The Official New Mom Thread Part 2

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Just a quick post to say I got my exchange package today--I think it was from Justine, but there wasn't a note, and I wasn't sure on the last name (but Washington D.C., so I'm pretty sure!) Anyway, the older two opened everything up and thought it was GREAT! We knew right away that the Sudoku book was for Jocelyn, the Star Wars ornaments for Robert, and the Sesame Street ornaments for Celeste. There were also some holiday kitchen things, candy from WDW (and we KNOW Justine just got back!), and some real tasty looking hot cocoa mixes. Oh, and an Advent calendar from WDW, too, that Celeste is going to just love! The kids kept saying, "Can I have some of that candy?", and I said, "Who are you?" "I'm your child!" "I have no children!"

I have to run, Luke's getting into everything. Thanks again!
 
I forgot to post this earlier. Don't forget that the Secret Santa Mom's Exchange closes TOMORROW (7:00 PM Central). Each person that is interested needs to copy and PM me the following information:

DIS Name:
Real Name:
Address:
Favorite Color:
Favorite Holiday Treat,Candy, and/or Drink:
Favorite Winter/Holiday Scent(s):
Favorite Winter/Holiday Activities:
Favorite Disney Character(s):
Hobbies:
Collections:
Wish List:

In order for all packages to make it to their destination by Christmas, the deadline for this exchange will be Monday, December 11th! Since we just did an exchange, let’s have a $10 min (excluding shipping) for this exchange. The items sent DO NOT have to be Christmas- or Disney- related. Since this is a Secret Santa exchange, make sure and include a note with clues to your identity. Use the information provided by your pal to help you plan your package.

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Just a quick reply that yes, BnB, that was my package. Wow it came fast! I meant to post on here that I forgot to put the card in the box. I actually forgot a lot with your package-my husband had to throw the sudoku book in there after I taped it, on teh way to the post office (which was why it was not wrapped) cause he saw it on the counter and said "hey, where'd you get the sudoku book?" And stupidly I wrapped everything and then forgot what was what so I could not label each thing with the kid's name. I figured Luke's would be self explanatory since he's the only one who can wear anything that small and the others I assumed you'd know. We gave out those cocoa mixes as favors for Henry's christening and they were good so I picked up a couple extra for you guys. I was looking for some non-chocolate candy for you since I know Luke doesn't let you enjoy it that much but there was not much to be found other than just mint and I wasn't sure how big of a mint fan you were.

Well Henry's so grouchy right now. He took a nice nap earlier and I got some cleaning done but now he's up and grouchy. My mom is coming Wednesday so I really need to clean up but he's not working with me!
 
J&D,

I was going to get in on the Secret Santa exchange but I think I am going to forgo it and send some things to gottalovethem instead. It sounds like she needs a secret santa right now. :grouphug:

Robin,

Has anyone purchased the Cars DVD yet? Do you have any other ideas for her. What are the ages of her kids? I sent you a PM, too.

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hi everyone! i just wanted to say a quick hi!

We had a great time in WDW!

Congrats Bellacam!! I didn't go back and see her picture yet, I'll have to do that. Sounds like quite a story.

I'll try and get on later and catch up!!

Tamie

ps - Thanks BnB for our exchange package!! We got a Disney Christmas CD, some Disney candies, a 2006 Disney ornament and some cute Spot the dog books! Thanks so much!!!!
 
floridafam said:
J&D,

I was going to get in on the Secret Santa exchange but I think I am going to forgo it and send some things to gottalovethem instead. It sounds like she needs a secret santa right now. :grouphug:

Robin,

Has anyone purchased the Cars DVD yet? Do you have any other ideas for her. What are the ages of her kids? I sent you a PM, too.

:thumbsup2

So far, no one has told me they purchased the Cars movie yet.

Her kids are (I think): Lindsey- almost 6- I know she's in K this year.
Laine is 4, but I think he may be closer to 5. But he's in preschool
Leif is a Sept baby, isn't he? So he's 15 months or so.

I know I would also like to get her something...don't know what yet though.
 
Just want to send a huge THANK YOU to Tasha and Kylie for our wonderful exchange gift!!!

