Thank you all for your wonderful hints and suggestions! We're looking forward to 3/13 Magic cruise. It's hubby and my 3rd cruise but major firsts for all. 1st Disney, 1st with kids, 1st with in-laws, 1st for in-laws. Can "big" kids play in the kids' clubs? I want to have a pj party, too! Having a hard time convincing hubby and grands that we won't see the kids much. Probably won't see me much either!!