Oh my goodness DisneyAlly! I just don't see how Aulani could get poor reviews. Granted, it was our first time to Hawaii, but I was overwhelmed at the level of service, theming, and originality of the resort.
We had a car, and I know that helped with dining. While we were in the studio, we bought premade salads, wraps, and $10 pizza at Costco (about 5 minute drive)!
As far as the pools go, I just don't see an overcrowding issue. While we were there, the resort was at capacity. Actually, a cast member at the front desk told us they were actually overbooked, and not sure how that was going to work out. The pools were not crowded. There was always room in the 2-tier infinity hot tubs to watch the sunset. There were only about 3-4 people in front of us to ride the slides. I always felt like we were kind of alone in the lazy river - very rarely did we collide with another tube. We had so much room in the pool btw, my son and husband were able to toss a football back and forth without there being anyone near. I don't get it!
Take advantage of Community Hall, Storytelling time, the Menehune trail if you have a child (mine is 9), Starlit Hu'i, and the Sunset ceremonies. I can't wait to get back! This is the first time I ever wanted to add points. Can you believe we only have 200 points and managed 10 days in Hawaii with three of those nights in a 1-bedroom ON CHRISTMAS?? Wow! I am finally back on the
DVC train.