This time it was "goodbye"

[Serena]

We talked some more last night, for hours. I guess I don't do the "pretend you don't care" thing very well.

This time we left on "good" terms, and it felt like good bye.

Now I start over.
This time I'm going to strive to be the best person I can be, regardless of what's going on around me. I spent way too much time being angry and resentful and I don't want to do that any more.


I've spent a week without my husband laying next to me at night. I don't think I'll ever get used to it.

 

[Goofyposter]

{{{{{HUGS to You Serena}}}}}}}

 

[jldriscoll]

[{{{hugs}}}}

You're a stong woman taking all the right steps. You'll get through this!! You are an amazing role model for your daughters, learning to stand on your own. My prayers ar with you.

{{{more hugs}}}}

 

[MerryPoppins]

Just take it one day at a time. Things will get better with time, I'm sure.

I've never been in your position, so I'm at a loss as to what to say. I am here if you need a friend, and I'm so sorry you are having to go through this.

 

[mickey65]

{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

THE PRESENT

Every sunrise is a present, a gift from God above,
Gift wrapped with scarlet ribbons and tied with bows of love.
Each day's a new beginning, a time to start anew,
While all the stars are sleeping, and the rose is fresh with dew.
Ever day's a new creation, too lovely to ignore,
And we may find a blessing, just outside our door.
We cannot keep the past, like fireflies in a jar,
Nor journey to the future by wishing on a star.
Every sunrise is a blessing, a gift for just today,
Rejoice, my friend, embrace it before it fades away!


Author unknown


more {{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}

 

[dianeschlicht]

Take it one day at a time. You are starting the recovery process already. Just remember that the loss of a relationship effects you much like a death. You need to grieve and go through the whole process. It will take time, but I feel you are well on your way.

 

[JohnTBap]

I'm thinking of you and wishing you all the best.

 

[helenabear]

{{{HUGS}}} to you Laurie. I am wishing you all the best during this time.

 

[Dream]

{{{{{{{{MAJOR HUGS!!}}}}}}}}

 

[dizneenut]

Just take it one day at a time. {{{hugs}}}

 

[figmentvi]

{{{HUGS}}} Laurie.

You're off to the right start when you said that you were going to be the best person you can be. Take the time to learn who you are and how wonderful a person you are.

Be strong, we know you can be.


Linda

 

[Lars624]

{{{hugs}}} and good wishes to you..........your dauhters have a wonderful and strong Mommy, they & you should be very proud of yourself! Stay strong!

 

[Goofball]

I'm sorry, Laurie. Keep your chin up. (That sounds so silly!) One day at a time - you will be okay. {{{{Hugs}}}}

 

[German_Racer]

{{{{{hugs}}}}}

wishing you all the best

 

[Serena]

Thank you all, you have helped so much. I can't even begin to tell you how much I appreciate it.

Mickey, I printed out that poem and I'm putting it on my wall. As soon as I get some thumb tacks anyway.

 

[NHAnn]

It's gut-wrenching, I know.
Wishing you all the best, every day, one at a time.
Hang in there!!!!

 

[antnee]

Sorry to hear of your troubles Serena. Focusing on the positive could be the best thing for you right now and could be used to get a better understanding of yourself.

 

[Blondie]

{{{hugs}}}

Keep your chin up, there will be times when it's going to get very rough. You'll need to stay strong not only for yourself, but for your two beautiful daughters as well.

 

[Dan Murphy]

Tough, yes, Laurie, but you sure have gone the extra mile. My best to you and know well you have many friends of support here on the DIS, and local also. Hope to see you again, in October. {{Hugs}}

 

[BibbidiBobbidiBOO]

Hugs to you . My mom went through this last year after over 40 years of marriage. Now they are in counseling trying to pick up the pieces. I am still confused. Stay strong! Mom has been on a roller coaster for 1 year. Looks like you have faced the facts and are ready to move on. Wishing you the best.