Thank ya'll for all your support. It means so much. I've been feeling mildly guilty for not going up to help out. I nursed my father through his last days with lung cancer and honestly, I just can't do it again.

We live pretty far away.I will only be able to make one trip, so I've decided to go up for the funeral. GiGi understands--she doesn't want anyone making a fuss. I figure after she passes, we're all going to need each other--that's when I'll go.