LindsayDunn228
<font color=teal>Quite a hunk of man, isn't he???<
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I'm so sorry 



for your family.
Don't feel guilty. That is not what she would want. Can you talk with her on the phone, let her have moments to talk with you, even about small little things. For someone going thru what she is it might help to talk to someone who is "removed" from the situation a little because things can be so intense at times. But don't feel guilty, you obviously love her, just let her know that, ask her what you can do for her, maybe you could offer to write some thank you notes for her, or some other minor things for her family that she might be worrying about, maybe picking up something for her daughter to wear to the funeral(not trying to sound morbid here) but a mom would worry about these things. Her kids schools would be finishing up soon, you could offer to get a couple of gift cards from target or walmart for them to give their teachers so that they would have an end of the year gift taken care of and she wouldn't have to think about that,(if that was something they usually do) Good Luck, keep us posted.minkydog said:Thank ya'll for all your support. It means so much. I've been feeling mildly guilty for not going up to help out. I nursed my father through his last days with lung cancer and honestly, I just can't do it again.We live pretty far away.I will only be able to make one trip, so I've decided to go up for the funeral. GiGi understands--she doesn't want anyone making a fuss. I figure after she passes, we're all going to need each other--that's when I'll go.
