The 3 Day is by far the hardest thing physically Ive ever done - including child birth. Mentally it was difficult too - however I did the walk the week after my mother's passing and FIL passed away while I was on the third day of the walk. I originally registered and started training for the walk to push myself into getting off of the couch. I did it for selfish reasons. However, the more I learned about breast cancer (I have not been personally effected by the disease, thank God.) the more it has become a passion of mine. The weekend changes you. There really is no explanation of how moving the experience is. You walk 20 miles a day for three days. The middle of the second day, you're hot, tired and dont think you can honestly take another step. All you want to do is get on a van, go back to camp, shower and relax. Then you turn a corner and see a little, frail, bald woman sitting in a chair, all by herself, holding a sign that says "Thank You". At that very point you realize that you CAN and WILL do it - for her if for nothing else. Ugh, I have tears just thinking about it.
Oh my... .that bolded line got me all choked up. And from the daughter and SIL of BC survivors,
THANK YOU!!
My in box is empty and waiting on all of your wonderful weigh ins tomorrow! I did receive a weigh in this morning!
Welcome to all of our new comers!!!! You're in GREAT company!
REMINDER: Please make sure that you put your team name in your title of message to me to save me time! Also write your WEIGHT not what you lost though you may include that as long as you also have given me your weight! With over 160 of you now, the easier things are the better!
Thanks for the reminders!!!
DH hid the scale for me. Now I am dying to weigh in tomorrow and see what it says! My pants don't feel any different so I am not very optimistic.
IMHO, you could easily lose 2-3 pounds and not feel it at all in your clothing. From my experience it has to be at least 5 pounds before I really feel it in my clothes. REmember, all of those pounds are NOT coming directly off your waistline or butt.... as much as we might wish they did!!
Goodness! I need a nap just reading that! I do like staying active though even it just means going here and there. Especially in the winter it is so easy to just stay cooped up in the house and that isn't very good for my mental health.
Oh well... I'm pretty used to this crazy schedule of ours. And honestly, I think when DD is driving herself next year, I will miss it a little. We really do have some GREAT talks in the car..... we laugh, we cry, we yell, we get warm and fuzzy, we debate, we sing.... DD thinks we should have our own reality tv show just showing us in the car!! Considering during an average week during swim season she and I are in the car together for at least 10-12 hours, that would be plenty of content for a weekly show. But the days when we are both PMSing together might be hard to watch!!
Love the Wholly Guacamole packs!
Sometimes the 100 cal packs are hard to find, so when I find them, I buy a few and put them in the freezer. Unfortunately, the 100 cal packs are too many points to eat it all at once.... so I usually eat only a half a packet... and I have to plan to eat the other half very soon, or it turns yucky brown. I usually seal it up in a snack size ziploc baggie... that will keep it okay for a day or two.
I am planning to get the family to try parsnips next. Just have to figure out where to buy them! haven't seen them in the store.
I like parsnips. I like to oven roast them with onions, carrots, and/or sweet potatoes!
Uh, I'm the poster child for all of the above!!!
I am the master at Procrastination - Why do today what you can put off til tomorrow?!?!?
Solution: Shut up and Do it! Check it off your list. you love to make lists, and love to cross things off that list even more.
Lateness: yep, that's me too. It's the Irish in me. Day late and a dollar short. I've always said I'll be late to my own funeral.
Solution: Last year I learned my inner clock is set to 11 minutes after the hour. No matter what time of day it was when I looked at the clock it was 11 minutes after. I have learned to change appt times, meeting times, etc to work around that number. I don't make appt for 9:00 I make them for 9:15 or 9:30 etc.
Disorganized: coincides with lateness. If I were a kid today I would probably would have been diagnosed with ADD.
Solution: this is where my lists come in. I need them to keep my thoughts organized. I usually make my list the night before and keep it with me at all times.
I LOVE lists too! I make lists everyday, for everything! Makes my family a bit crazy sometimes, but works well for me. And good job learning how to work around your internal clock.
Not being honest with myself: This one is odd. You know when anorexics have body dysmorphic disorder, where no matter what anyone says their brains have convinced them they are fatter then they really are?
