr from last year & a different ticker, as well as a weight loss ticker! :thumbsup2
The TR is only done on my blog, but if you want to check it out, you're certainly welcome!! Thinking about starting a ptr for our trip in January for my first Disney 5K!! :cool1:
 
For those of you who may not know me, I lost my mother a little over a year ago. She was only 55, and it was completely unexpected. I can say now, which I never have said before on the boards, that she had a heart attack. The short of it is that the EMTs were able to bring her back, but she never regained consciousness. My father, sister, grandmother (mom's mom) and I spent about two weeks of absolute pure hell on earth, and one by one we individually realized, myself being the last to come to such a conclusion, that there was no hope.

A girl who never was a runner.

Who has become one.

Wow Kat. I knew your mother's death was unexpected, but I never internalized that she was 55. I guess that means you're probably not much older than I am, considering my mother will be turning 50 in 2013 and our baby's are the same age. Oh perspective.

As per my plans...I've discussed them a bit, but they keep changing. 2013 is going to be a strange year for us, because my husband will likely be in training for the first half of the year. I also decided a few days ago that we're going to be trying for our second baby next summer. If everything goes to plan, I will be due somewhere between February and May of 2013, which would mean I would be unable to join this DISmeet. Obviously, things change and babies aren't really plannable, so I'll still be hanging out, wishing and hoping.

As per 5k training....I walk...fast. Maybe I'll get my pedometer out sometime soon and see where I'm clocking nowadays, but I'm totally not a runner, and will likely be pushing a 2 year old in a stroller, so I'll be hanging out in the rear.

As for accommodations, it will probably be a Value trip for me. Since it will be unlikely that DH will be able to accompany us, I should save our splurge money for our next family trip. I'm leaning towards All-Star Movies, but I'm also considering staying at Shades of Green, possibly with a rental car, I could walk across the street and pick up the bus at the Poly, or drive myself. If I end up taking a 2 year old by myself, then a rental car will be easier to manage in general. For dates, I was thinking Thursday (21st) - Wednesday (27th), because that would give me 1 day in each park, 2 travel days, and 1 5K day.

The other factor in my plans is whether or not I work out an Annual Pass. Right now, I'm contemplating a family trip in December 2012. Probably 10 days, so any additional days in the following 12 months would cover the cost of the AP. However, I really want to spend some time with my Mom for her 50th birthday, and Disney would not be her choice destination. She would much prefer the beach, though anywhere with her grandbaby(s) would be fantastic for her. We will probably be doing a sort of family reunion with my siblings around Christmastime that year too. Also, our 5th wedding anniversary is in January 2014, and I really want to go to Disney for that, which means we likely won't be planning a third trip within the 366 day AP window. The other option for me, ticket wise, would be if they extend the military salute offer again, because a 4 day ticket would be perfect for what I want to do for the 5K.

That's just me rambling a bit.
 
TK, due to some unforeseen things happening I haven't been able to go to the gym like I wanted but I will be thinking of you and your mom while I run tonight. It will be my first time going to actually work out (besides swimming) and I am even wearing my shirt you made me. I'll let you know how it goes. :goodvibes

I was thinking of you last night after I read your post on my blog. I hope your work out experience was a good one! :thumbsup2

Well I've changed my signature to add my tr from last year & a different ticker, as well as a weight loss ticker! :thumbsup2
The TR is only done on my blog, but if you want to check it out, you're certainly welcome!! Thinking about starting a ptr for our trip in January for my first Disney 5K!! :cool1:

Awesome! I really should add a ticker to my signature. That always makes it so real, eh?


Wow Kat. I knew your mother's death was unexpected, but I never internalized that she was 55. I guess that means you're probably not much older than I am, considering my mother will be turning 50 in 2013 and our baby's are the same age. Oh perspective.

I think one of my messages as along has been to love the people you love all the more, hold them a little tighter, and make sure you know how special they are, because sadly, none of us knows how long we have.

As per my plans...I've discussed them a bit, but they keep changing. 2013 is going to be a strange year for us, because my husband will likely be in training for the first half of the year. I also decided a few days ago that we're going to be trying for our second baby next summer. If everything goes to plan, I will be due somewhere between February and May of 2013, which would mean I would be unable to join this DISmeet. Obviously, things change and babies aren't really plannable, so I'll still be hanging out, wishing and hoping.

How exciting to think of trying for another! I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

As per 5k training....I walk...fast. Maybe I'll get my pedometer out sometime soon and see where I'm clocking nowadays, but I'm totally not a runner, and will likely be pushing a 2 year old in a stroller, so I'll be hanging out in the rear.

Did you know the 5Ks are actually called Family Fun 5Ks, and they typically have a stroller division? :thumbsup2

That's just me rambling a bit.

I get your ramble. I'm not really sure where life will be at that point, I just know, I'd like to go. :thumbsup2
 
Baby steps are good.

All I can think of now is What About Bob.

Baby steps on to the bus...

I am so sorry you had to go through that.

