Hi All,
This is not specifically Disney related (although if I can start saving more money, I will be able to take a trip faster!
), but everyone here always has such good financial advice ![smile :) :)](http://www.wdwinfo.com/images/smilies/smile.gif)
For reasons that I won't get into (nothing horrible, just at my wit's end being solely responsible for the financial well-being of our family), we have decided that DH and I will separate our finances and each take a portion of the bills to pay each month. We have never done this...both our paychecks have always gone into the same account and I have paid the bills and done my budget on the combined incomes.
DH feels very restricted this way (like he gets an allowance) and I admit that I do the budget to the penny. I have always asked him what he needs for the week for gas and spending money, he tells me, I budget it, and he overspends anyway. I try to use the cash system, which works great for ME, but he spends all of his cash then goes to the ATM, which defeats the purpose. sigh.
Anyway, I just wanted to see if anyone has any tips, stories of success OR failure, and any other advice about one household using different accounts, splitting the bills, keeping their money separate, etc.
**And, because I know how boards can get, I respectfully want to specify that I am NOT looking for marital or personal advice....DH and I have been together for more than 20 years, married for 16 years this summer, and do not have any plans to change this
I just need financial advice on using a different budgeting/bill paying method that we have never tried before.
This is not specifically Disney related (although if I can start saving more money, I will be able to take a trip faster!
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![smile :) :)](http://www.wdwinfo.com/images/smilies/smile.gif)
For reasons that I won't get into (nothing horrible, just at my wit's end being solely responsible for the financial well-being of our family), we have decided that DH and I will separate our finances and each take a portion of the bills to pay each month. We have never done this...both our paychecks have always gone into the same account and I have paid the bills and done my budget on the combined incomes.
DH feels very restricted this way (like he gets an allowance) and I admit that I do the budget to the penny. I have always asked him what he needs for the week for gas and spending money, he tells me, I budget it, and he overspends anyway. I try to use the cash system, which works great for ME, but he spends all of his cash then goes to the ATM, which defeats the purpose. sigh.
Anyway, I just wanted to see if anyone has any tips, stories of success OR failure, and any other advice about one household using different accounts, splitting the bills, keeping their money separate, etc.
**And, because I know how boards can get, I respectfully want to specify that I am NOT looking for marital or personal advice....DH and I have been together for more than 20 years, married for 16 years this summer, and do not have any plans to change this
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