Alex2kMommy
<font color=purple>I'm going a little nutso myself
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So when I went to the preschool to pick up DS4 today, his teacher stopped me to talk. She said one boy's mother told her that her son was upset on the way home yesterday, saying that DS had pushed him.
The teacher had been watching them, and nothing had happened since they'd lined up and walked from the playground to the benches where they wait to be picked up. It's possible this happened earlier in the day, but the teacher didn't know why the child would be upset about it on the way home.
I don't know how the mother felt about it, if she was mildly concerned or very upset, the teacher didn't say. The teacher told me she "knows [DS'] heart and that he's a good boy, and she told the mother that.
I told the teacher that DS has been talking a lot about this boy, and he really seemed to like him a lot. When we came in to school the past two mornings, this boy has called out to DS to come join him. I thought they were becoming fast friends.
The teacher said that today as they were lining up to leave the playground, the boy tripped and fell. And then DS "fell" right on top of him, keeping the boy on the ground (I'm guessing in a playful way, not hurtful.) The teacher told DS that was not OK, because the boy had fallen and might have been hurt. She asked me to talk with DS about that on the way home and see what I could figure out.
I asked DS about that incident, and reiterated what the teacher said, that it was not OK to fall on top of the boy in case he was hurt (or getting hurt), and that it wasn't OK to push. He said he pushed the boy because the boy spit on him. I asked when, because the boy must have been facing away from him at the time, and then it sounded like the spitting happened much earlier, and occurred when the boys were talking and maybe the boy accidently spit while excitedly talking.
I reminded DS that it was not OK to spit on purpose. It was not OK to push. And if he's having a problem with someone, he should tell his teacher. He then informed me that he "didn't like that boy, because he has bad breath."
So here's hoping some little grain of that wisdom got through to his pea-brain...
The teacher had been watching them, and nothing had happened since they'd lined up and walked from the playground to the benches where they wait to be picked up. It's possible this happened earlier in the day, but the teacher didn't know why the child would be upset about it on the way home.
I don't know how the mother felt about it, if she was mildly concerned or very upset, the teacher didn't say. The teacher told me she "knows [DS'] heart and that he's a good boy, and she told the mother that.
I told the teacher that DS has been talking a lot about this boy, and he really seemed to like him a lot. When we came in to school the past two mornings, this boy has called out to DS to come join him. I thought they were becoming fast friends.
The teacher said that today as they were lining up to leave the playground, the boy tripped and fell. And then DS "fell" right on top of him, keeping the boy on the ground (I'm guessing in a playful way, not hurtful.) The teacher told DS that was not OK, because the boy had fallen and might have been hurt. She asked me to talk with DS about that on the way home and see what I could figure out.
I asked DS about that incident, and reiterated what the teacher said, that it was not OK to fall on top of the boy in case he was hurt (or getting hurt), and that it wasn't OK to push. He said he pushed the boy because the boy spit on him. I asked when, because the boy must have been facing away from him at the time, and then it sounded like the spitting happened much earlier, and occurred when the boys were talking and maybe the boy accidently spit while excitedly talking.
I reminded DS that it was not OK to spit on purpose. It was not OK to push. And if he's having a problem with someone, he should tell his teacher. He then informed me that he "didn't like that boy, because he has bad breath."
So here's hoping some little grain of that wisdom got through to his pea-brain...


Hopefully, this will continue throughout the year. 
People are so grumbly lately.. I've noticed a few threads on community board that are outright mean , pointless discussions to bait people into arguing.
When I flip out on the taco lady, he just nods and smiles... and holds me back.
