The ABC's of Trip Planning, Pt 1- K is for Keeping Things Kooky- Drinks V-Z; pg. 197 + New Link

[afwdwfan]

I'm sorry to hear that. It had to have been very difficult for your son. And I'm sure he really stressed about the decision not wanting to burden or disappoint his family. It does sound like he's got a good plan in place going forward and hopefully it will all work out well for him in the end.

 

[Steppesister]

Your son's news is heartbreaking to hear as a parent.

Congratulations on passing the math for next term! Have a great weekend.

It kinda is. But we only have one perspective. I'm sure he put a lot of thought into his decision, but it certainly has some pretty tough consequences.

I'm sorry to hear that. It had to have been very difficult for your son. And I'm sure he really stressed about the decision not wanting to burden or disappoint his family. It does sound like he's got a good plan in place going forward and hopefully it will all work out well for him in the end.

I"m sure it was. I will call his girlfriend tonight to hear her thoughts as well. Since he's now enlisting, it wouldn't surprise me if they got married, or ended things. Not sure how that is going to play out.

He still has to call my hubby tonight and break the news, because I am not going to do that for him. We'll see how that goes.

 

[Flossbolna]

Oh, Liesa, I am so sorry! I remember when he first started there and I was so impressed that he chose that option. Even though things did not work out, he seems to be prepared to make the best out of the situation he is in right now.

 

[Steppesister]

Oh, Liesa, I am so sorry! I remember when he first started there and I was so impressed that he chose that option. Even though things did not work out, he seems to be prepared to make the best out of the situation he is in right now.

It was an impressive task to begin with, and I'm glad he stuck it out as long as he did. I really do hope he can finish it off after he establishes residency in that state and can move forward. Only time will tell how this story will play out...

 

[RunnerMommyof4]

Prayers for your son, my husband was at Fort Benning in Officer School when he was sent home because he injured his back. While the VA waited to see him, he turned "37" and was told he could no longer return to the program or become an officer because he was too old. It was an adjustment and he ended up getting a medical discharge.

 

[Steppesister]

Prayers for your son, my husband was at Fort Benning in Officer School when he was sent home because he injured his back. While the VA waited to see him, he turned "37" and was told he could no longer return to the program or become an officer because he was too old. It was an adjustment and he ended up getting a medical discharge.

Thanks, Amber! That sounds like a deliberate shaft job to me. Sadly.

Andrew would like to the Officer Training School route, if he can get in. I have no idea how that works or anything. I don't know if there's a wait list or if it's competitive or ??? Anyway, I hope being enlisted works out for him and that he can still make the upgrades, including getting his degree, all works out.

 

[eandesmom]

Oh Liesa, this breaks my heart for all of you. I know how hard he has worked, and just how hard those programs are and now the uncertainty of it all regarding active duty and possible deployment. You know, and I know believe, that HE has a plan for all of this and that things happen for reasons we cannot see now but will be made clear. Hold on to that as I know you believe that, it will help you all get through. The BFP is sound and I can respect his decision not to burden anyone. While as a parent it would make me extremely upset and sad..I truly admire his choice to really own the situation knowing the consequences. He may be burnt out, it may be what he needs, only he can know. Love him and support him and it will all be as it should be. Coming down hard is counter productive and it is a mark of strength that you realize that.

CONGRATS on the test! I know I've been horrible about keeping up to date on here but I have been watching on FB. Sending you a virtual glass of red wine to toast for the test and a big huge hug for your boys struggle and new direction. Love you.

 

[MAGICFOR2]

That is hard news. I feel bad Andrew has been dealing with this on his own . We went through something a little like that with each of our boys but God worked His plan in their lives and they are both successful and happy. These character building moments are hard on the young on, but a test for the parents too. I will be praying for him and you, too.

Congrats on passing first try, and on being placed where you wanted experience

 

[Steppesister]

Will reply soon, Ladies...

 

[DnA2010]

Newbie on board I have only read all your updates linked, but to stay current, I am sorry to hear about your son- I know the feeling as my husband had gone back to school to upgrade to an advanced paramedic and unfortunately was unable to finish also (for a few reasons) and it is tough to deal with.
Congrats on your success, great marks! I gave a few of those pins you showed, it was really nice to see them all together! Looking forward to reading more

 

[MEK]

Seriously - How do you have time to update when you are in school?

I can't even find time to update anymore (but I have been working mandatory OT for months).

I love MNSSHP too. It's awesome. I've been to it 4 times. I guess I should post pics but I haven't even edited a thing from October. All I can tell you is I wore a costume and Denny refused to wear his and we had a BIG fight over that. Need I say more?

 

[disneygirlll]

Awww, so heartbreaking as a parent to watch your son go through this. It sort of reminds me of what Walt once said:
“I think it’s important to have a good hard failure when you're young. I learned a lot out of that. Because it makes you kind of aware of what can happen to you. Because of it I’ve never had any fear in my whole life when we’ve been near collapse and all of that. I’ve never been afraid. I’ve never had the feeling I couldn’t walk out and get a job doing something.”
I’m sure he’ll go on to do great things.
Yay for passing your math test, first try woo hoo!
I really liked my medsurg clinicals when in school. You just never know what you will come across, such a great learning experience.