Emma received a Care Bear and Care Bear cousin and a Belle puzzle-which she is diligently working on right now. Matthew loves his Christmas puppy and the Smart Fire house is adorable! Thank you so much! Oh, and BTW, Tasha, I thought your wrapping was just fine--I'm the queen of terrible gift wrapping, just not one of those genes I inherited from my mom--so if you can't see what the gift is, I figure it's wrapped good enough for me! :rotfl:
 
Here is the toy for Leif I was *trying* to find- maybe it will be an idea for someone else who wants to add to his giraffe collection :sunny: .

http://www.hasbrotoyshop.com/ProductsByBrand.htm?BR=485&SBR=431&ID=17593

I found the Fisher Price thing online I was rambling about- the giraffe isn't sold separately. Darn. I suppose if GLT really wants to get it for him, she can use one of the gift cards that are being sent. It's so cute- I kinda want it for Molly, but she has SO MANY Fisher Price animal things. It's called Amazing Animals and here's the link- http://www.fisher-price.com/fp.aspx?st=2342&e=thumb&pcat=amazinganimals.

I did find a little stuffed giraffe that was part of Joshie's baby mobile- it's a John Lennon giraffe- I think I may have to tuck it into the box, just for a little something extra. :wizard:

lissawynn- how did the glucose test go?

Tamie- WELCOME BACK!

Sounds like lots of mommies got some fun mail today! :cheer2:

Jen- I'm so sorry Jenna is not feeling well. Poor little gal...

I am SO GLAD we don't do exchanges with adults in our family anymore. We buy for our parents, but we don't even buy for DH's brother. We feel it's enough that we buy for each other's kids. My extended family for a long time bought something for everyone, and then before I got married, we drew names for a $50 gift. Then I moved up to Oregon and we were never all together for the holiday. After two Christmases where none of us spent it together, we requested it to stop- I mean, I don't get buying $50 gifts for people that you don't even spend the holiday with. I'm not trying to be a Scrooge, but does that make sense? It just seems like stress no one needs. I was talking with my best friend today, and while we buy for each other's kids (and she only has 1- she got the wrong end of the stick, LOL) I suggested to her that we just go out to dinner together instead of buying gifts for each other. She liked that idea!

I know I skimmed over a lot of the posts earlier- sorry I haven't responded like I usually do. I've just been trying to sort through all the PMs, etc. I'm really tired too. I forgoed exercising for just veg time on my bed, with the laptop, with my soaps on. :teeth: Soon I need to go downstairs and tidy up before Molly wakes up. Hopefully she will power nap, since she only got about 8-9 hours sleep last night, vs her usual 11-12.

Oh- I bought these wonton chips at Trader Joes. They are deadly. I've been dipping them in sweet and sour sauce....I so wish I had the ingredients for Crag Rangoon- I have the recipe in a Pampered Chef cookbook, but none of the ingredients. I swoon over good crab puffs! But the dip and these chips would be almost as good!

ETA- new contest for American Girl doll lovers- I'm so entering!

www.americangirl.com/movie

Could with $5400 worth of prizes! Molly needs those dolls, darnit! :rotfl2:
 
Evening all. The glucose test went well until the veins in my right arm refused to cooperate. I got two sticks in the right one and one in the left. The left is a good bleeder, so it went pretty quickly. I did stop at Wal-Mart on my way home for toothpaste, a birthday card, and the TP Pop Culture 80s edition. We're going to have teams and play on Wed. after the kids are dismissed. We have to stay until 1:30, so we're going to have fun.

Robin - I'm glad your conferences went well. I'm planning on shopping for GLT on Friday. I'll let you know what I get. Do you think extra pjs would be a problem? I know I appreciate not having to do laundry all the time.

SL - I had to chuckle at your pizza party. Maybe if they threw in some soda and chips more people wouldn't jump ship? ;)

Tamie - I can't wait to hear about your trip! Post lots of pics, too.

justthat - Is Henry feeling better?

J&D - I never really thought about my water breaking at school, but thanks for putting that thought into my head. They broke my water for me with Jimmy. I had such a good epi that I didn't even notice.

