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If you read through the what I said, I was referring to how people eat at home. Someone seemed to think that it was completely normal to have long, drawn out meals. My point was that the majority of people don't eat this way on a daily basis, especially with little kids. Some people are very much affected by how and when they eat. Having 1 service where they can go a bit faster and 1 where they make it a more leisurely event is not unreasonable for a cruise line that caters to kids. Of course people have times where they linger at dinner, but that is not usually an every day occurrence.
But the dining rooms aren't the only food on the ship. You go to the dining room for a dining room experience. There are quick service options available for people who want a quick service experience.
 
iPads don't belong in dining rooms.
Please don’t judge others until you have walked in their shoes. We would never allow an iPad at home at dinner time, but our youngest is Autistic and struggles with crowds. He loves to eat out and it is rare that the iPad comes out. I always have a bag packed with small toys and colouring books. We also love to chat over dinner. However, if somewhere is busy we will get out the iPad as it helps him to zone out from the busyness of the room and relax. Sometimes things are more complicated than they look from the outside.
 
Please don’t judge others until you have walked in their shoes. We would never allow an iPad at home at dinner time, but our youngest is Autistic and struggles with crowds. He loves to eat out and it is rare that the iPad comes out. I always have a bag packed with small toys and colouring books. We also love to chat over dinner. However, if somewhere is busy we will get out the iPad as it helps him to zone out from the busyness of the room and relax. Sometimes things are more complicated than they look from the outside.
It has nothing to do with judgment. I'm not saying you're a bad mother. I'm saying iPads don't belong in dining rooms, just like bathing suits don't belong in dining rooms, basketball shorts don't belong in dining rooms, and cell phones don't belong in dining rooms.

I'm asking sincerely, I'm not being difficult... would you set your son up with the iPad in a theater?
 
On the 2 cruises I’ve done since the restart, all of my dining room meals were incredibly quick (2nd dining). App, entree, and dessert and done in about 45 minutes. I got the impression they had been told to get everyone out as fast as possible. Totally different than my cruises in the before times. Has anyone else experienced this?
 

But the dining rooms aren't the only food on the ship. You go to the dining room for a dining room experience. There are quick service options available for people who want a quick service experience.
You can have a normal dining experience(not quick service) and not have it last 2+ hours. It is not fast food or fine dining. There is a middle ground to that, you know. Nothing rushed about a 90 minute meal, which is probably more the average. You can still have a great meal and experience without it taking 2+ hours. I don't know why you have to go to extremes like you do in these discussions.
 
On the 2 cruises I’ve done since the restart, all of my dining room meals were incredibly quick (2nd dining). App, entree, and dessert and done in about 45 minutes. I got the impression they had been told to get everyone out as fast as possible. Totally different than my cruises in the before times. Has anyone else experienced this?
I've done two post restart, both early, both larger parties (4 adults, 3 kids). We usually clocked in around 1:30, but maybe a little later on a night like Animator's show night. We typically did app, soup/salad, entree, desert.

You can have a normal dining experience(not quick service) and not have it last 2+ hours.
I've never had a meal on a Disney cruise ship that went 2+ hours. I think you're diagnosing a problem that isn't there. If everyone was going 2:30, I'd agree that they need to speed things up. But I don't think people are going 2:30.
 
I’m kind of torn if I prefer the Disney way of rotational dining, matching show times and assigned servers to Other cruise lines we have more flexibility, no rotational dining but need to plan and pre-book more like on Royal. Here you can choose many dining slots

We just did our longest DCL cruise and to be honest it did get a bit tedious the same time every day. Granted we did skip the MDR on 2 Nights. We will love to have had cabanas open for dinner.

But I think rotational dining will stay with DCL seeing For many DCL loyalists that would never fly because they have a strong relationship to their servers. It would also affect the amount of additional tip servers get. I’m pretty sure Disney servers get more tips on top of the standard gratuity versus other lines because of the way you feel pressured to give more if you see the same people serving you every night.
 
I've done two post restart, both early, both larger parties (4 adults, 3 kids). We usually clocked in around 1:30, but maybe a little later on a night like Animator's show night. We typically did app, soup/salad, entree, desert.


I've never had a meal on a Disney cruise ship that went 2+ hours. I think you're diagnosing a problem that isn't there. If everyone was going 2:30, I'd agree that they need to speed things up. But I don't think people are going 2:30.
We do try to get out of there earlier. We have been pretty unlucky that we have been sat with others that like to take their time. I have actually had to ask the server to not keep us on the other diner's schedule.
 
While I don't choose to bring an iPad for my children, you get zero say in what other parents decide to do. Did I miss something and Disney has a rule not allowing iPads in the dining rooms? No? Then mind your own business or stay home.

I have seen them ask someone to please put headphones in or turn it off because the volume was disturbing people. The second night it came in and was whipped out without headphones, the head server made it clear politely but firmly that without headphones they would not be allowed to have it in the dining room.

So there may not be a flat rule against them, but if you refuse to use headphones and won’t keep the volume low so as not to disturb others, then yours may be banned.
 
On the 2 cruises I’ve done since the restart, all of my dining room meals were incredibly quick (2nd dining). App, entree, and dessert and done in about 45 minutes. I got the impression they had been told to get everyone out as fast as possible. Totally different than my cruises in the before times. Has anyone else experienced this?
I didn't have short meals on any of the three cruises that I've done since the restart. On the last one, I don't think any meal was shorter than two hours. Those servers really liked to talk and we enjoyed playing crayon games. No rush!
 
iPads don't belong in dining rooms.
I still laugh at a memory from our first cruise on Disney back in 2016. A stateroom telephone. Yes, a stateroom telephone. Brought to the MDR. To occupy a young child. DS, who celebrated his 5th birthday onboard that sailing, was dumbfounded.
 
