Pooh, I am a believer in talking things out. Not that it works in my particular case, but I understand that it does with normal folks, even if they might be afflicted with 'maleness'.

Did you point out how he might feel if you were doing the same thing? I have been around a time or three and have seen much and know that many innocent things lead to trouble and are best avoided. When I worked outside the home I had a rule that if I found myself becoming attracted to anyone I would distance myself. It is always easier to think someone perfect that you do not have to live with and pick up after and that is rarely so. Better to keep the problem you have than to learn to deal with a new one.

I am glad you guys could talk. BTW, a man who can do laundry is worth arguing with IMO.
keliblue, did you have your trick or treat last night? We did. I have treats for about 350 and still had to snag my grandkids candy stash I keep for them here. The cookies were a hit. I used candy corn to make the eyes and black licorice for the whiskers.
wic0721, did you get Kelli ready on time??
I am thinking of doing something totally out of character for me. I do not NEED a new refrigerator as mine works fine, has cracked shelves and no see through drawers and stuff on the bottom shelf grows mold as it gets lost. I also have a husband who literally will not reach beyond the first couple of inches for a drink so beverages go bad often. The fridge I want is on sale for nearly $150 less than regular and I am thinking about ordering it today. It is not like we have to charge it or anything but I did not get to where I am by buying stuff unnecessarily. The new one has a freezer on the bottom. Anyone else have one? Do you like it???
SG/Linda
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