Lisa: No WONDER you run--you need some time to yourself.

You know what I think you should do (not that you asked)? Start planning for next year's PH for some much-needed mental-health days. Especially if you could get that Orlando deal. Think of it as an accumulation of $20 small indulgences...
Mike: Oooh, I love farmer's markets, especially with the kind of vibe you mention. Almost as much as I love scotch. And it's good to learn you're a tree-hugger in your own way, thanks to your neighbors.

TMI? Nawwww. You know how astute I am at the whole reading of the "come hither" look. I could say something more about the synchronization issue, but that might be bawdy...
Lynn: And a good massage is worth more than $20, I'm sure. (Don't know, never had one.) But I'm totally into the idea of reading a good book in a jacuzzi.
Mike: I'm so happy that your perfect day is something you get to realize. And you're such a romantic. You and the Panda are kindred souls, I'll bet! I like diners myself, just not burgers.
Debbie: That's a really logical list. Given your criteria, I'd recommend fritters--they smell good and taste good!

Seriously, isn't part of the treat of a day like that is you don't feel pressured to make big choices?
JenB: All your options sound so much fun, although your Trout Fishing in America one reminded me to put summer family concerts on my list of summer to-dos!
Jennifer: Ahhh, the all-important sleeping in. No alarm clocks.

I love my local Panera, too, although it tends to be overrun by adolescents after school--they take full advantage of the free samples.

But at the right time, a Panera meal and a good read. Oh, yes!
Marci: And you so deserve those days. It must be really quite stressful for you right now. Methinks you'll need a double massage on the 16th.
Chris: I love the idea of a family outing at the zoo. River otters, my favorite. And hanging out, with no worries. Just being in the moment. Like the credit card companies say...priceless.
Jack: You live close the beach? Sweet! And I love that you mention no emails, texting, phones. I really value it when the only voices I hear on in my head.
Dave: What I love about these mental-health days, in addition to hearing so many people take good care of themselves in ways large and small, is poaching others' ideas. You remind me that I need to find a good, local Mexican place!
Mary: A picnic! Great idea, and not just reserved for holiday weekends! Your farm and horses sound lovely. Idyllic, really. I'll want to hear more of this life, so unlike my urban one.
Vicky: Wait, so you're saying you'd share your cupcakes with friends?

And I didn't know you are a tea person. That's so civilized!
Maria: Mmmm, coffee cake, butter pecan, dark Raisinets...some of my favorite flavors. And MST3000. I'm taking this all as a subtle hint that I should visit.

I'm with you on buying books becomes a special treat--libraries are so convenient, but sometimes you don't want to be on the wait list. (
Outlander, still waiting....) I'm so glad you're making plans for your upcoming mental-health day based on these ideas!

In my perfect world, none of the noshes have calories, but you're obviously more grounded in reality.
Julie: So glad to see you back here--I was wondering! In my perfect day, DOOD would do the laundry, clean, and cook, too. No chance of that, so may I borrow your mental-health day's DH?

No problem with the lack of details in your night after the kids go to bed. We'll just use our imaginations.
Tracy: I'm so glad you had a wonderful recovery day AND that you shared it with us. It's almost as good as being there. Big fan of Goofy's Candy Shop myself. Get some good sleep, girl, you deserve it!
Margie: In your case--as with Lynn, Marci, Vicky--you're worth the extra $$$ to get your heart's desire.

I hope you have the perfect place for getting a pedi. Those tootsies deserve the treat!
Lily: Oatmeal with flaxseed, huh?

Maybe I need to add some of the latter to my daily oatmeal. On our mental-health day, all goodies are calorie free. Or at least the first treat is! It sounds like you live in a perfect place for hiking, trail running, biking and so forth. You must never get bored on your routes.
Corinna: I'm sorry to hear you're so sick--and the kids, too. I love Panera's black bean soup, almost as much as I enjoy a good hot toddy. Can I have one of those? And you know how I feel about movies!

I hope you feel better soon.

Spring just has to visit your neck of the woods soon. Right?
As for me: Okay, this probably won't surprise anyone who knows me. My mental-health day is "all about me."

I'd sleep in and then go out for a short run (3-5 miles) in Schenley Park. It's nice, 50-60 degree weather, sunny but with a light wind. After lunch, maybe a good tomato and mozzarella bread salad, I'd walk to my local theater for a matinee. (I'd say with Corinna, but unfortunately she's not local.) Because we're allowed to bring in our own food, I'd bring in my own trail mix--almonds, dried fruit, a little chocolate--and a nonfat latte from the Barnes & Noble coffee shop right next door.
Afterwards, I'd stop by the grocery for Ben and Jerry's ice cream and, from the beer store, an as-of-yet-untried beer for DOOD. Since I can't reasonably expect DOOD to cook--not even on my fantasy day--I'd pull something out of the freezer. We'd eat together, sharing the ice cream, and take a short walk. Then, we'd spend the evening reading books (library or one from our collection that has yet to be loved) before going to bed early. And remember, the night is "all all about me" as well.
