I have been away for awhile and had lots to catch up on. Congrats on the engagements. Great job on latest Math test.
I was born in Guam and always wanted to go back, but the prices are $$$$$. I remember hearing that my parents would fly my grandma out to visit, because 1 airfare was cheaper than 3 or 4 for them to fly back. They weren't military, so no hops available.
My sister and brother-in-law needed to do the civil ceremony in order for her to be added to his orders to England. (It had to be a civil ceremony due to him being Catholic and the church not recognizing the marriage otherwise). They had the ceremony back at his parents house later, right before they moved. It was a whirlwind. They got married (civil) in March, had the Catholic ceremony in July (after my sister went through a class) and moved to England in August. They had been dating and not engaged when he got his assignment. So, this was all very rushed. It was hard to find a civil ceremony place in Reno, NV. We thought it would have been easier than it was. So, the little Reno ceremony, just a couple of his friends, my parents and I and the couple, of course, were there. We didn't go to the "official" wedding. We weren't invited, but that was ok. Being in the military means making sacrifices. Neither of the ceremonies is what they would have wanted if they could have chosen. They will have been married 26 years this March and they have no regrets how it all played out.
Oh, by the way, my parents loved Guam. We moved back to the States when I was 3, so I don't remember it. But for them, it was the perfect place to start off their married life.