We have met and talked about the FE gifts and they are all on board. They just aren't on Dis. Some are lurking but don't have the time to participate. They're leaving me in charge of the planning.
We certainly can provide individual gifts --- one was something personalized/custom, etc. so more than one family was going to have to cover this -- our hearts are in this, or maybe we can just do our own group since I feel like a lot is getting lost in translation??

I promise we are not trying to take advantage of the FE and I assure you that they are all willing participants. We are even considering the special nights and were hoping that some of our gifts could be delivered on particular days.
In the past, I have paid for Dis lanyards, printing costs, and FE gifts. I promise I'm not a slacker when it comes to this. Perhaps I haven't been on this thread long enough for people to 'know' me. No Dis'ers from my old sailings here to vouch for me.
It may be best that we have our own exchange. Sorry if anyone thought that we weren't being fair. Hate to start out that way.
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We'll all be on the Amtrak train together on 9/20. Please look for us if you're on the same train!