BnB - Glad the report card/play went well. I bet your DS is happy to have his video games back.

ff - I can only imagine what 30 years worth of bathroom gook smells like. Yikes! DH and I are going on a "date" to Home Depot on Wed. to pick out the stuff for our new bathroom. Our contractor doesn't really like Lowe's for some reason. I really don't care for HD. We'll see what we find.

Here's my thoughts on the whole gift exchange thing...Last year when I talked to DH about not doing this, he agreed with me. BUT when his sisters called and said we'd be pulling names, he caved. I got the brunt of it, of course. I tried to explain to them that it wasn't necessary for DH and me to get gifts (I usually get crap, btw). I was met with serious resistance and DH ended up buying the gifts.

DH and I can spare the $100. Two of his sisters, on the other hand, don't really have the money to buy the gifts. Also, one has three kids to buy for, and the other has two. The one with two has been living with MIL and FIL for two years now and works in a mini-market/gas station. From what one of her sisters tells me, she contributes nothing to MIL/FIL and has been spending her $$$ on all kinds of stuff since living there. Not saving, mind you, but living high on the hog. Another sister is divorced and works for AOL/Time Warner. She makes A LOT of $$$, so she could care less about buying for 6 kids and an adult. The last sister works for a pharm. company, as does her new DH (he's in mgt. there). Again, not a big deal for them to spend the $$$. I just don't see the significance of doing this. Like I said, and I'm not trying to come across as *itchy, my gifts usually suck. I put a lot of thought into the stuff I buy, and it's just been a waste. Plus, DH and his sisters usually go in on a big gift for their parents. Last year, however, AOL sister went on her own and bought them a weekend at the NASCAR race in Dover. I think DH got them a gift card to a furniture place, although they never got the new stuff they were talking about (maybe because their grandchildren crawl around the place and make a mess?)

I know how I sound, believe me. I'm just tired of having to give in to what they want to do.

ETA - I don't know if any of you recall me talking about the creepy dr. in my OB practice. He did my HSG test a few years ago, and I just didn't like him. There isn't a specific thing I can pinpoint, he just gives me the willies and I never saw him when I was pg with Jimmy. When they tried to schedule appointments with him, I politely asked for someone else. It happened again this summer. Again, I simply said I'd rather not see him, etc, etc. I got the whole speech about them wanting me to see everyone in the practice. I haven't seen him.
My BF's friend had creepy dr. deliver her baby about 2 months ago. She and her DH called the group and complained about him. She said he could be bothered with her and her delivery. I guess she's a pretty small woman and had a rough time. He was less than helpful.
If he's there when I go in for Annabel, can I refuse to see him and ask for another dr?
 
I only have a second because Luke is sobbing, but Alissa, I wanted to tell you--you have the right to refuse care from any physician (or paramedic, EMT, whatever). You don't have to give a reason. I was an EMT for many years--when I was pregnant the last two times, I knew EXACTLY who, in the ambulance corps, was not coming near me and my baby. Since we live in the country, there was a possibility of a home delivery, so I seriously had Jocelyn trained as my backup, just in case. Anyway, my point is, you don't have to have this doctor. Even in the hospital, if he is the doctor "on call", you can request someone else. You don't need to be specific on why--just say that you and he don't see eye to eye (unless you have something specific you want to say). A lot of OBs in group practice just have you see everyone and whoever's on call, that's who you get--it's convenient for them that way. But you just have this one pregnancy and baby right now--to heck with their convenience. I would try to be polite, at least at first, but make your feelings known at this point, not when you're 4 cm dilated.

Okay, off my soap box.
 
Ok, now guess what Jace brought home...PINK EYE!!! I swear - how can this be? This is our third illness in one month! Poor Jace, his eyes look awful. Psychosomatic or not, mine are already itching. I will be home with him tomorrow...hopefully I can sneak on and chit chat a bit.

Lissawyn: Hope the glucose test ends up negative. Man, I love that orangey-goodness drink. But I guess that's why I had GD. :rotfl: Ick about Dr. Creepo. I don't know what you can do if he's on call when you deliver. Could you say to the office that you don't like him and don't want him to deliver her? That's a tough senario.