 

[cajunfan]

Ok, I am only on page 4 of this report. I will get caught up on it. I think you and I have met! You were in Nashville with Mary (Maroo here on the DIS) and some friends and you all stopped in the Disney Store and said hi! I remember reading about your time in Crapistan. Can't wait to continue reading!

Lynn

 

[Steppesister]

OMG! My worst nightmare happened. I had high hopes of spending embarrassing amounts of time here to relax on break. However, my laptop's screen just completely died. I just got back from the repair shop where they told me it'll be back with a new screen in 5 business days and will *only* cost $150.

I will go to a friend's place a bit later to at least catch on replies today. Ugh.

 

[Flossbolna]

Oh, what a disappointment! I know how much you were looking forward to spend time here on the DIS in the coming week... And the money could have been used for many far more fun things, too!

 

[Steppesister]

Oh Liesa, this breaks my heart for all of you. I know how hard he has worked, and just how hard those programs are and now the uncertainty of it all regarding active duty and possible deployment. You know, and I know believe, that HE has a plan for all of this and that things happen for reasons we cannot see now but will be made clear. Hold on to that as I know you believe that, it will help you all get through. The BFP is sound and I can respect his decision not to burden anyone. While as a parent it would make me extremely upset and sad..I truly admire his choice to really own the situation knowing the consequences. He may be burnt out, it may be what he needs, only he can know. Love him and support him and it will all be as it should be. Coming down hard is counter productive and it is a mark of strength that you realize that.

CONGRATS on the test! I know I've been horrible about keeping up to date on here but I have been watching on FB. Sending you a virtual glass of red wine to toast for the test and a big huge hug for your boys struggle and new direction. Love you.

So I'm going to attempt this on my phone. Difficult at best, so here goes nuthin'.

Thank you for the encouragement, Cynthia! I do believe that, and trust that this is but a small bump in the road and only a hiccup along the way. Things are so very unclear right now and more questions remain than there are answers.

First order of business is talking to his cadre to find out what the timeline is for getting to basic and with that info either getting a job or not. And getting his first car or not.

I will say that the conversation with Dad last night went very well. Mike re-iterated that he was dang proud of him and knows how tough those programs are. He asked the questions that just aren't answerable yet and offered some other options including coming back to OSU part time if the Army would let him stall a bit.

Anyway, we got our next term's calendar and the reading blitz has begun.

BTW, tried to call. Contemplating a quick trip up to your neck of the woods.... Will call again.... Meantime, I'll enjoy my margarita and pretend it's that virtual glass of red wine.

 

[Steppesister]

That is hard news. I feel bad Andrew has been dealing with this on his own . We went through something a little like that with each of our boys but God worked His plan in their lives and they are both successful and happy. These character building moments are hard on the young on, but a test for the parents too. I will be praying for him and you, too.

Congrats on passing first try, and on being placed where you wanted experience

Thanks, Tammie! You are right. It's certainly a growing experience for all involved. It also certainly gives us quite an opportunity to pray like crazy for him.

I'm sure in the grand scheme if things, it'll all work out and he'll be happy and productive.

I do wish he'd felt more comfortable coming to us as he was making the decision. We want to be "here" for him and want him to know we love him more than we love even ourselves. All we can do now is support him in the decisions he's made.

Thanks! I'll update as I can on how the term is going.

 

[Steppesister]

Newbie on board I have only read all your updates linked, but to stay current, I am sorry to hear about your son- I know the feeling as my husband had gone back to school to upgrade to an advanced paramedic and unfortunately was unable to finish also (for a few reasons) and it is tough to deal with.
Congrats on your success, great marks! I gave a few of those pins you showed, it was really nice to see them all together! Looking forward to reading more

! So much welcome!!!! I'm afraid I can't welcome you by name, but I'm over-the-moon happy you're here!

It is hard when one sets a goal and then the door closes for whatever reason. Especially after a lot of hard work has been put in. And money. and emotional rah-rah.

Thanks for the cheering! I need all the cheering I can't get! It will take that, and more, to get me through this. The program is tough; there is no denying that. I have done very well in all of my university/ college classes, but this program is really giving me a run for my money.

I should post a picture of my entire pin collection someday.... Small as it is.

 

[DnA2010]

Whoops! Typo- I have a few of those pins from my early visits. I'm the A of DnA- Allyson here and following along

 

[Steppesister]

Seriously - How do you have time to update when you are in school?

I can't even find time to update anymore (but I have been working mandatory OT for months).

I love MNSSHP too. It's awesome. I've been to it 4 times. I guess I should post pics but I haven't even edited a thing from October. All I can tell you is I wore a costume and Denny refused to wear his and we had a BIG fight over that. Need I say more?

Right now is my golden window; I'm on Spring Break! Woot! Well it was untily laptop bit the big one. (Picture the scene of Gollum writhing in agony over his lost precious.)

I've of this monster named Mand OT. I am really not looking forward to that!

Pictures would certainly be great, but understand the photo editing hassle. It's funny though, I DO remember that story of the stubborn Denny. Mine wouldn't wear one either, I'm sure of it. Now.... To think of my own costume....