The Truth about Teacher Gifts, Things NOT to Do

xanman

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I know that sometimes the truth is hard to hear, but with so many people talking about making food gifts as a way to save $ I think that the time has come to bring this up.
1. Don't make food gifts. Most teachers and schools have a rule that ALL homemade food gifts are/must be thrown away. Although your child's teacher will thank you, and tell you later how good it was, chances are it ended up in the trash. I know that this is a sensitive subject, but here goes. For those of you on foodstamps or other assistance that make cookies etc as gifts because you don't have to use your limited cash to buy a gift, please consider this alternative. You could donate a bag of canned food items to your local shelter or food bank in the names of all your kid's teachers. You can write them a note to go in the card your child made that says in appreciation for all the help they give, a donation has been given to ___ to extend that help to even more. I would suggest this to all of you that are on a tight budget. If you have 10 teachers to buy for and want to keep it at $2 each, a $20 donation of cash or food would go a long way. You do not have to mention the dollar amount on your note, just that a donation has been made in lieu of teacher gifts. Even if you are not on a budget this is a great idea.

2. No coffee mugs. Teachers end up with 100's of these things and pitch most of them, ESPECIALLY the ones with a teacher theme.

3. Don't BUY christmas tree ornaments, again especially the ones with a teacher theme. Ones made by your child will be appreciated, but not the "handmade" ones from the craft shows.

Don't think you HAVE to give a gift. Your child can make a card so they will have something to give along with the other children, along with a note of appreciation from you is much better than more junk to toss.
 
I know that sometimes the truth is hard to hear, but with so many people talking about making food gifts as a way to save $ I think that the time has come to bring this up.
1. Don't make food gifts. Most teachers and schools have a rule that ALL homemade food gifts are/must be thrown away. Although your child's teacher will thank you, and tell you later how good it was, chances are it ended up in the trash. I know that this is a sensitive subject, but here goes. For those of you on foodstamps or other assistance that make cookies etc as gifts because you don't have to use your limited cash to buy a gift, please consider this alternative. You could donate a bag of canned food items to your local shelter or food bank in the names of all your kid's teachers. You can write them a note to go in the card your child made that says in appreciation for all the help they give, a donation has been given to ___ to extend that help to even more. I would suggest this to all of you that are on a tight budget. If you have 10 teachers to buy for and want to keep it at $2 each, a $20 donation of cash or food would go a long way. You do not have to mention the dollar amount on your note, just that a donation has been made in lieu of teacher gifts. Even if you are not on a budget this is a great idea.
2. No coffee mugs. Teachers end up with 100's of these things and pitch most of them, ESPECIALLY the ones with a teacher theme.

3. Don't BUY christmas tree ornaments, again especially the ones with a teacher theme. Ones made by your child will be appreciated, but not the "handmade" ones from the craft shows.

Don't think you HAVE to give a gift. Your child can make a card so they will have something to give along with the other children, along with a note of appreciation from you is much better than more junk to toss.


I am not a teacher but I think your post is well received. The donation to a food bank in their name is a great idea!!
 
No candles, or #1 teacher ANYTHING! My teacher friends prefer either gift cards, classroom supplies, or a handwritten note of thanks.
 
You're right. My mom was a teacher and we had a million "#1 Teacher" mugs and almost a whole tree filled with apple and school house ornaments.
 

My mother was a teacher and then a principal and I have seen it all.

She would come into the house with tons of presents.

- teacher ornaments - trash
- mugs - trash
- stinky stuff from Bath and Body - donate to shelter
- homemade treats - trash - give to homeless


What is good?

Notes from the children - my mother would spend the most time on those notes - and she kept and treasured them. Having a child write about what a teacher means to them - restores a teachers soul!

Gift card from any school supply store/Target etc.

A book for the school library donated in the student and teacher's name.
 
I think the idea of donating money to a worthy cause and letting the teachers know money was given in their name is a great idea! It could be to the charity of your child's choice - think Humane Society, Food Bank, etc.

I am a little upset by those posting that they throw out the mugs, ornaments, etc. Couldn't you give them away somewhere? Sell them on Ebay or Craigslist and donate the money or use it for school supplies for kids who cannot afford to bring them in? There has got to be something better than throwing them away.:lovestruc

And about the homemade treats - schools have a lot of bake sales and holiday parties. The same parents who send in the homemade treats for Christmas are the ones who bake for other events. Why would they be thrown away? If you are sick of eating treats, bring them to a church or food shelter. I am sure that they know of someone who would welcome the treats.
 
