The "Unwanted at School" Club

[shellybellypolo]

This is a thread for people who feel like nobody at school likes them. Almost everyone at my school has a good reputation. I, however, am one who has been bashed at school. Sure, sometimes it doesn't bother me, but when it's the "popular" people bashing me, the whole school follows along with it. The only real friends I have are the ones that sit at lunch with me (who are usually my friend's friends) and the ones I've known since Elementary. Most of my friends have faded away. To top it all off, my only real good friend is popular and wanted and is pretty, and everything I'm not. And, to tell you the honest truth, it SUCKS.

Any one else feel this way?

(I have a bad feeling about this thread, but I need to vent)

 

[StitchfansJr]

This is a thread for people who feel like nobody at school likes them. Almost everyone at my school has a good reputation. I, however, am one who has been bashed at school. Sure, sometimes it doesn't bother me, but when it's the "popular" people bashing me, the whole school follows along with it. The only real friends I have are the ones that sit at lunch with me (who are usually my friend's friends) and the ones I've known since Elementary. Most of my friends have faded away. To top it all off, my only real good friend is popular and wanted and is pretty, and everything I'm not. And, to tell you the honest truth, it SUCKS.

Any one else feel this way?

(I have a bad feeling about this thread, but I need to vent)

Yup, I'm with you, Shelly. I also hate rumors. Most rumors are from popular people who don't have anything else to do. Most rumors are "* likes @" I always have that. They're all wrong. Now my so-called "friend" is stealing my other best friends. One that I've known since 1st grade! Another since 5th.

 

[poohbear1234]

well the only people at my school that likes me are____________________________________________________________
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my mom and my cats lol sorry i am home schooled

 

[shellybellypolo]

Yup, I'm with you, Shelly. I also hate rumors. Most rumors are from popular people who don't have anything else to do. Most rumors are "* likes @" I always have that. They're all wrong. Now my so-called "friend" is stealing my other best friends. One that I've known since 1st grade! Another since 5th.

That is happening to me too.

My one friend I call her my "sexy beast" because we made fun of this story we read. The question was: What were Victors feelings towards Teresa? And she's like: Victor thought Teresa was a SEXY BEAST. Hence the nickname.

I've always wanted a nickname like this with a close friend. Now my best friend and the other friend always talk and now THEY HAVE NICKNAMES FOR EACH OTHER. I wanted to be like "SHE WAS MY FRIEND FIRST!" But then of course that would be mean...

*cough*

 

[StitchfansJr]

That is happening to me too.

My one friend I call her my "sexy beast" because we made fun of this story we read. The question was: What were Victors feelings towards Teresa? And she's like: Victor thought Teresa was a SEXY BEAST. Hence the nickname.

I've always wanted a nickname like this with a close friend. Now my best friend and the other friend always talk and now THEY HAVE NICKNAMES FOR EACH OTHER. I wanted to be like "SHE WAS MY FRIEND FIRST!" But then of course that would be mean...

*cough*

Poor Shelly. One minute she's like "You are supposed to put your arms this way!" We were doing Yoga. After I asked why she likes gymnastics so much. She said "Why do you care?" :l

 

[shellybellypolo]

Poor Shelly. One minute she's like "You are supposed to put your arms this way!" We were doing Yoga. After I asked why she likes gymnastics so much. She said "Why do you care?" :l

That's just downright rude -_-

OMG I can't wait to see if our "little plans" work out. YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN

 

[StitchfansJr]

That's just downright rude -_-

OMG I can't wait to see if our "little plans" work out. YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN

XD I hope we'll be able to go. My mom said there's a chance. Too bad no one answered on the TB.

 

[HSMndLKfan92]

I feel like that. Heck, I've gone to extreme measures to feel wanted. A lot of people at my school aren't my friend. A lot of them talk to me, though. I still feel like I'm not pretty enough to fit in.

I just have to remind myself that I'm going to a different high school from all those kids next year.

 

[jasonpwns]

Yes people hate me and say bad things about me and start bad roumers it gets depressing

 

[poohbear1234]

i was a kinda unwanted but most of my friends were cool but then one day i was in the cool kids club (dont ask about the name it was the real name of the stupid club).so there might be hope for me when i go to high school.

 

[BusyBeaBee]

Hey Shelly,
please think of this, and from someone who has been there
anytime someone cuts you down, they are doing it to make themselves feel better . unfortunatly many people step on others to make themselves "better" in the eyes of their peers (peeps!) so ,
remember that school is such a short time frame of your life, you have your whole life ahead of you,
be proud of yourself, and do what is right and good, and you do not have to fit in,
you never know, you may be the person who goes back for your 10 or 20 year class reunion and be the "best " of all of them!!!
(been there, and learned a lot!!!)