I have to opposite of that. I'm very aware that I'm not thin but in my brain I am not as fat as I am when I look in the mirror. It's always a shock to me when I see it. Even in my dreams I'm not huge. I see myself in pictures (like the ones from yesterday running the snow blower) and I'm like god, I'm huge!
Also I tend to lie to myself and try to convince myself that one coke, or one cookie would be ok.
Solution sounds stupid but look in a full length mirror more often. I don't really look in the mirror, I mean really look.
For food, one of a bad thing is one of a bad thing!! At this point food has to be treated as an addiction. If I grant myself one cookie, I know it will turn into 5 or 10. Better to do without at this point.
I said EXACTLY this a few years ago!!! But honestly.... do we EVER really know what size we are??? I pick up pants when I go shopping and look at the size and think..."these are DEFINITELY mis-marked... they can't possibly fit me... they are too small" And then when they fit I am SHOCKED. The fact that I grab a pair of pants from the laundry basket and assume they are 12 y/o DS's before I check the tag... and then I realize they are mine.
I point to people at the mall occasionally when I am with DD and say "Am I that size??" And I am never right.... I always pick people waaaay bigger than I am. In fact, a friend of DD's tagged a FB photo this fall and tagged the person as DD (15 y/o, slim and athletic) when in fact it was me (from the back)!! Anyhow, sorry, not trying to brag.... but I think that it is really hard for ANY of us to really acknowledge our size. That is why it is so important to have feedback about HEALTHY weight.... so we are basing our goal weights on what is HEALTHIEST and not what we see in the mirror (or in our minds).
Whew, didn't mean to write a book. But I'm really liking the questions. It's my journal of sorts. I'm gonna go print this out and paste it in my journal.
Thanks Lisa!!!
Glad you took the time to say all that.... I'm sure it was cathartic for you and it is nice to get to know more about you... and to see that we are ALL struggling with personal issues that relate to our weight.
These BL threads are GREAT places for reflection and serve as a pseudo-journal for many of us.
Another one who is standing in their own way. I'm guilty of not being honest with myself, severe self-criticism, downplaying achievements, focusing only on weaknesses, keeping goals a secret, demanding imperfection, giving up after a small setback. What am I doing about it?? I'm coming to this board daily, I am wearing my Bodybugg everyday, downloading the information everyday, tracking my food as accurately as possible and not leaving anything out. I told a couple of people in my office what I am doing (something I normally don't do). One is out having the gastric bypass surgery and another is looking into it. I was told I am wasting my time that diet and exercise don't work. So I have posted my weightloss on a board in my office - I have another person participating too, I ran off a copy of the results of Team Donald and highlighted my name at number 7 LOL and hung that on the board. I have quotes from Bob and Jillian on the board. Did I mention they hate the BL even though they have never watched it.
LOL I'll show them!!!!
You know what? Maybe that is JUST the kind of challenge you really need! I know that for many of us, when someone says "it can't be done" or "you can't do that".... it makes us even MORE determined to show them that it CAN be done!!!
I have a friend who talked to me about my weight loss about a year ago. She was considering Gastric bypass at the time and wanted to know what I did. I talked to her about WW, my struggles and my successes. I offered to kind of "walk the walk" with her. But she already had her mind made up that diet and exercise WEREN'T going to work for her. She had the gb surgery this past fall. I know she was losing some weight, but I haven't seen her or talked to her since about early November, so I'm not sure how it is going. I really pray for success for her, but I wish she had given WW a try before going for something drastic like life-altering surgery. You are gonna ROCK THIS WEIGHT LOSS!!
Hi Team Donald!
I don't think I posted over here since I got back from WDW Marathon weekend. I don't know that I have a whole race report - I ran the half, and it was nice. I volunteered (and cheered) for the full, and it was pretty cold! I met up with lots of WISHers and had a great time! I am planning on doing 2 more half marathons in the next month and a half, if all goes well, so I did not run the race hard. To me, it is kind of amazing that I'm able to run a half marathon and feel really none the worse for wear afterward. Three years ago, I never would have imagined that was possible.
I didn't track my food so much over the weekend, but I did my best not to overdo it, and I came back and hopped on the scale - I was down a little bit, even, so that is a relief, but pretty much what I expected given that my pants were still fitting the same.

