A different/new school is in order unfortunately
I've spent many, many hours developing a spreadsheet with DD17 of colleges she is interested in and feel like I can chime in here with some pretty recent information.
I am not sure where you are located but there are MANY schools, very good schools, in the Northeast where they meet 100% of financial need. For those whose income is less than $50K, that almost always means nearly free. These are the schools with price tags in the $58-$62K range.
We are having difficult finding schools (other than the state schools) that are under this price range. Because DD's dad puts us out of most financial aid scenarios (and yet will not or can not pay the full amount of EFC he'll be "assigned") we are now researching schools with the best merit aid. It sounds as though your daughter might be in a category where she could good substantial aid. One advisor told us to look at schools that would want DD, those that the average student is a bit below her capabilities, and they would offer the most $$. Another advisor told us "a white girl with a GPA in the 4.0 range and SATS at 200-2100, looking to attend a NE mini-ivy school, is the kiss of death" and we should look outside the NE area. We are now looking at schools in upstate NY and the Philly area.
Although DD will most likely be accepted into most schools on her list, it'll all come down to the financial packages she is offered. I believe, like someone else mentioned on this thread, that a good student will do well anywhere. I refuse to mortgage the farm to pay for her bachelors degree. In the end, even though she doesn't really want to go to a large school, she'll go to UMass Amherst if that is all we can afford. Not that it is a bad school, in fact, it is a great school, but it is VERY large.
I'd go to collegeboard.org to their search engine, pick a major, a region, and 100% need met and see what pops up. You can use their financial estimating calculator for each school. You might be surprised at the list of schools she can chose from and that are affordable to you.
Good luck!