Colleen27
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Mar 31, 2007
I moved out/paid my own way at 18, married at 21, bought a house at 23, and had a baby at 28. Someone in their early 20's still living with their parents and taking part time classes is a foreign concept to me.
How long ago? All these posts about being independent at 18, married at 21, etc. seem kind of, I don't know, old-fashioned or something. I married really young for my generation, at 22. Most of my friends didn't move out until they finished college, in their early-mid 20s, and the ones that got married didn't do so until their late 20s or early 30s.
Living with parents while taking classes part time is the only way to go for a lot of people unless they want to graduate with massive debt, because a young adult without a degree simply doesn't have the earning potential to shoulder 5-figure tuition bills and all the costs of an apartment, even with roommates. It is a practical choice, one that puts personal freedom and a certain amount of social status second to financial prudence. As life partner material, I'd be a lot happier with one of my kids choosing that guy than one who took on the kind of loans I saw some of my classmates taking to be "independent" and not have to live at home during school.