And in that vein, that's really what this 5K is about for me. The DIS boards have been such a source of inspiration, the "strangers" I've met here, so supportive. It would be an honor to run with you.

Especially in tiaras, tutus, and tie dye. :thumbsup2

LOL - what about bob! :lmao::rotfl:

I am so glad Squirt shares your mother's name - what a tribute to her! And I love that the smell of the Grand Floridian lotion invokes happy memories now.

Thanks - :hug: I so agree about the DIS - it is hard to explain to people how you can have friends many of which you have never met in person. It would be an honor to run (or probably in my case walk quickly) with you! I already have one of your tie-dyed creations bought for me by Maroo so all I need is the tutu and tiara!
 
Ladies - I'll be back to respond to comments a bit later but just wanted to mention...

I know I may have hinted around about my Super Secret trip next year and I've finally started the PTR for it. If you're at all interested, the link is in my signature.
 
LOL - what about bob! :lmao::rotfl:

:rotfl2: Just thinking about that movie makes me laugh.

I am so glad Squirt shares your mother's name - what a tribute to her! And I love that the smell of the Grand Floridian lotion invokes happy memories now.

I know she'd be really proud.

Thanks - :hug: I so agree about the DIS - it is hard to explain to people how you can have friends many of which you have never met in person. It would be an honor to run (or probably in my case walk quickly) with you! I already have one of your tie-dyed creations bought for me by Maroo so all I need is the tutu and tiara!

Oh my gosh, you have one of my shirts! You're one of the friends she bought one for!!! I didn't realize! Yay! I'm happy you have some tie dye. Doesn't it make your day a little more fun? :thumbsup2

Ladies - I'll be back to respond to comments a bit later but just wanted to mention...

I know I may have hinted around about my Super Secret trip next year and I've finally started the PTR for it. If you're at all interested, the link is in my signature.


Gone, babe.

A la Hermes in Hercules, in case you were missing the obscure movie reference. ;)
 
I was thinking of you last night after I read your post on my blog. I hope your work out experience was a good one! :thumbsup2

It was really good. I did the walking part at 3 miles and hour and the running part at 4 miles an hour. I am going back tonight. I am not as sore as I thought I would be today.
 
Oh my gosh, you have one of my shirts! You're one of the friends she bought one for!!! I didn't realize! Yay! I'm happy you have some tie dye. Doesn't it make your day a little more fun? :thumbsup2

It does! :thumbsup2 I think her first buy from you (or one of the first) was her shirt and my shirt two years ago for Magic Meets.
 
It was really good. I did the walking part at 3 miles and hour and the running part at 4 miles an hour. I am going back tonight. I am not as sore as I thought I would be today.

Wow, hon! That's really good. Was this your first time trying to run?

It does! :thumbsup2 I think her first buy from you (or one of the first) was her shirt and my shirt two years ago for Magic Meets.

Oh, that's when I first started doing them! That's awesome. :goodvibes
 
Ok, I officially started "training" today. I've had a hard time finding the motivation to get back into running (life has not been kind to the Lego-Clan lately and I've been all kinds of distracted). Today I got up, got dressed, and ran.

It wasn't what it should have been, but wasn't awful either. It's a start (I'm laughing at the What About Bob references above, as I used that in my blog post today!!:rotfl:). And like TK said, I have no idea where life will be for me in Feb. 2013, but if I can do that race, I sure would like to.:goodvibes

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Why do I feel like we jumped to Beetlejuice all of a sudden?

Come Mr. Tally Man, tally me banana...daylight come and me wanna go home.

The TR is only done on my blog, but if you want to check it out, you're certainly welcome!! Thinking about starting a ptr for our trip in January for my first Disney 5K!! :cool1:

Woohoo! More great readin'. :goodvibes

That's just me rambling a bit.

Precisely why we created this thread! ::yes::

How exciting to think of trying for another!

Exciting indeed! I'm still of the notion that the TK Clan o' Pirates could use a Princess but I treasure my pretty little neck so I won't say anything more...

...just in case wishing makes it so! :rolleyes1

Did you know the 5Ks are actually called Family Fun 5Ks, and they typically have a stroller division? :thumbsup2

And there were plenty of them!

Thanks - :hug: I so agree about the DIS - it is hard to explain to people how you can have friends many of which you have never met in person.

BF used to think it was BIZ-ARRE! Now he gets it. He'll never be a DISer, but at least he teases me less. :laughing:

Gone, babe.

A la Hermes in Hercules, in case you were missing the obscure movie reference. ;)

I heart Herc.

And only reallllly remotely related...I heart me some THOR.

Dear Chris Hemsworth,
Come visit me.
Bring your abs.
Love,
Tinkerbellarella

It was really good. I did the walking part at 3 miles and hour and the running part at 4 miles an hour.

Great job!

Today I got up, got dressed, and ran.

Hm.
I'm inspired.
Tomorrow I think I will:
Get up.
Get dressed.
Eat ice cream.

:rotfl:
 














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