UGH!!!! Can my life ever be DRAMA FREE????? Wanna hear my story? To BAD! You dont have a choice!!


So.. my mom has this thing where she wants to introduce us... us being our family.. to her "friends" Her guy friends. My husband and I have discussed this. Not only does it make me uncomfortable on SO many levels.. Just my own personal uncomfortableness... But we dont want our kids around a different guy everytime Grandma thinks she needs to push them down our throats. It is CONSTANT. I want you to meet... whomever. Whatever. NO. You dont need to bring me, my husband.. or especially my CHILDREN around some random guy that you meet. NOT GONNA HAPPEN. The last thing my kids need is to see Grandma like that. Its totally inappropriate. They dont need to see her going from guy to guy. So that is the CORE problem. She is always trying to push her men down our throats. I dont want to hear about it, I dont want to see it, I dont want to know anything about that part of her life. UNLESS.. She settles on one guy, and it becomes serious. THEN we will decide if it is something we want to do. OUR family, OUR rules. Respect it. I dont begrudge her companionship. I know she is lonely. Fine! Meet someone. Be with whomever. I dont care! But I dont want to know, either. Make sense??
WELL. My sister called me on Monday. I have told you guys about the financial stuff they have been going through, right? Well, they were down to one car, and it broke down. She wanted to know what I thought of her calling our mom and asking her for the $1500. to fix the car. I thought...


DONT DO IT!!! It wont end well!

but I didnt say that. I told her if she could hang on for a couple of weeks, I could give her the money. But its their nly car, they need it now. So she asks my mom fo rthe money.. My mom wants to put all these stipulations on it.

I told my mom to just giver her the money and be done with it! Dont tell her how to spend it! She is going to pay you back!
Anyways.. The whole thing goes on for a few hours.. My mom calls me the next day. She is buying my sister a brand new Kia Rio.


For my sister! I was thrilled for my sister. Its cheap and small, for sure.. But my sister needs a new reliable car. and they cant afford it right now. and my mom surely can, so why not help out when you are needed. That is not the problem. I figure, my parents have been MORE then generous with me.. Its about time my sister got a piece of it! Again.. NOT the problem.
The problem starts here. She is buying it here in Tacoma. I can understand that. The Kia dealership here is the highest selling one in the country. Because of that, they sell their cars DIRT CHEAP. My mom got my sis a brand new car for WAY less than $10,000. BUT. She tells me that she is skipping Alex's birthday party. WHAT?? Alex planned this dinner completely around my mother. He could have had a birthday party at Chucky Cheeses.. but he CHOSE to have a party that his grandma would come to. Because he WANTED her there. She is skipping it so she could tow the car down to my sisters house.

What?? Why dont you just buy it, and fly her up here so she could drive it home?? It would be TONS cheaper that way.
Then I found out why. This GUY she has been seeing is going with her. This guy is a SCUM BAG. She met him through my aunt, and my cousin. They are all junkies, and alcoholics. My cousin... We will call him B. was in prison for a year for plotting to kill a witness in my other cousins MURDER trial. Yeah. Brothers, by my aunt. THATS who she met this guy through. He has no job, no nothing.

The reason she is skipping Alexs birthday party is so she can go on a road trip with this GUY.


THEN she says.. We are coming over to drop off Alex's gift. We who?? You arent bringing this guy into my home. NOT GONNA HAPPEN. She keeps pushing. NO. I WILL slam the door in his face. I dont care if he thinks I am an evil horrid you know what. I hav etold her time, and time again. She doesnt listen!
She hasnt even known this guy for two months. WHY is she pushing him on us like this?? He ends up waiting in the car.. She didnt even have the balls to tell Alex herself. I MADE her. I wanted her to see his face. Mean? I dont care! She BROKE his heart for a piece of booty.

THEN she calls my sister, and is asking her why I am being like this. Okay.. Now, before i started going to such extreme, brutal measures about this.. I talked to my sister and my husband.. Do they think I am being irrational? Am I being crazy?? they both said NO! I am protecting my children. They are 100% on my side. Which is good. My sis tried to explain it to her.. But my mom didnt want to listen to it.
I sense a BIG blow out when she gets home. But Im not backing down on this. I have taken care of her since my dad died.. I have completely conformed to everything she wanted, I have been there for her no matter what she needed. I am always there for her. WHY cant she understand, and respect my wishes on this??
I have a HUGE fear that she is going to try to bring this guy to WDW with us. I was seriously up all night worrying about it. WHAT do I do then?? I completely bombarded my poor husband with it as soon as he got up! WHAT do we do?? He said, easy. We WONT go. BAM. I love it when he puts the smack down!

SO I guess this discussion needs to be had before I book and pay for the trip.
I love my mom.. I really do. But this is making me CRAZY. Because, you know.. I need more stress in my life!