I am popping in for a very quick second....have not had time to catch up this week...I did notice above the very exciting ticker that we are all going to be "AUNTS"!!!!! My congrats to you Glynis.
I am exhausted and am heading to bed...Kris and I are very sad. We received the call today that one of our dear friends is hours away from losing her fight to breast cancer (well, what started out as breast cancer 9 yrs ago, and is now full body spread cancer) We are very close with David and Becky, we just clicked the first time we met, and just loved each other. Becky is only 40yrs old. Their children are 9 and 12, Ross is right in the middle, so they all get along great. We went over tonight to say our goodbyes to her. She is on morphine at home, she hasn't eaten in 4 days and only responds in moans to Davids voice. It was a shock to see her looking 80 instead of 40, she is yellow from cancer that has spread to her liver.
They have been through more in their time then anyone should ever go through. She has given "it" a hell of a fight, she was only given 9months to a year to live almost 9 years ago. They are the nicest couple you would ever meet, I can say that I have never in my life EVER met anyone that was like these two.....they are amazing people, and it is just so damn wrong that this is the card that has been handed to them in life.
She wasn't expected to live through the night last night, so we are now on borrowed time.................if you could find the time for a prayer that Becky goes soon and in peace. I will find comfort knowing she is free of the pain, my mom knew how much I love Becky, so I am sure she will be keeping her eye out for her for me.
I will try to catch up this weekend, tomorrow I am going to be cooking a bunch of dishes to bring over to David and Beckys, they have a ton of family coming in and out, and David asked if I could help out.
Big hugs to all of you....I hope that everyone is doing well!!!