We didn't declaw her because I read a bunch of literature on how declawing is cruel, it chops off the cat's toes back to the first knuckle, it changes the way their stance is and because it shifts the way their weight is distributed it can cause joint pain, it can cause behavioral problems, blah blah blah. DH wanted her declawed. All of our cats have been declawed. But NO, I wanted her to keep her claws.

I am an idiot.
It is still possible to declaw her, but since she is 9 months old it would honestly be a very cruel thing to do. If you are going to declaw a cat it should be done when they are very young. We had Aurora spayed and declawed all at one time and it was fine. Same with Amanda. We had Arabella spayed when she was about 3-4 months, and she should have been declawed then. She has shredded one corner of the ottoman, snagged the heck out of my dust ruffle, comforter, and tablecloth, and she has little to no interest in her scratching post.

I keep hoping as she gets older it will get better.