The Mad Chatters thread Part 7

[Toot Sweet]

I'm supposed to order pizza. And I did.....but while I was online, I just HAD to pop onto the DIS. It would have been rude not to, right?

Paige....sorry you're not going to Six Flags. What happened?

 

[Toot Sweet]

Why not Paige? I am sorry...

Steph you're here too? What is WRONG with us? We just can't stay away!

 

[Ready to go in Ok]

Well, I got my car rental all lined up, so I just popped over for a second.....

Pitiful, isn't it?

 

[paigevz]

Big son.............

He has been less than pleasant since summer...........he's been actually hitting his little brother, twisting his arm and such.

I was finishing the bills and dh was doing some work, and he was picking on his brother. I told him to go clean up. Little brother was in a different room, and he went out of his way to go grab him by his costume cape and pull him down on the floor, then cover his head. Little son can't stand to be in small spaces, and covering his head panics him. I told Big son to cut it out. Next thing I know, he hits him. I told him if he did one more thing we weren't going. They didn't know we were going to Six Flags, but they knew we were going to dress up and go do something fun.

He wrapped his brother up in a blanket where he couldn't get loose, and then pushed him down.

I went to talk to him again, he walked away from me. I took him by the arm to stop him and make him look at me, and he hit my hand away.

Now we aren't going............. He is showing no emotion at all. I am worried about him.

 

[Toot Sweet]

Awww....so sorry, Paige! I don't blame you for canceling the park day. But I'm sure you're sad.

 

[Ready to go in Ok]

Big son.............

He has been less than pleasant since summer...........he's been actually hitting his little brother, twisting his arm and such.

I was finishing the bills and dh was doing some work, and he was picking on his brother. I told him to go clean up. Little brother was in a different room, and he went out of his way to go grab him by his costume cape and pull him down on the floor, then cover his head. Little son can't stand to be in small spaces, and covering his head panics him. I told Big son to cut it out. Next thing I know, he hits him. I told him if he did one more thing we weren't going. They didn't know we were going to Six Flags, but they knew we were going to dress up and go do something fun.

He wrapped his brother up in a blanket where he couldn't get loose, and then pushed him down.

I went to talk to him again, he walked away from me. I took him by the arm to stop him and make him look at me, and he hit my hand away.

Now we aren't going............. He is showing no emotion at all. I am worried about him.

I am sorry you are having to deal with that.

 

[paigevz]

Awww....so sorry, Paige! I don't blame you for canceling the park day. But I'm sure you're sad.

Very sad. Crying in fact.

I just think I must be doing something wrong...............

 

[Ready to go in Ok]

Very sad. Crying in fact.

I just think I must be doing something wrong...............

For what it's worth, I think sticking to your guns is absolutely the right thing to do.

 

[Tiffer]

Big son.............

He has been less than pleasant since summer...........he's been actually hitting his little brother, twisting his arm and such.

I was finishing the bills and dh was doing some work, and he was picking on his brother. I told him to go clean up. Little brother was in a different room, and he went out of his way to go grab him by his costume cape and pull him down on the floor, then cover his head. Little son can't stand to be in small spaces, and covering his head panics him. I told Big son to cut it out. Next thing I know, he hits him. I told him if he did one more thing we weren't going. They didn't know we were going to Six Flags, but they knew we were going to dress up and go do something fun.

He wrapped his brother up in a blanket where he couldn't get loose, and then pushed him down.

I went to talk to him again, he walked away from me. I took him by the arm to stop him and make him look at me, and he hit my hand away.

Now we aren't going............. He is showing no emotion at all. I am worried about him.

I am so sorry that you are going through this. therapy is definately in order. I have a nephew who was like this...but worse and my BIL & SIL never did anything about it. HE was kicked out of school last year and is headed down the WRONG path.

I am not rying to scare you, it's just that they never dealt with it and now they are going to have quit a time with this boy. He is 15.

 

[paigevz]

For what it's worth, I think sticking to your guns is absolutely the right thing to do.

I know, but it stinks. It was going to be fun...............

 

[paigevz]

I am so sorry that you are going through this. therapy is definately in order. I have a nephew who was like this...but worse and my BIL & SIL never did anything about it. HE was kicked out of school last year and is headed down the WRONG path.

I am not rying to scare you, it's just that they never dealt with it and now they are going to have quit a time with this boy. He is 15.

He's been in therapy. We put him in when he started getting in fights after dh got sick. His therapist moved away..............guess we should find a new one, though.

 

[Ready to go in Ok]

I am so sorry that you are going through this. therapy is definately in order. I have a nephew who was like this...but worse and my BIL & SIL never did anything about it. HE was kicked out of school last year and is headed down the WRONG path.

I am not rying to scare you, it's just that they never dealt with it and now they are going to have quit a time with this boy. He is 15.

Sorry about your nephew....

Paigie, you know your son, and therapy is one avenue....could be hormones, or who knows what. We are here if you need to vent....

 

[paigevz]

Sorry about your nephew....

Paigie, you know your son, and therapy is one avenue....could be hormones, or who knows what. We are here if you need to vent....

Thank you Stephie, you knew just what I was thinking...............

 

[Toot Sweet]

Therapy sounds like a good idea.

The pizza just arrived. I'm thinking the "I'm still messing with this freakin' pizza hut website, honey" routine isn't gonna work anymore....

 

[Ready to go in Ok]

Thank you Stephie, you knew just what I was thinking...............

Therapy sounds like a good idea.

The pizza just arrived. I'm thinking the "I'm still messing with this freakin' pizza hut website, honey" routine isn't gonna work anymore....

Probably not....eat a slice for me! Looks like it is Top Ramen at our house again....

 

[Toot Sweet]

Gotta go. Later, friends.

 

[Rella Bella]

Big son.............

He has been less than pleasant since summer...........he's been actually hitting his little brother, twisting his arm and such.

I was finishing the bills and dh was doing some work, and he was picking on his brother. I told him to go clean up. Little brother was in a different room, and he went out of his way to go grab him by his costume cape and pull him down on the floor, then cover his head. Little son can't stand to be in small spaces, and covering his head panics him. I told Big son to cut it out. Next thing I know, he hits him. I told him if he did one more thing we weren't going. They didn't know we were going to Six Flags, but they knew we were going to dress up and go do something fun.

He wrapped his brother up in a blanket where he couldn't get loose, and then pushed him down.

I went to talk to him again, he walked away from me. I took him by the arm to stop him and make him look at me, and he hit my hand away.

Now we aren't going............. He is showing no emotion at all. I am worried about him.

Hi Paige!
I'm so sorry....
That is so sad and so hard!

And it's a real bummer that little son lost his fun too! Maybe not going would have more impact if you took little son and left big son home with Dad, or grandma... I know it's not the family day you planned though.

 

[Rella Bella]

Hi Toots!

Bye Toots!

 

[Ready to go in Ok]

Hi RB! How's your day been?

 

[Tiffer]

He's been in therapy. We put him in when he started getting in fights after dh got sick. His therapist moved away..............guess we should find a new one, though.

Obviously, you know what's best. Ididn't mean to come off like a know it all, I just saw what happened with my nephew. But my Nephew was an unlikeble kid since the day he came out of the womb. They lived on our street in NY and none of the neighbors wanted their kids to play with him.

They moved and bargged about how popular the kid was and now he's goin through the same thing in the new neighborhood.

But the parents are mental. You are probably a great mom...so there's the difference.