Don't mean to be "snarky" ( a word i learned from DIS)
But... I really wonder about those freaking out here, complaining etc. Have you ever travelled any where else where hotels/motels dont have refridgerators??? I dont recall a fridge being a standard, unless you are thinking wet bar at better chains.
I understand being annoyed as Disney does list them now as an ammenity; or for medical.
IMO if you need to travel and be able to store your own food to make meals, etc. Maybe a hotel vacation is not for you?? Especially if there is onsite dining options Maybe a condo is a better option??? Hotel rooms are meant for sleeping, showering, not cooking. Especially for those having groceries delivered. The more I think about it, it wouldn't want strangers eating sandwiches on my bed at home, but in a hotel room it's ok?