donac
Wife, mother, math teacher, quilter
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UGH. I HATE to hear that attitude about bypass or other surgical options. I looked into them and seriously considered it. But surgery is just a TOOL that helps you along with EXERCISE and DIET changes.Anyone who says they are doing the surgery that they don't want to exercise and diet is NOT ready to have the surgery, and any doctor that would do it for them is a quack. Yes they will lose some weight, but without making the appropriate changes they will never lose enough or will gain much of it back. And if you continue to fill your body with crap foods and sit around and do nothing your overall health won't be helped by just losing some weight.
Okay, off my soapbox.
I have a friend who talked to me about my weight loss about a year ago. She was considering Gastric bypass at the time and wanted to know what I did. I talked to her about WW, my struggles and my successes. I offered to kind of "walk the walk" with her. But she already had her mind made up that diet and exercise WEREN'T going to work for her. She had the gb surgery this past fall. I know she was losing some weight, but I haven't seen her or talked to her since about early November, so I'm not sure how it is going. I really pray for success for her, but I wish she had given WW a try before going for something drastic like life-altering surgery. You are gonna ROCK THIS WEIGHT LOSS!!
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I have a friend who did GB and while she hasn't gained it all back she gained a lot. She had to lose the weight to get the double knee replacement but without good knees she couldn't lose the weight. It was a vicious cycle. Now granted she's a nurse and a single mom to triplets so it's not easy for her but I'm like she went through all of the hell GB puts you through and for what?!
I just had to comment on this. My dh's sister was very overweight and went for gb. with all the pain and all of her other medications she almost ended up in a coma. She never changed her attitude and now is gaining it all back. she never works out or watches what she eats.
I have two cousins who just underwent gb this past summer. I know that least one of them has never changed his attitude I think he will also gain it all back.
It is not the be all and end all that people think it is.