glad things went smooth for dh. hopefully the kids will be quiet and let the mr relax and be pampered by the family.
rose, when you post things to a "lurker" it sets a tone here that is out of place with the boards. if you feel you have a lurker, i strongly suggest you contact your local police and let them deal with it.
also, contact the mods directly on the disboards for assistance since you are upset over this.
they can check the isp and help you with this problem.
none of us here want to be involved in any serious issue where we have to be concerned on our own well being by posting on a message board.
we don't know everyone here and when you post the way you have, it is a concern for the rest of us.
posters "vent" on this thread for minor things. those vents have nothing to do with threats, illegal activities or stalking and harassments.
venting about kids, school, work things are nothing compared to issues that you have brought up.
i have been receiving pm's from homies, who will remain anonymous, that are wondering what you are talking about in being stalked on a dis board.
they wonder if they will be brought into this and what will happen to them.
for that reason, i have to address this situation as best i can.
i do not want to have you feel bad about this heads up to you but need you to take it to the proper authorities for the future.
the homies are not uncaring for what you are experiencing but do not want anything to intrude into their lives for posting here.
i don't want any of the homies here to feel they can't post what is on their minds thinking this thread is being "watched".
please join in with the yaking and joking on the thread.
we enjoy your company but it's time to leave the personal notes type of posting behind.
I was tired earlier this morning and being Italian, I have a hot temper at times 
Whats A dad to do?????
, so many youngins haven't seen the flick they r paying homage to...im betting u've seen it!
and i had a wee bit free time this morning (the boy had a sleep over at my mammys) Ive gone for the individual pots....I placed one at each door with a paper and muffin...wait a minute...i think ive taken this to far !! 
jk
