Bunny and Liz:
OK...here is my suggestion for practicing your breathing and it's what I have my clients do in the beginning of class

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Remain seated, legs crossed if that's comfy, and place your hands on your rib cage. Now focus on your breathing...pilates style

. Inhale LATERALLY, in other words breath into the palms of your hands expanding your waist outward, instead of filling and puffing out your belly. When you exhale imagine you are wearing a corset and as you breath out everything tightens as if the corset is tightening around your waist (belly button pulls in, ribs "knit" towards one another, even pelvic floor muscles tighten...think kegel exercises

). Now inhale again into your waist and palms of your hands....exhale and feel that imaginary corset tightening around your waist. You should actually feel, on the exhale, that your fingers begin to draw near one another as you tighten those muscles. This is the traditional pilates breathing exercise.
What I'd like you to try next is to lay down on the floor, knees bent, and practicing this breathing pattern. THEN...draw your knees into "table top" with shins parallel to ceiling at a 90 degree angle...again practice this breath. Once you get used to this breathing you can use it during pilates, running or any type of exercise. What happens is that the breathing itself actually works the muscles, helps to keep your core tightened and automatically helps your posture.
Let me know if you have any questions at all about what I just typed. It may be slightly confusing

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Tracey: Windsor Pilates is pretty good...you probably don't need to get the other video unless you want some more variety

. If you have any questions about the exercises just let me know...the only thing with Windsor that I'm not as happy with is that they don't always explain the exercises as much as I'd like. Otherwise it will still give you a great workout

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