The pants don't lie!
1/13/11 Thursday QOTD: Who is standing in your way? And more importantly, what are you going to do about it?
I don't let anyone or anything stand in my way. OK, that's not necessarily 100% true. But I don't let them stand in my way for long. I have enough momentum going that they had better be the ones to move.
Good luck with tomorrow's weigh-ins, everyone!!!
Glad you're back! Glad to hear that the half marathon went well. What kind of volunteering did you do for the marathon? Any race pictures to share??
Procrastination, lateness, being disorganized, pessimism, not being honest with yourself, severe self-criticism, downplaying achievements, focusing only on weaknesses while ignoring strengths, keeping goals a secret, demanding perfection, giving up after a small setback--these are all ways you can make it tough to be (and do) your best.
1/13/11 Thursday QOTD: Who is standing in your way? And more importantly, what are you going to do about it?
Mine would be procrastination which I am slowly working on in all areas of my life.
Today (well yesterday 1/13) was good. I shoveled a bit more snow and danced for a half hour. I also accomplished a goal and actually drank 8 glasses of water. I have been trying to acheive that since the 1st and finally did it.
I also had a huge snowball fight with friends. We meet in my BFF's backyard since it secluded and have a midnight snowball fight. It was so much fun and I am exhausted from all the running around. I did indulge in some hot chocolate when we got inside.
oooo... that snowball fight sounds like FUN! Wish I had friends in the neighborhood we could do things with like that.
Kathy and P--Did I ever tell you about Tom and the shower? Tom always had a book in his hands--he would get in trouble for reading when he was supposed to be doing something else. Anyhow, I can't remember how old he was--somewhere between 4th and 6th grade I think--and he kept going in the bathroom and locking the door. And he'd be in the shower FOREVER! Well he was turning the shower on and then sitting there and reading a book and just letting the shower run!!! We tried taking the lock off the door and finally threatened to take the door off it's hinges! It was crazy! (And with his skin disorder he really needed a daily shower!) Anyhow, it's funny now, but we used to have to threaten to punish him if we even found a book in his bathroom! Those silly boys!

Sounds like my DS... except he really doesn't like reading. But we went through a period of time where he wasn't really showering when he said he was. He would turn on the shower, kind of get in and splash some water on himself and get out. It was pretty easy to tell most days because his hair would look dirtier than ever when it dried! I started making him take baths for a while and I would tell him I had to be able to come in and SEE shampoo in his hair!!
In his defense, when his skin issues were really bad, the showers were actually PAINFUL, so it was hard to get mad at him. But regardless, he needed to be CLEAN!
Rose, did I tell you that I took DS to a naturopath/homeopathic doctor? I haven't been overly impressed by
her, but the treatment really seems to be working! It is an answer to prayer! He is on three different supplements and one homeopathic remedy and since his initial appointment on 11/8, I would guesstimate that his skin has cleared up approximately 75%. That is with NO dietary changes and NO steroids or antibiotics!!
Good Friday morning friends! I hope the scale fairy was kind to most of you! I lost .6, which may not sound like much, but at this stage of the game for me, that is a very decent loss. I am just 1.6 away from being back at what I am considering my maintenance weight (although truth be told, I would prefer to be another 2-4 pounds lower

).
It is rare for me to have a loss two weeks in a row lately. Between not having much to lose and "female" issues and such, I average about one good loss week a month. But I am learning to be okay with that.... it is just the way my body processes things. Some of you may learn things like that about yourselves. Sometimes, despite our best efforts, our bodies are trying HARD to hang on to every last ounce. Or we are retaining fluids that we might not even be aware of, due to hormonal issues. We ALL need to find the strength to go on after frustrating weeks when we don't lose.
I'm heading up to my scrapbook table as soon as I am done chatting here. Laundry is going, dishwasher is loaded, downstairs is picked up, so I am feeling okay about things here. Last night's soup leftovers are for lunch today, and I picked up a nice piece of fish for dinner (since DD, the non-pescatarian, is gone tonight), so easy cooking today.
I'll be back later to chat a bit more..............P