Robin: You are such a good friend - always so considerate of others on this board.

Tamie: Welcome back. Can't wait to hear how your trip went.

Tasha: Jace "plays" with the kitties too. I hope you will post Kylie's Christmas photos when you get them.

BNB: :woohoo: Way to go Jocelyn!! Glad to hear Roberts privledges have been restored ;)

Jill: :grouphug: Hang in there! You're doing great. Hopefully the semester is coming to a close soon and you can relax and enjoy the family.

GLT: :grouphug:

Zalansky: Glad you got some good news about your dad.

I hope all our sick DIS babies are feeling better: Jenna, Henry, Matthew

Hi SL, GM, Fabumouse, Val, DisKim and anyone else I'm missing.

Thank you to all of you who responded about the eating/weight issues. I'm glad I'm not alone in this (But sorry so many of us have such skinny minnys refusing to eat). I may try pediasure or just give him purdue chicken nuggets and kids grids at every meal as lately...that's the only thing he chows down!!

Speaking of chowing down, DH should be home any minute with our chinese take out. MmmMmm. I have to go put a load of laundry in quick before he does.

I hope to check in tomorrow when Jace naps.
 
joats - Jimmy had a banana and a bowl of real oatmeal for dinner tonight. I did add milk and some brown sugar, but he ate the whole thing. At least I know he ate something healthy today.

BnB - Thanks for the info. I don't see how someone who is paying for her care can not turn down this doc for someone else. I don't know if it's something I can put into a birthplan. Also, one of my friends works on the L&D floor at the hospital and I was going to ask her if she has access to the on-call schedule.
 
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Jill - THANK YOU very much for the huge box of things you sent to us! You must have spent a fortune, and the kids kept opening gift after gift. The Cars toys went over well and my husband was playing with the zip car saying he used to have them when he was little - and he kept playing with it - LOL. You really went above and beyond and I can't thank you enough. I also love the candies, peppermint bark, hot chocolate, books, CARS cups and plates, etc, etc.....really, you outdid yourself!!!!!

Here is a pic of the kids playing with their loot:

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Bellacam - CONGRATULATIONS!!!! She is such a beautiful baby. LOL about the kids in Pizza Hut saying you had an "accident". You've got quite a birthing story to share when she gets older.

Loretta - That's wonderful news about your father, i'm glad the news you got today was better than you had expected. You are in my continued thoughts and prayers.

Welcome Home Tamie - How did you like the Beach Club??

I had such a crummy day at work today but I was much better after my long walk after work and seeing the kids so happy with Jill's exchange. Sorry but I am too tired to post any more tonight, but i'll talk with you all soon.
 
HIllbeans- what a great gift from Jill! I love the pictures! I put Molly in her Thumper tshirt from Val yesterday, and then I forgot to take a picture!

lissawynn- I hope you don't get Dr. Creepy.

Joats- welcome to pink eye hell. The ointment has really helped me a lot, although it's like vaseline in my eye for 15 minutes. :rolleyes: You crack me up with the 'orangey goodness' comment!

I have to share how stinking excited I am- remember a month or two ago, when we were posting our hard to find wish list items for our kids, and I mentioned the 10-character packs of Galactic Heroes I hoped to get for Josh?
And then I preordered them off toy website? I've half been dreading getting an email saying they were out of stock....but tonight I got the email saying my order has shipped!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WOO HOO! So he will be getting all 4 sets! And both grandma's have said they want to pay for half of it. :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:
 
Hi! No time, really - Hayley spent 30 minutes playing around trying to figure out how to get pics on here. Once again, if anyone could tell me what to do, Hayley will understand even though I have no clue! Justine tried to tell me once, but I never had time to get Hayley to try and forgot about it. So, if anyone wants to try to explain that would be awesome! We have a mac if that makes a difference and our pictures are on our i-photo thingy. Thanks!!! :wave:

eta - see....something is showing up that she did, but it's not the picture and it's not exactly a link.....
 
Hey all.

I have a few questions.

or first a complaint!!

