Actually EROS, I have 20 years worth of professional experience dealing with terminally-ill patients, and, sadly, quite a bit of personal experience dealing with terminally ill patients, so your presumption regarding my lack of experience is incorrect.
Rest assured Robin, that my prayers and thoughts are with you and your child during this very difficult time. I see from many of the posts here that your husband was a wonderful, caring, giving man. What a legacy to leave. God bless him and grant him rest, and God bless you and your daughter.