 

[Renpener]

I am kinda... in the middle. In my class we all believe that everyone has equal values, but we still have the popularity lists. I have my moments when I'm at the top, and those when I'm at the bottom.

I HATE basketball and all the other kids in my class get me for it. But I get them back when we do running when I overlap them 17 times

Also, VMK is a major factor why I'm not at the top. My friends think it's all weird, but I dont care. I'm the disney freak and I'm proud.

So basically, be proud who you are. YOU should know that you have a strong spot where those other kids are weak. And always keep this in mind:
"You can laugh now, but one day - you'll be working for me or at McDonalds "

just dont say it to them Bad experience when I mummbled that out loud

 

[birdman94]

i didnt read the whole thread to know if someone said this but either catch the popular kids diong something that would make them unpopular and take a pic and show it to everyone or pull big pranks on every popular kid to make them a lauging stock or here is the best thing to remeber you only get 2 or 3
real friends and dont lose them also no one stays popular forever and how will bieing popular help get you a job it could be like this
popular= future job homeless person
unpopular= future job millionare

 

[punkskateboarder]

i have a few friends at school. only one is a girl and i like her but she wouldent like me in a 1,000,000 years but atleast were friends. i have like 7 friends at school. most kids have like atleast 25 friends at school. but hey i have a few friends at the skatepark and on the dis and VMK.

 

[punkskateboarder]

I feel like that. Heck, I've gone to extreme measures to feel wanted. A lot of people at my school aren't my friend. A lot of them talk to me, though. I still feel like I'm not pretty enough to fit in.

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that is how i feel

 

[LuNaReVe]

Yup, I'm with you, Shelly. I also hate rumors. Most rumors are from popular people who don't have anything else to do. Most rumors are "* likes @" I always have that. They're all wrong. Now my so-called "friend" is stealing my other best friends. One that I've known since 1st grade! Another since 5th.

I agree with everyone. It makes me mad when people don't like me and they whisper things about me all the time. Some people like to pretend to be my best friend. Then around other people they're not my friend. You know...I just don't get it. I feel like my DIS Peeps are my best friends cuz u are. THANKS DIS PEOPLES

 

[milkabum]

I only really have two close friends. Madison and Nicole.
And I'm afraid these.. poopyheads if you will.. can "steal" them at any moment. I know they wouldn't give in but still.. you never know.

But I do have Jamie, Shelly, Kayla, Allison, Sarah and much more friends I can depend on here. But it doesn't mean everyone is my friend.

I still have hopes of spring break with Happy P- I mean Shelly and Ali.
And Jameh Poo is on MSN all day and lives in the city next door so BOOM.

 

[ShadowKittyKat]

When I was in elementary school, I think everyone hated me. People used to talk about me behind my back and spread rumors. Even the teachers hated me. They gave me low grades on things like tests for little mistakes, and they never called on me. I hate that one guy... Mr. Lynn... I used to be like REALLY shy and I would never participate in anything. I got an F on a report assigned by him because I didn't want to get up in front of the class and read it. He called on me when I didn't raise my hand, and being so shy at the time, I was often left standing in silence while he practically ignored the situation. A price to pay for being in the Gifted and Talented class

Well now I'm in middle school... things have definitely turned around. Our grade is split into teams, and thankfully nobody TOO bad is on mine. I have three people I can call friends; the rest are just part of the "group". My teachers are nice and they like me as much as I like them. I oddly don't feel like I have any friends, even though I have so many on DIS and VMK.

 

[AbsoluteAwesome]

It's times like these when I LOVE LOVE LOVE my school. There aren't any clicks or any of that junk. It's a small private school and there's 15 other kids in my class who I get along with very well. However, I have only a couple friends (outside of VMK) that I can really be myself around. They both left the school I go to last year. I do feel left out sometimes, though, because I'm not super good friends with a lot of the people who graduated last year. (Except one who is one of my best friends) So when they visit and everyone else is like, "OMG OMG HIIIIIIII!!!" I just kinda sit there. And wait for them to leave.

 

[StitchfansJr]

I only really have two close friends. Madison and Nicole.
And I'm afraid these.. poopyheads if you will.. can "steal" them at any moment. I know they wouldn't give in but still.. you never know.

But I do have Jamie, Shelly, Kayla, Allison, Sarah and much more friends I can depend on here. But it doesn't mean everyone is my friend.

I still have hopes of spring break with Happy P- I mean Shelly and Ali.
And Jameh Poo is on MSN all day and lives in the city next door so BOOM.

Happy P- Btw, Shelly, when's your spring break? **And..It's changed to the 22nd to 31st.**