Aunt Flo came today -after 3.5 months of solely breastfeeding. What the?? I was shocked and my mind is still on lochia. Guess this is not lochia? :rolleyes:

Have I just been hugely cheated, or is this standard?

I just wanna say that Mother Nature has GOT TO BE KIDDING if she thinks I'm all ready to get pregnant again. :lmao:

And I moved Madeleine into her own room (for naps, not night sleeping) this evening. It was totally unplanned, but that thing she was doing with the climbing over the side of her co-sleeper kind of scared me. I mean, we like our pillows, and when she wasn't moving much it was okay but her working on yanking them over he head was a bit stressful.

My bigger question - I know breastfeeding is a HUGELY loaded topic. But I'm feeling kind of done right now - she's pulling my nipples all over the place and getting distracted when she eats and unlike when she was a newborn, it's just not seeming all that important anymore (to her). I know some people feel very strongly on the allergy,immune, bonding thing at this age.

I do NOT want to start a debate. But can I ask? When did you (and what made you) feel "done? with those children you no longer breastfeed?"
 
We received a wonderful exchange package from Hillbeans today! :banana:
She sent Jenna a very cute set of pink Carter's fleece Princess pjs (she really needed those), a pink holiday purse filled with Hello Kitty barrettes and dry-erase board and frog stickers, and 2 Little People sets! She loved opening the packages. She kept clapping and saying, "wow, look at that!" :goodvibes
Thank you so much, Hillbeans!!! :cloud9:

Welcome home, Tamie! :wave:

Alice- Glad to hear that you got those Galactic Heroes. :cheer2:

joats- Sorry to hear that Jace has pink eye!

lissawynn- Glad your test went well. I would definitely refuse to see that dr.
if he makes you feel uncomfortable.

Hi to all other DIS moms! :wave:
 
Fab- first of all, I LOVE that dress on Madeleine! I wanted to buy it, but couldn't justify it.

Secondly, you definitely did get a crap deal on the period already. I only have had one, and Molly is 20 months! Granted the Depo has something to do with that.

About breastfeeding- I breastfed all of mine for a long time. The boys did it for way long- like 20 months and 2 years long. And I honestly am not one of those nazi pro-breastfeeding moms, I'm really not. It just worked out with the boys where I didn't mind that they wanted to so long- they usually got down to business and did what they needed to do, and then we were done. Molly, however, never was a great breastfeeder....lots of pulling off, yanking, looking around, dilly-dallying around. We made it to a year, but only because I supplemented her with formula as well. I think she finally weaned around 14 months and I was so done! I think when you are starting to feel 'done' with it, and that it is exasperating, then it's fine to switch over to formula. You need to do what is best for you too. I always say to my friends who are feeling guilt that breastfeeding didn't quite work, "Hey, I was a formula fed baby, and I'm a friggin genius, so formula must be good!" :lmao:

Hope that helped....sometimes I just feel like I ramble. :teeth:
 
dizagain- to post a picture in your signature:

1.copy the URL address

2. go to User CP and hit edit signature under control panel at left

3. click the insert image button- it is the one with the mountain between size and color

4. paste the link

5. click preview signature to make sure that it worked

6. if it worked, then click save signature

Let me know if you couldn't get it to work.
 
fab--with DD I bfed her until 3 1/2 months. It was going okay, but we ended up spending 8 weeks with my parents (eek, I know) b/c of DH's work--and with all the stress we stopped then. DS was a different story. I had only planned on bfeeding him for 6months tops--BUT he would never take a bottle, no matter what was in it--thankfully around 9 months, after we moved here, he decided that the bottle was okay--that was after many a trial and error with bottle nipples. And then he was weaned shortly after. I think whenever you stop is definitely a personal decision. Did any of that help??

Joats--ick about the pink eye! PD that it doesn't spread to the whole family!

hillbeans--looks like you got a wonderful gift today!

tykes--Welcome back!

Well, I know I didn't catch up with all, but I'm pooped after last night and need to hit the hay. DH went out with a work buddy tonight,so I got the xmas gifts that I have here at home wrapped. It's funny, I've bought things here and there and when I went to wrap them, it was like "Wow, I have lots of stuff here--with more on the way!" Gotta love that bargain shopping!
 
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