Hello again - here comes the part where I'm "finished" planning and start second-guessing everything a month before the trip! No one in my family wants to hear about this anymore, lol, so I thought I'd share a little about my plans and a question with you all. You can ignore me if you want - I'm used to it!

We are traveling Aug. 18-25. "We" are myself, DH, DD 4, DS 8, and my parents (seniors). We're at the Contemporary Atrium Level Aug. 18-22, then at Cabana Bay at Universal Aug. 23-25. I won't talk about that part here! Our trip planning has been a bit of an adventure - we originally booked our trip for DECEMBER 19-25, which would have coincided with my 40th bday and our kids' school break. When we hit our 180-day mark, though, my mom and I were freaked out by the lack of options even six months out. We kept asking around and getting the "well, you picked the busiest week of the year to visit" response. So, we panicked, had a family summit, chose intense heat over intense crowds, and made the plunge to switch everything to August. It saved us some money, so we upgraded to club level to get the extra fastpass benefit (we were so scared about Christmas week crowds that we had mulled over the VIP tour, even though we definitely cannot afford it, so that made the club level perks seem downright affordable!). This is kind of a "dream" trip for us, since we don't get to go very often and my parents are getting older and think this might be their last Disney hurrah. So, we pulled out all of the stops.
Here's my main question: We're very into character meals, since we like eating and not standing in line to meet characters, but I'm nervous that we overdid it this time. We've never done CRT, and we were able to snag an 8am ADR (and this is the first Disney visit for my princess-obsessed 4-year-old). I had also booked a lunch at Akershus during our Epcot day, which is before our MK days. Do you think that will "spoil" the princess effect for my daughter if we've already done Akershus when we do CRT? I can't decide if you can't have too many princesses or if it will somehow ruin the special feeling of CRT. Will they definitely be different princesses or will there likely be repeats? I wish we had CRT first, but you take an 8am when you can get it!
Also: I would love to share some of our itineraries and get feedback, but I'm not sure this is the right place to do that. Any board veterans who can advise me on that?
Thanks! I am getting SO EXCITED. AND I get a little sneak peek in two weeks when my best friend and I sneak away for a girls trip. We used Hilton points for Buena Vista Palace, and we bought one day park hoppers and got free park hoppers for a day from her cousin who's a CM. It's a totally different kind of trip for me - little to no planning, no worrying about making kids or seniors happy, just wandering around enjoying. We don't even have the ability to book fast passes for the free day yet, so that will really be an adventure! I see this as a warm up trip for August (emphasis on the WARM, right?!).