I still laugh at a memory from our first cruise on Disney back in 2016. A stateroom telephone. Yes, a stateroom telephone. Brought to the MDR. To occupy a young child. DS, who celebrated his 5th birthday onboard that sailing, was dumbfounded.
We had lunch in the main dining room on Nassau day in April because we couldn't get off the ship with unvaccinated kids. We had the most incredible meal with an AMAZING team of servers (shout out to Natanael on the Magic). They were telling jokes, doing magic tricks, teasing the kids, teasing my mother-in-law, swapping stories about their own families. Two hours straight of just joking and laughing together. It may have been the most "pixie dust" I've felt since I saw SpectroMagic for the first time when I was 7. There were maybe two other families in the whole dining room, and I couldn't help but notice the one other large family had 6 or 7 members, each one with their head buried in their devices, half of them with headphones in. They didn't interact with one another or their servers beyond ordering their food, and they all looked miserable. My heart broke for those kids that their parents were robbing them of the amazing experience that my kids had. "The man at lunch who turned a napkin into a mouse" was the highlight of their whole trip.
 
I have seen them ask someone to please put headphones in or turn it off because the volume was disturbing people. The second night it came in and was whipped out without headphones, the head server made it clear politely but firmly that without headphones they would not be allowed to have it in the dining room.

So there may not be a flat rule against them, but if you refuse to use headphones and won’t keep the volume low so as not to disturb others, then yours may be banned.
Of course. I wouldn't expect them to allow someone to bring a boombox into the dining room either.
 
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We had lunch in the main dining room on Nassau day in April because we couldn't get off the ship with unvaccinated kids. We had the most incredible meal with an AMAZING team of servers (shout out to Natanael on the Magic). They were telling jokes, doing magic tricks, teasing the kids, teasing my mother-in-law, swapping stories about their own families. Two hours straight of just joking and laughing together. It may have been the most "pixie dust" I've felt since I saw SpectroMagic for the first time when I was 7. There were maybe two other families in the whole dining room, and I couldn't help but notice the one other large family had 6 or 7 members, each one with their head buried in their devices, half of them with headphones in. They didn't interact with one another or their servers beyond ordering their food, and they all looked miserable. My heart broke for those kids that their parents were robbing them of the amazing experience that my kids had. "The man at lunch who turned a napkin into a mouse" was the highlight of their whole trip.
That describes pretty much every dinner that I had on my February cruise. The servers are why I go back to the main dining rooms every night, every cruise, even though the food is the same. They're just so much fun to talk to!
 
Telling people to mind their own business or stay home is a little over the line and was reported.

We aren't going to host an argument over the proper way to parent here, but everyone can voice their opinions too as long as it does not target other posters. Thanks!
 
That describes pretty much every dinner that I had on my February cruise. The servers are why I go back to the main dining rooms every night, every cruise, even though the food is the same. They're just so much fun to talk to!
I've tried to put my finger on what makes them so special, and I think it's authenticity/genuineness (if that's a word). When you're talking with them, you don't get the sense that they're just very good customer service people who are trying to provide very good customer service. You get the sense that they're GENUINELY enjoying the interaction too. Like they're not just playing with my kids to make my kids happy, they're playing with my kids because it makes them happy.
 
It has nothing to do with judgment. I'm not saying you're a bad mother. I'm saying iPads don't belong in dining rooms, just like bathing suits don't belong in dining rooms, basketball shorts don't belong in dining rooms, and cell phones don't belong in dining rooms.

I'm asking sincerely, I'm not being difficult... would you set your son up with the iPad in a theater?
I mean, the theater itself is the functional equivalent of an ipad, just on a big stage instead of a small screen, so ipad would never be needed there.

One night I forgot my autistic DS’s ipad in the room, and after 5 minutes of trying to console him while he was crying, standing on his seat, covering his ears and whimpering because it is too crowded and noisy, I ran and got it for him from the room. Not worth him having a horrible evening or the whole family having to miss out on MDR, and it really doesn’t bother me in the slightest that someone else at a table nearby might wrinkle their nose at the sight of an ipad and headphones.

And I also really don’t care if someone is in basketball shorts—maybe they lost their luggage or spilled something or just ran out of time to get changed. Who knows, who cares. Live and let live.
 
If you read through the what I said, I was referring to how people eat at home. Someone seemed to think that it was completely normal to have long, drawn out meals. My point was that the majority of people don't eat this way on a daily basis, especially with little kids. Some people are very much affected by how and when they eat. Having 1 service where they can go a bit faster and 1 where they make it a more leisurely event is not unreasonable for a cruise line that caters to kids. Of course people have times where they linger at dinner, but that is not usually an every day occurrence.
No, I understand. No idea how long they take to eat, LOL
In my 19 years on the DIS I have been amazed by the families where both parents work, and kids are active in after school stuff where parents have dinner on the table at 5 pm during the week. This time of year with Sunset about 8 pm, the light level safe to play until 8:30 pm, when my son played Little League, it often was pick him up at school at 3 pm, snack and change clothes in the car, at the fields at 3:30 pm.
We were lucky to be home to START fixing dinner, start homework, start showers at 9 pm!.
 
No, I understand. No idea how long they take to eat, LOL
In my 19 years on the DIS I have been amazed by the families where both parents work, and kids are active in after school stuff where parents have dinner on the table at 5 pm during the week. This time of year with Sunset about 8 pm, the light level safe to play until 8:30 pm, when my son played Little League, it often was pick him up at school at 3 pm, snack and change clothes in the car, at the fields at 3:30 pm.
We were lucky to be home to START fixing dinner, start homework, start showers at 9 pm!.
I remember those days. I could get hot food on the table in under 15 minutes. LOL
 

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