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I am a little upset by those posting that they throw out the mugs, ornaments, etc. Couldn't you give them away somewhere? Sell them on Ebay or Craigslist and donate the money or use it for school supplies for kids who cannot afford to bring them in? There has got to be something better than throwing them away.:lovestruc

Who wants a teacher ornament? Except a teacher and they probably have a hundred of them.

What would you do with 12 mismatched mugs (that was an average yearly haul of mugs). Who would buy them? Believe me - for a few years they went to the garage sale and people would not spend a nickel on them.

They are truly value-less.
 
My gift of a Target giftcard always seems very appreciated by the teachers. I figure they can either buy supplies for the classroom if they choose, or something personal for themselves if they want to go that route.:thumbsup2
 
I gave my dd's teacher a gift certificate for a manicure last year. I think this year I will do the same thing
 
I am a single mom on a very tight budget. My little one gets special help from two different teachers and she has a student teacher. I don't know if its rude not to buy for all of them. I just simply can't buy for all of them so i am sticking to just their main teachers. I would like to acknowledge them in some way. I am sure that they understand people just can't afford to get too much. I know one is a Dunkin Donuts fanatic, but since we are on a budget do you think a $10.00 gift card is too cheap? I don't want my daughter's to be the only one in their class that doesn't give their teacher anything so we will give something, but it can't be much.
 
And about the homemade treats - schools have a lot of bake sales and holiday parties. The same parents who send in the homemade treats for Christmas are the ones who bake for other events. Why would they be thrown away? If you are sick of eating treats, bring them to a church or food shelter. I am sure that they know of someone who would welcome the treats.

Sadly, most schools no longer allow homemade treats for parties, they must be store bought. They are thrown away because there are too many issues with cleanliness, allergies and so on. Bakes sales are also no longer acceptable for fund raisers, just too much liability.
 
I'm glad someone finally said this!

I have a close family member who is a teacher and I think a lot of what you said applies.

Another thing about food items, there are so many food allergies out there, and I know many people are watching their weight...making or giving a food item might be a waste of your money if this applies to one of your childrens' teachers. Just a thought...

ETA: I think my family member would be appreciative of a card alone. A gift is nice, but a card with your good wishes is just as appreciative.
 
Well I am a teacher and I do enjoy some of the homemade food gifts, I also like Christmas tree ornaments. (not teacher-themed though)

No mugs or candles for sure!!!

Gift cards are my favorite! A donation to the local food bank or any charity for that matter would be nice also! :)
 
My son's school sent out a letter that the teachers preferred students to give a book to the book drive for charities. The letter even emphasized that the book was in lieu of a gift, not in addition. I thought that was great.
 
My daughter went from SIX teachers down to three this year when we moved :thumbsup2 and I plan to have her sit down and write out for them how she feels about them. Of course, this is just because she likes them all ;) I plan to add my own note as well, and we'll send them each in a card for each teacher. If finances allow I'll probably add a small gift card in each as well.

Every time I've seen the teacher themed stuff I wonder how much each teacher must have! I know that I have tons of secretary stuff from those who didn't know what to get me (they all know now that yarn is the way to go, with me! :rotfl: )
 
Who wants a teacher ornament? Except a teacher and they probably have a hundred of them.

What would you do with 12 mismatched mugs (that was an average yearly haul of mugs). Who would buy them? Believe me - for a few years they went to the garage sale and people would not spend a nickel on them.

They are truly value-less.

PLEASE donate any unwanted items to Goodwill or another local charity thrift store! Most are desperate for goods to sell; if they can't sell them at their own store, they can sell them in bulk overseas!
 
Also check your schools policy. As of this year, our teacher's gift can not be worth more than $5 IF it goes to the teacher. We can give a classroom gift or a school gift or a donation in the teacher's name of more.
 
I am a single mom on a very tight budget. My little one gets special help from two different teachers and she has a student teacher. I don't know if its rude not to buy for all of them. I just simply can't buy for all of them so i am sticking to just their main teachers. I would like to acknowledge them in some way. I am sure that they understand people just can't afford to get too much. I know one is a Dunkin Donuts fanatic, but since we are on a budget do you think a $10.00 gift card is too cheap? I don't want my daughter's to be the only one in their class that doesn't give their teacher anything so we will give something, but it can't be much.


A small token and a handmade card from your DD I think would be greatly appreciated. My DS's teachers have always hung up cards from the kids. The ones they make are the best!
 

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