Okay, I really should not be doing this right now, I should be getting my home back in order for Ron's 20th Annual 4th of July Weekend Celebration. I've got to transform my apartment from makeshiff daycare back into a presentable living space. Ron has been hosting this BBQ for 20 years now, since he was 16 years old and his parents went away for the weekend and told him he could have a FEW friends over. We will probably have about 50 or so guests come and go during our two day BBQ. Just to clarify how we manage this in an apartment, we rent the bottom floor of an old farm house and the yard is included.
But instead of making lists, cleaning house and organizing, i am taking this moment of silence in the house (baby is napping and the other two are at camp) to post a new addition to my PTR.
I was able to take some time to really look into the TGM crystal ball, and make some decisions about our plans. I ended up changing only two of my ADRs.
So here are my final ADRs:
Fri November 28 - Hoop Dee Doo (5pm)
Sat November 29 - Chef Mickey (11:20am)
Sun November 30 - Tusker House (8:20am)
Mon December 1 - Whispering Canyon Cafe (11:55am)
Tues December 2 - no ADR
Wed December 3 - Hollywood & Vine Fantasmic (3:50pm)
Thur December 4 - Biergarten (12:00pm)
Fri December 5 - Boma (7:30pm)
Sat December 6 - Pirate Cruise (9:00am)
Now I know some of those times may look a little 'off', but don't worry they will work. Really, they will.
Here is how I see Day 1 playing out....
Wait, wait, wait, first let me warn you: I do tend to over-plan and my schedule may look jam packed because I do get a little over zealous, but I am also quite easy going and can adapt and go with the flow when I
need to. I don't have to be in control of every little thing.
Ummm.... does anyone else hear laughing??
No really it's true! And to prove it let me tell you a little story about my wedding day.
I had it planned and mapped out to a tee. I hand painted wine glasses as favors for each guest, I made all the centerpieces, the wedding arch, I co-ordinate transportation for my entire wedding party and about 30 guests (friends and family who flew in from Germany) to go from their accommodations to a park for photos, then to the place where the ceremony would take place (a replica of a landmark church that can be rented out by the day), and then to the reception hall. It was all timed out so perfectly, it was like clockwork

. I even built in time to actually get the family photos done with enough time to get to the reception and enjoy the cocktail hour without missing a moment of it.
Then it happened.... the big snafu. Three weeks before my wedding day, I get a call from the place were the ceremony is to be held and they inform me that they are so sorry but they booked two weddings for the same day. WHAT!!!!
How did they fix it????? They said here..., here is the other bride’s number; maybe the two of you can work something out. WHAT!!!
So I call this poor girl, who freaked!!! We came to realize that our ceremonies were scheduled to start 1 hour apart from one another. We agreed that I would move mine 1/2 an hour later and she would move hers1/2 hour earlier, giving us 2 hours in between our respective ceremonies. Whew crisis averted - wait no now we have to inform our guests of the time change.... Okay done, ...now crisis averted. Everything is back on track, schedules have been revised.
We are a go, people!
The big day arrives, a Limo picks me and my bridesmaids up, a bus picks up Ron and his grooms men, and we all meet the photographer at the scenic park for a little photo shoot. Meanwhile two buses pick up the Germans and shuttle them to the ceremony location, where they will be met by our bridal party who has gone on ahead of Ron and I in the groomsmen bus while Ron and I take more photographs. The plan is to have everyone seated inside when we arrive so that Ron can slip in and wait for me to make my grand entrance without anyone else getting a glimpse of me before hand. So far the plan is working great, everything is running on time, we get done with the bridal party pics and send them on their way.... Ron and I take our photos and then hop in the limo to get to the church on time. And we did!! Only to find my entire bridal party and all my guests standing outside on the lawn. We pull in and my aunt walks up to the car and informs us that the previous wedding hasn't even started yet. HUH?? Yea, it seams that their priest is stuck in Memorial Day traffic and is already 2 hours late; apparently he was coming from New Jersey
The other bride was asking to borrow our priest when hers showed up just moments after we pulled in. .............
This was MY wedding day; NOTHING was going to spoil it or how I was feeling. So I just went with the flow and hung out in the limo drinking Champaign with Ron. Before long guests were knocking on our window to see if I was okay (.... and then there were the Germans who were just knocking to see inside a real live limousine). I realized that I would have no choice but to let everyone see me and forego my grand entrance down the aisle.
And since we were now worried about time (after all I did not want to miss my cocktail hour or pay extra for the limos - we were on a budget) I made the decision to have the family photos taken right then and there while we waited. Everyone was amazed at how easily I transitioned and managed the situation and myself. I was determined not to let this ruin my day. Only two things upset me that day. One was when the other bride's ceremony was over they wanted to take some pictures in front of the building - which was fine with me. However they took forever to do it with no regard to the 75 people standing around waiting for them to finish. I let 30 minutes go by when I finally told my aunt that I had had enough. We were going in no matter what, we still had to put my handmade wedding arch up - I had already given up on any of the other decorations I wanted to put up, but I was not giving up my arch. I worked too hard on it. Anyway my bridal party got in and put up my arch and we got back on track. The second thing that upset me that day was when the other couple decided to blast the limo’s wedding horn as they drove off, right in the middle of our vows. It's all on the video between I and do (we had to do a do-over).
So this proves that I can go with the flow when I need to. (There it is again...... laughter....Anyone else here that?) So don’t pay too much attention to the
super packed, crazy, commando style itinerary. I wasn’t going to let anything ruin my wedding and I am definitely not letting anything ruin Disney, not even my own ambitious plans. I am fully aware that things may have to be (and probably will be) cut out along the way.
And now back to the plans….
So this is how I see Day 1 going..........
Oh poop!! The baby just woke up. Oh well, more later...
HAVE A GREAT 4th OF JULY EVERYONE
