loribell
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Jul 15, 2001
- Messages
- 4,714
still waiting for call back from dr, out of office, ds snoozing; guess we're in a holding pattern![]()
fyi, did i ever mention what finally convinced me to stop smoking?
whilst bundled up in an afghan on front porch one cold winter day (didn't smoke in house so as not to harm kiddos once i found out about 2nd hand smoke effects); a gust of wind caught the end of my lit cigarette & i got a nasty burn on my eye. Quick trip to ER, they saved it; had to wear a patch for a loooooooooong time & continued treatment...no permanent damage. A blessing in disguise for me to finally put them things down for good.
almost 10 years, not a day goes by i don't want one
![]()
Glad you gave up those nasty things. Nothing makes me madder than the fact that my son started smoking. Even after watching my grandmother die of lung cancer. Just makes me fume!
Hope DS is doing okay. Let us know when you find something out. That is a little scary.
I'm home. I dropped Joshua off at school, Daniel off with the in laws, and headed down to Atlanta. The surgeon was in to see Carol this morning. He is "cautiously optimistic" at the scans and MRI. He believes that the chemo did something positive. When it shrank the cancer, it appears that it pulled away from Carol's chest wall. Now that the cancer is growing again, it seems to be spreading upward... toward her shoulder... instead of back into her chest like it was before. He was able to move the mass when he shifted her skin back and forth, which gives us all hope that the cancer is a mass that he can now remove.
We've gone from hoping to buy her time to having a glimmer of hope that she might just beat this thing.
At this point, I'll take a damn glimmer and hang on.
Surgery will be tomorrow, but they haven't booked the OR time yet. I'll let you know when we've got a set time.
You guys are the best. Really. I can't even begin to tell you how much it means that you're all out there thinking of me/us.![]()
Thanks for the good news. I am going to hold on to that as more than a glimmer. Lets all stay positive and help Carol beat this thing. I'm thinking of you.

Very quick fly by....
Sorry I can't respond to everyone, just very busy.
Feeling a little under the weather yest and today.
DH has been having car problems lately. THe steering column of his car locked up on Sunday, here at home. Had to have his car towed Sun evening. Then had to have it towed again to the car dealership on Monday.
We had to get a rental car last night, as I needed hte van today, to take Matthew to band practice at the jr,. high afterschool today. Lots of juggling here and there with these stupid cars![]()
I htink we are picking up his car tonight at the dealership, I think it's fixed now. Won't be here on hte boards tonight.
My mom called me last night to rag at me, about my DH should have gotten this taken care of with his car over the summer. My mom rags all the time, ever since i was a kid![]()
![]()
she thinks her way is the ONLY way. I asked if we can borrow my dad's car, she siad NO, which i knew she would. She doesn't want anything happen to their cars. She said it is good to be independent of her, which I never was dependent of her, only when I was a kid.
Ok, gotta run and take Matthew to band practice soon.
Have a good evening everyone.
Some times it just seems like when it rains it poors. Stay positve Rose. Sorry your mom is like that. My mother and I don' thave the greatest of relationships and she can say some really stupid, hateful crap and not ever even realize she said it but if I needed to borrow a car she sure wouldn't say no.

Sorry just trying to catch up and hope your DS is ok cause I know how he feels and under my eyelid is still swollen pretty good and now under that is swelling too and hope this ends soon and was painful but pain is starting to go away but the swelling is taking its time and did i mention the itching![]()
